Originally posted by: jinc118
Hello all... here is my comment on why Gauri wants to hear those words.
I am not married but i know that in any relationship its important to feel loved. And altho Shiv has stayed wit Gauri and given her 3 beautiful kids...Gauri still remembers that their marriage was a compromise for Shiv, she knows that he once loved someone else and still has that girls photo hidden in the closet. So even tho Gauri has said many times and proven to Shiv that she will go to any lengths for him (including..embracing death sentence), Shiv has never expressly said that he loves her. He has shown his care for her by giving her all luxuries but I doubt that Gauri is the kind to be satisfied by material things. She craves for the emotional security, that Shiv loves her in the same amount as she loves him. Ya he has said many times that She and the kids mean his world...but that doesn't automatically translate into "I LOVE YOU". Shiv could be just used to Gauri and the kids so much that he can't think of living without them...happens in a lot of arranged marriages. But Gauri maa wants more than just a settlement...she wants passionate love for her from her husband and no one can blame her for it. Any woman would want that. I am just upset that poor Gauri has to say it to Yash uncle and not the cutiepie 😳 that she married.
This is the most serious i could get about a TV show character. lolz. 😆 Please remember guys that she is just a character and the writer make them do all sorts of things to show conflict and make the show go on.
Really glad some post seriously!!
she should be happy that the picture is in the closet! and no on the wall! as he has sliently inform her that she takes priorty in his life!... It's a man hint thing!
Emotional securities well last night that was what he was doin in his manly style!...but she does not make the effort as she does not go business do with him and is running after the household and not him....when ever he gets close she pushs him away!! in every relationship there is give and take and Shiv has given!! his love and himself to Gauri! Yet she is not embracing him!!
If she want a passionate lover (beside me switching off at this point😆) She to must appeal to him to! the Kaam Wali bhai Not working as it's a TURN OFF!!
Thank U