What a fab performance by Ram!! - Page 47

Originally posted by: armaandeewani

I am all for that...but then PI that would mean having to choose between JW and DH to walk around the mandap...lol unless we enjoy the company of both...bina mandap...HOW scandalous.

Originally posted by: armaandeewani

Arre yaar itna khaya...I think I'm too big in the current stage for JW...lol should go run a mile. Delicious paneer makhani and malai kofta but I can feel my arteries clogging.

Originally posted by: aditee

Girls,
A dose of reality here......... kal ko I shudnt be responsible for filling ur heads with fantastic ideas about life witha man 😭

Its always not a picnic I have to burst ur bubble......... I mean no matter if the guy is cute or hot or both, marriage isn't easy.

Its not how they make it out to be in M&B, sex is NOT the answer to all woes. In M&Bs they make it out to be like that, to get us all hooked, in fact during ur angriest moments or the moments when u are hurting the most SEX DOES NOT HELP

I mean tahst the last thing in both ur minds.......

M&B they act as if physical compatibility is the supreme requirement and every thing else is purely a luxury

I have seen marriages where there is NO physical compatibility, and seen marraiges that have happened purely for sex and both havent failed, but the couples are living a lie

Originally posted by: aditee

Girls,
A dose of reality here......... kal ko I shudnt be responsible for filling ur heads with fantastic ideas about life witha man 😭

Its always not a picnic I have to burst ur bubble......... I mean no matter if the guy is cute or hot or both, marriage isn't easy.

Its not how they make it out to be in M&B, sex is NOT the answer to all woes. In M&Bs they make it out to be like that, to get us all hooked, in fact during ur angriest moments or the moments when u are hurting the most SEX DOES NOT HELP

I mean tahst the last thing in both ur minds.......

M&B they act as if physical compatibility is the supreme requirement and every thing else is purely a luxury

I have seen marriages where there is NO physical compatibility, and seen marraiges that have happened purely for sex and both havent failed, but the couples are living a lie

Originally posted by: aditee

Another myth with TV shows and movies is they make u wait desperately for the three words "I love You."

I does NOT mean a thing if the male or female dont LIVE IT.......

Its like its the panacea for all ills in a relationship....
It is not........ Couples continue to live extreme hurt and pain AFTER professing their love for each other.....

Ulta when u start living together thats when the real trouble begins..........

Its great to discuss light hrted stuff about a TV show, but real life for many is far from fantasy.......

I know women in arranged marriages who fool themselves into thinking "kaash mera love marraige hota, shaayad mera pati achha insaan hota"

I know some women who got into totally love marraige relationships, where the hubby is a complete j**k, I mean flood light lekar bhi dhoondo tab bhi itna bura insaan nahi mil sakta for an arranged match! the guy is sooooooo horrible.

Originally posted by: aditee

I am not saying we have to live our lives 24/7 in a cynical fashion but the stuff they show on TV and movies is really misleading..........

Raam's character in Kasam Se is the one that is closest to reality that I have seen so far.........
He has not become a spongy marshmallow after making love to his wife, he still has a back bone....... she ehibits that too occasionally

Originally posted by: Piscean

Problem yaar...there is not much from JW I want to change...he's good how he is for the most part...hmmm...we definitely need to change his thinking skills...and also minus out those assumption skills...add on ability to listen to heart once in a while...