WHAT will make JW be ACCEPTED? - Page 4

and yes he is more sensible than Sujal - you wouldnt see JW doing something so ridiculous as proposing to his dead wife's elder sister on her chautha, no matter how much he was in love with her!!! 😆 his love is selfish, JW's is not.

Originally posted by: khattimeeti

JW is not selfish............. nisha....... think again................. well he is not selfish but a selfwhale....................

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Originally posted by: khattimeeti

nisha............ u can tolerate ppl who are b**tards............... but u simply hate ppl who swing between idiot and B**tards...............becoz u simply cannot trust them....... they can swing either ways.......................
what i meant here is........ i love evil men................... becoz they are evil all the way............................ but JW................. is........ boring..... becoz........... he simply wants to keep everybody happy................
he wants his child........ and bani............. he has to choose................... he is weak......... very weak.................... thats all i mean..............

i guess it depends on the opinion of each - i personally prefer bad guys who are good at the core, rather than evil b*stards! what's wrong with wanting to keep everyone happy? he's not having difficulty chosing between Pia's child and Bani, if he did then he would be happy she was pregnant!! the only reason he kept her in the house today was because of his dream the previous day - he doesnt want bani hurt. even in today's uk epi, its all about how things will affect BANI, not himself!!

Originally posted by: anushka_5

Hello Everyone!

Let me confirm this is NOT a post to defend Jai... cause nothing I would have to say in his defence or otherwise will change much of the opinion about Jai Walia here.

This is something i wanted to ask for a long long time as long as 6-7 months. 😃

WHAT do u expect from Jai Walia? Cause as much as i have seen nothing what Jai has done seemed to have convinced everyone... there is a still something left expecting from him... So WHAT is that?

He is a hero one day and the next day we dont even want to acknowlege his presence, the next day he is back to being the hero! He spells out his preferences... his words arent taken seriously....cause his actions presumedly suggests different. His actions are not taken seriously considered either, cause he doesnt SAY anything. Wo kare tho kare kya?

So would love to hear what is that YOU expect of Jai Walia for you to accept him? Back then, Now, and in the fuutre? Or have u given up on him fully?(careful while answering it, I just might hold it against U at somepoint... Anu is getting wicked😆) Lets see if our expectations turn him into someone he is not and can never be...

Let me start it off... I accept him the way he is, the only thing that i want from is him has nothing got to do with Bani or Pia or the Baby, I want him to take CONTROL of HIS life😡. That should be the only thing on my wish list....Would love to hear yours.

Lots of Love & Hugs

Anu.

Anu,

Excellent topic... Frankly, I think Jai has mostly been put under a critical eye... Not saying he is not deserving of it considering some of his actions do put him into question. Nonetheless, I still love him. The man has went to hell and come back in one peice and still stands firm... Sure, he is afraid of Bani knowing what happened that night in Dubai (if anything happened that is), but that is a fear that haunts the passionate lover in him. For someone who has lived life up until now lonely, searching and finally finding that one soulmate, this is expected. Personally, I still think that nothing did occur in Dubai, but whatever was shown was Pia.. She took advantage of a man who was weighed down with intense emotions, lost in the sea of his love and yearning for escape... Well, we're not talking about Pia (must remember because I can go off on tangents about her...). From Jai, I only want him to tell Bani what he assumes happened that night himself, not by any other way. For once, I want him to say the inevitable three words to her "I LOVE YOU Bani"... my ears are awaiting that... not that it is necessary to explain in words, but it will shut out those foul mouths and cast away the evil eyes which prey him (ehem.. Pia)... On another note, people have been questioning his love for Bani. I don't doubt him at all in that area. From the immense pain he reflected, the guilt, the shame, the yearn... it all is enough for me to understand that no one can take Bani's place in his life... I might have more to say, but I have to think about it lol😆 Anyways, I still love my Laddoo😳 Gosh, he looked like a million bucks times two today!!😳😳

Cheers,

dc

Originally posted by: Cordelia

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i guess it depends on the opinion of each - i personally prefer bad guys who are good at the core, rather than evil b*stards! what's wrong with wanting to keep everyone happy? he's not having difficulty chosing between Pia's child and Bani, if he did then he would be happy she was pregnant!! the only reason he kept her in the house today was because of his dream the previous day - he doesnt want bani hurt. even in today's uk epi, its all about how things will affect BANI, not himself!!

Cord,

Ditto!! Everything starts and finishes at Bani.. the one person whom he fears to lose as she has been gifted to him after so many of life's trials... If he wants to keep everyone happy, then there is nothing wrong about that. In fact, that is what most people want isn't it? I mean I want to keep all my family happy, the fact if I can or not is another question, but I still want to. I don't blame the man!!

Cheers,

dc

Originally posted by: Raania

i want to see the mad seething with anger and vicious Jai Walia...the man that nobody can say no to or go against...the man we saw in the starting..whatever he wants he gets...thats the man i want to see and to add onto all this for God sakes i want him to tell Bani that he loves her ...the words I LOVE YOU BANI...and not in some dream...but in reality......thats what i want to see 😳

OMG... Raania just imagining Jai like that again makes my heart race, my cheeks burn.. omg..😳😳... yes, Jai has yet to spell those magic words.. I'm awaiting that too!!

Cheers,

dc

Originally posted by: Cordelia

👏 well said huni! fickle-minded is the audience who one day revere him and the next despise him... although the blame does not entirely lie with them, it belongs to the Destructives and Ekta for their inconsistencies...

i too accept him the way he is, i feel sad for him that he is someone who has nothing but suffered betrayal at the hands of those who are dear to him. he has his flaws and he accepts them and tries to remedy them. to me he is the most human and realistic character in KS or any of ekta's shows.

i want to see him smile... for once. and he can only do that when he comes clean with Bani, puts Pia and Jigs in their rightful place (in a ditch! 😡 ) and takes his life back into his own hands.

when Bani finds out we know she is going to leave WM - if he loves her he will accept her decision and give her the time and space she needs. and if she loves him then she will listen to him and accept her part in all of this too. then maybe they can start afresh, on a solid foundation...

no-one in this scenario is blameless - least of all Pia, who I have a horrible feeling is going to come out as the helpless pregnant victim in all of this...

i want the old JW back, the one who did what he felt was right regardless of the consequences, the one who was in control of his own destiny...

I agree.. I don't like how people are going back and forth constantly whether they like him or not. I absolutely do not blame him for his reactions. To me, they are justified just because Pia is around and it bothers him.

We cant go back and forth from loving him and hating him the next moment. He gave Bani a great big hug yesterday, and today he lied about Pia.. and now we hate him because Pia is blackmailing him? Its Pia we should be getting mad at for putting him in such a horrible situation.

I too want to see him smile, and I would hate to see that smile turn into a frown. We know that he will be helpness in stopping Bani from leaving the WM, and although he will feel sadness he wont be able to stop her from her decision. As for Pia.. I doubt she is pregnant.. and if she is.. then its Pushkar.. if Jai is to be redeemed after the leap, then in all honestly.. I think this is the only way…

EXACTLY! HE SHOULD NOT BE MANIPULATED BY ANYONE. HE IS A 40-YEAR OLD MAN AND SHOULD TAKE CONTROL OF HIS LIFE!

Originally posted by: Hkaurk22

I agree.. I don't like how people are going back and forth constantly whether they like him or not.
I absolutely do not blame him for his reactions.
To me, they are justified just because Pia is around and it bothers him.
We cant go back and forth from loving him and hating him the next moment.
He gave Bani a great big hug yesterday, and today he lied about Pia.. and now we hate him because Pia is blackmailing him?
Its Pia we should be getting mad at for putting him in such a horrible situation.
I too want to see him smile, and I would hate to see that smile turn into a frown.
We know that he will be helpness in stopping Bani from leaving the WM, and although he will feel sadness he wont be able to stop her from her decision.
As for Pia.. I doubt she is pregnant.. and if she is.. then its Pushkar.. if Jai is to be redeemed after the leap, then in all honestly.. I think this is the only way…

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i want to see the old jai Walia, My all time favourite episode is when pushkar is jailed pia comes to jai office to ask him not to punish pushkar.

I loved the way he talks to pia and bani. i want that attitude back in jai.