What a fab performance by Ram!! - Page 48

Originally posted by: aditee

Pi,
Sorry I really didnt intend to sound preachy.......... I am no marriage or relationship expert, but just decided to inject a dose of sanity in our discussion

Hope I havent offended the foursome 😳
P.S. Enjoy ur single status for as long as possible, I still crave for it many many days........... Though never left home for college or for work, being single was fun even tho i lived with my parents.........

Originally posted by: Piscean

Originally posted by: armaandeewani

I feel like there are both types of these marriages all around me...especially from this current generation and day and age. More so then from previous generations. Lol ya putting jokes aside 06/19 is not the solution to all woes. But I think it is also true that in general women being emotional, sensitive, and above all dreamers it is nice to fantasize otherwise since we know reality is nothing close to those fantasies. Sort of a place to let out that built up 'steam'...especially if u have a completely non-romantic boring significant other...some of the guys around me...ABSOLUTE bores...cannot imagine having one date w/them let alone being w/them all my life...

Originally posted by: armaandeewani

Problem yaar...there is not much from JW I want to change...he's good how he is for the most part...hmmm...we definitely need to change his thinking skills...and also minus out those assumption skills...add on ability to listen to heart once in a while...

Originally posted by: armaandeewani

Lol unforunately saddest part is thought of mota-pan didn't stop me from eating it...w/this ESP connection working so well between the two of us we should be able to work wonders on Kkekta. Absolute wonders...din raat it'll be all abt KS...JW...

Originally posted by: Piscean

My thoughts are pretty much...actually exactly wat PI said. In my family itself there have been such harsh reality checks for everyone from elders to the younger ones when it comes to disastrous marriages particularly among some of my cousins. I am quite happy being single...and w/all the good men taken (oh trust me they are) and the rest gay (seriously) it is the next best option-stick w/the singles boat.

Originally posted by: aditee

Pi,
You talk of communication, what if the guy doesnt want to listen? In an otherwise perfect marriage?

I watch Oprah when I get a chance, (I wont get all defensive here and claim that I was channel flipping and found her show 😃 , some of her topics are really sensible....... I really dont care for those breast implants and tummy redux type shows)

So anyway....... last week I think she had a bunch of women in there in so called perfect marriages who decided to cheat on their hubbies coz they just WUD NOT LISTEN

All these women dropped hints, declared bluntly, some even talked on the phone with the other guy when hubby was at home, but hubbies were TOTALLY OBLIVIOUS......

In ever situation the hubby had assumed their wife was happy and we emotionally satisfied...... and did not for one moment believe they wud do it

Originally posted by: armaandeewani

And there's the added advantage of being able to eye every piece of eye-candy without any added guilt, eh AD? (not every hubby is like DH now are they?) 😉