Originally posted by: -SaaMYa-
So this is reply to some questions which was put forward to me.
Are those scenes easy to do ? ---
No, Its not and that's the exact reason we all have applauded the actors involved time and again for doing intimate scenes with so much elegance,purity and maturity. All the praise was not for just the mere act..but all we all very well know its not easy for an actor. Hence we all filled pages and pages of praise which has got conveniently forgotten I guess but anyways..
Coming to the question about parth mentioning the discomfort before and us not reacting --
Yes not only parth ..even veebha and many such actors have mentioned it..and not to forget niti herself has mentioned this..have u ever thought why none questioned her "THEN " but only "NOW" ?? if you could have put lil more effort in reading the points made in the previous thread u would have got clear cut answer for ur query.. its not coz she said its uncomfy..its coz of the "TONE" of the note and "reasons she listed". It was like as if she did some favor to fans..as if it was not part of her job..as if those scenes are not good to be viewable by family.. ok chalo lets ignore all that..one simple questions..are those scenes just incorporated there simply for fans..is there no "DEMAND OF SCRIPT " ???
As far as I have seen..most of the celebs have always mentioned..yes its uncomfortable..not easy but we do it coz its the demand of the script..it is to show the raw emotions of the characters involved isnt it..?? if kissing and all is u think is not viewable by family i am not sure what age we are living in. sorry i interpreted it like that i may be wrong. but hey thats my OPINION not name calling or BASHING...
What stopped niti to say it was demand of script this time ??? I think thats what professional actors say..u dont downplay a character's act merely as FAN's KA LOVE..
I wonder how it will feel like if all the cine actors one day come and say Raj kissed simran for people's love..it was incorporated for people love..it wad done by us despite our family not agreeing to it..how does that sound to u ??? Dhaansu reply, Saamya👏 You've nailed it! The TONE of the note very well matters! She has implied that those kind of scenes are inappropriate and something that would be condemned by family...how can she not know how that makes this sound?? If all actors start using that excuse, then there is no way any characters's emotions can be realistically portrayed...it requires emotional maturity to understand the nature of this work...that is why actors are lauded for their work cuz the audience hails them for bringing realism to their work...the very basis of this job is to sell emotions to ppl...so again, where exactly does the onus fall on fans here if that is the demand of the job?
Should all actors start acting apologetic about showing natural emotions in love then?
The actress very well knew what she was stepping into..this was not a GEC show..not a saas bahu show..an MTV show who everyone knows shows BOLD stuff...there was no fan love when she signed the contract...i am sure if the family was so conservative she had freedom to incorporate no kissing clause..which she did not..pls dont use the "FAN" CARD here...
I would have admired if she owned up her decisions and had pride in doing such scenes which actually she used to have...and hence we never questioned her earlier discomfort.
I am ignoring the other controversial statements in the note like sacrifices she did for holidays, PTKK..and her mentor..coz trust me i have lot more to say on that... :P
Lastly, the background story of why she put a note..I am happy to inform you that I also follow these actors closely ..both the actors and many others...so i can actually describe this background story even in much more detail including the points which u might have not seen...for now..all this so called bashing and what not..i will summarise as :
>snow balling of 1 comment to 500 comments..mind it 1 negative comment (not bashful) to 500 comments in the name of defence.
> Exaggeration .. couple of comments exaggerated as cruel bashing ..etc etc..
> Victimisation..u feed the negative comments..exaggerate it and then display it as bashing to everyone including the celeb involved..when ppl come they see "omg 500 comments of bashing"
> Projection of this vicitmisation -- making mountain of a mole hill
am not saying they never get bashed ..they do but not the way u guys project..sorry if i dont agree with ur projections..
ok chalo lets forget all that for a moment...when a celeb makes a public statement ..ppl react to that statement ..they dont go and do PHD ki why she or he said this..if SRK/Alia makes a statement..only statement is published everywhere..ever noticed that??? so learn to own up that fact..kisi ke paas faltu ka time nahi hai to dissect the background
Lastly i will leave with ALIA BHATT's statement which she gave couple of days ago when asked how she deal with critisicm and negativity... "criticism and negative comments are important for an actor's growth.. if we can take so many good comments happily why cant we embrace the negative comments with same zeal " ... NEED I SAY MORE ???
thats for now..i think i still have missed many things to say
@NUR : thank you for opening this thread ... <3
P.S pls learn the difference between OPINION, SARCASM, MOCKING, TROLLING and BASHING