Can a guy and a gyal be JUST friends? - Page 2

i hope so too henna

in movies and tv serials guy and guys are not just a friend they always have a drama..............

lol kuch toh interesting dikha on the forum otherwise it has been so dull lately 🤢

I'll go with the majority here Henna and i can kinda bet that sooner or later (maybe not with your present boy-friend...hope not!!) you may experience something like that too...remember us then and laugh it off 😆

IMO...unless either one or both of them are already having a love-partner, one (or both) of them is bound to fall for the other...initially, one of them may think that oh! s/he is a good friend--nice to talk too and spend time with, s/he understands so much better and is fun to be with---but the spark is missing and you look for that spark in another person...while at the same time, second person finds that spark as well along with other good things and falls for the other buddy....what follows is a long conversation, followed by argument ending in one person feeling rejected and thus dejected 😊.....this r/dejected person decides to dump the other and the friendship is lost...sometimes for ever!! how dramatic but very common!!

If both of them fall for each other, that is the best situation but if it is one sided then things usually go bitter afterwards...

Remember 'Friends' almost everybody fell for everybody in that show 😆

there may be exceptions and now the trend is changing...girls and boys go out in groups and understand much better...so one cannot say that it is totally impossible!

Originally posted by: jeenal20

becoz i always treated him as a freind

What Jeenal said is so true of most of the girls (specially in India)...you know Jeenal, this line of yours immediately reminded me of the song in HumTum--ladki kyun na jaane khun ladkon si nahin hoti--i love that song and i feel everything mentioned in that song about girls and boys is very true....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fH-sCA9TTM0

well in this song (if you remember) Saif says..."hum ache dost hain par us nazar se tumko dekha nahin, woh sab toh theek hai par us baarein main maine socha nahin 😃"
lovely song 😛

P.S. or if one of them is gay!

Mostly I think they can be great just friends that after sometime you start wishing the other to be your life long partner and start falling in love... But I have seen some great girl and guy friends in my own family thats going on for its 23rd year this year.. :)

I think and this is just my view that you can be friends with guys but not close/best friends ones that you constantly talk to etc..then it can end up getting messy like someone said above more than likely one will end up liking the other..i think its natural though if you spend a lot of time with a person.

If I am truly honest I don't think that guys and girls can ever only be "friends." Eventually, one will always fall for the other. Some may be able to take the rejection and still want to be friends, but most of teh time the friendship is just never the same.

Mmmm, am I the only one who feels that there isn't a romantic angle between Rishi-Ganga and Rishi will actually end up being Atharva???

Originally posted by: SophiaQ

Mmmm, am I the only one who feels that there isn't a romantic angle between Rishi-Ganga and Rishi will actually end up being Atharva???

Don't know how I didn't see this post before..................


honsetly, I know for a fact that a guy and a girl can be friends without having any kind of relations with each ither...

I should know, since my closest friend today is a guy whom I have known for more than seven years...........

It became absolutely impossible for anything else to occur between us as we turned out to be better friends!!! His girlfriends even have to pamper me before they can date him in peace....😎 my saying no could really hurt them!!!!

all in all, I know that it's only a really secure woman who can take her man being friends with his ex-girl. as for boys and girls being just friends, it is so possible it's not even funny!!!!

just my view...........