JAI-BANI TOO ANCIENT!!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: girly_arshxoxo

ME TOO!😃

Originally posted by: girly_arshxoxo

ME TOO!😃

Originally posted by: iiLOVEpanna

Me 3.😃😛

I agree with u!!!

Originally posted by: suku

No offence BUT i have lived in India and i dont think that in India everyone believes that girls shud get married to have sex! Girls in India r educated and hardworking and get married for companionship not for sex!

hi suku

i enjoy reading your posts. It appears as if you are correlating education with being westernized. this is to everyone: seems like people are meaning to say "westernized" but using the word "modern" instead. i would prefer to use the former. so now lets see. in one of your post you mentioned right after education, that more and more women are getting divorced and getting freedom. these two concepts are not so simply related. There are so many educated women in india who still believe in these traditions, in this culture and their respective religion. now india is a country of many religions, and all these religions do not support out of wedlock births or premarital sex. keeping this in mind, we can set religion aside as a constant and leave it out of the discussion. the most Basic indian tradition is the belief in the institution of family. it is from this belief that all others stem: marriage, respect for elders, etc. and look at the world around you. Why are there so many minors seeking support outside of their home? becase they lack family structure at home. im just not saying this without backup. there have been several studies that support such ideas. basically what im trying to point out is that behind these traditions is reasoning. there is a reason why these traditions are upheld even today. it is because the path they provide is not only practical but successful. Therefore, it would not necessarily be right to call different practices as "ancient." These practices are very much applicable today as well.

Yes, it may not be possible later. Looking at the trend in indian society, the scenario may very well be much different in 20 years.

Originally posted by: suku

NO one seem to agree wid me but i still stand by ma point. 😆 It is not necessary that if Anu gets pregnant ten she is mature enough to get married (as mentioned by some of u guyz). Sometimes even 16, 17 year old gurls get pregnant so u tink they r mature enought to marry. Of course not! Anu may have gotten pregnant but she is not much smarter tan the 16 year olds. Therefore they shud consider tat the guy she is marrying is a nice guy or not. Because even worse than being a single parent for Anu wud be to married to the wrong guy and cry all life.

how do you know that rohit is the wrong guy for her? i mean common as you say that today's generation is modern and will marry each other only if they actually love each and all that then why would this guy agree to marry anu??? even if she's pregnant, usually the guys object anyway if they dont actually love the girl. so this shows rohit's good character and also that maybe he actually loves her! and maybe anu too otherwise she wouldve told the family that she doesnst want to get married. AND ANYWAY IT'S SO DAMN HARD TO FIND ACTUAL TRUE LOVE. YOU GOTTA MAKE A COMPROMISE AT SOME POINT OR ANOTHER!

Originally posted by: princessjojo

hi suku

i enjoy reading your posts. It appears as if you are correlating education with being westernized. this is to everyone: seems like people are meaning to say "westernized" but using the word "modern" instead. i would prefer to use the former. so now lets see. in one of your post you mentioned right after education, that more and more women are getting divorced and getting freedom. these two concepts are not so simply related. There are so many educated women in india who still believe in these traditions, in this culture and their respective religion. now india is a country of many religions, and all these religions do not support out of wedlock births or premarital sex. keeping this in mind, we can set religion aside as a constant and leave it out of the discussion. the most Basic indian tradition is the belief in the institution of family. it is from this belief that all others stem: marriage, respect for elders, etc. and look at the world around you. Why are there so many minors seeking support outside of their home? becase they lack family structure at home. im just not saying this without backup. there have been several studies that support such ideas. basically what im trying to point out is that behind these traditions is reasoning. there is a reason why these traditions are upheld even today. it is because the path they provide is not only practical but successful. Therefore, it would not necessarily be right to call different practices as "ancient." These practices are very much applicable today as well.

Yes, it may not be possible later. Looking at the trend in indian society, the scenario may very well be much different in 20 years.

So dont get how i am relating divorce, freedom and Anu.😆 Let me try, k there was time wen Divorce was a Taboo in India but now it is not. (even Ram kapoor's wife is divorced, as i read tis morning, no offence to her) Tis change happened because society got educated and aware and made divorce laws easier and recognized divore. Same tin with being a single mom afta some time being a single mom wud be recognized in INDIA. And as far as religion is concerned, human rights and freedom I tink comes way above religion and religious beliefs and culture.

Originally posted by: girly_arshxoxo

ME TOO!😃

i agree...holding true to ur traditions and beliefs should never be a shameful thing to do😊

Originally posted by: suku

So dont get how i am relating divorce, freedom and Anu.😆 Let me try, k there was time wen Divorce was a Taboo in India but now it is not. (even Ram kapoor's wife is divorced, as i read tis morning, no offence to her) Tis change happened because society got educated and aware and made divorce laws easier and recognized divore. Same tin with being a single mom afta some time being a single mom wud be recognized in INDIA. And as far as religion is concerned, human rights and freedom I tink comes way above religion and religious beliefs and culture.

hi again,

my post was not about anu or kasamh se. it was a general response to the general idea flowing in this thread...😃