Friendship is not the issue

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Posted: 9 years ago
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The issue is not her 'friendship' with Aryaman per say, that is the problem here and what fans are getting frustrated and angry about. Neither is it about Manik's possessiveness about Nanadani.
Whether we like it or not, Nanadani/Aryaman friendship was forced and fast forwarded and audience was expected to take it at face value...Granted they took a leap of 3 months, but still even the one month that was shown of them together was not enough to make the audience get a feel of such a buddy buddy kind of friendship between them.

And even if we take it at face value, the way the cvs and Nanadani is showing her reactions to this friendship is all wrong and out of place when we compare it with her equation with Manik. Same can be said for Navya now.

Why the hell would Nandani be even thinking about Aryaman right now let alone feel guilty about not being in contact with him when it has barely been 4 days since Manik's return? And why the hell would others, read here Navya, feel that Nandani was neglecting Aryaman, so soon after Maniks return and specially when she brought up about their first night at the resort?

I guess one has to totally forget how Manan were in S1 and how they lost each other at the end of S1 to not feel frustrated and disconnected with how the CVs are showing Manan and their equation with others these days..

Even Maniks concern and bond with Fab5 who he had been with through thick and thin for ages does not go to the level that Nandani is behaving right now with Aryaman and how others expect her to behave with Aryaman.

And what kind of a friend feels neglected just because the friend that you are so concerned about, who had been pining and hallucinating about her dead boyfriend is suddenly reunited with her BF and is now spending some quality time with him? Its not like it has been even a week yet.
Why would that friend (Aryaman) and others (Navya) even begrudge that time that she is spending with Manik right now. Don't they expect her to be happy and taking some time to be free from all that worry and depression she went through due to loss of Manik?

Even if we are to 'buy' Nandani/Arya friendship this still is the wrong time and way too soon to be shoving down Nandani's guilt (and others to guilt trip her regarding Aryaman) down our throats
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..oishu.. thumbnail
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Posted: 9 years ago
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100% accurate!

thanks for this great post!

p.s. can someone/anyone tweet this post to the cvs and karishma olouchi... they definitely need to read this!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Great post TM!! this is what my thoughts are and Really the case is with the show rite now!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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awesum post😊

From thursday's epi...it is clear..it is all about his one sided feelings for aryaman. I don't c any genuine friendship there. AS in a convo with his friends he was self pitying on his bad luck as how he really really likes a girl bd he was with her during her traumatic times and now her b.f is back in her life. And she is enjoying with her b. f and he is sulking here over her

If he was a really true genuine friend he wudn't b unhappy coz she got her lost love back. His one sided feelings are well nd gud for him but as a frnd he shud b happy for his best fraaand as she is now out of her trauma phase nd is back with her love. Instead he was indirectly taunting her when she makes a call to him and making nandu guilt trip for no fault of hers🥱
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bang on 👏 You have explained it perfectly.
And you are right for us to accept this Manik and Nandini without any complain we have to erase s1 manik and nandini from our memorys.
Friendship is not the issue it's how they're potraying it.
We always wanted a good friend for nandini so why won't we accept Arya and Nandu friendship but plz at least give us something genuine and stop forcing it down our throats.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mishaarshi

awesum post😊

From thursday's epi...it is clear..it is all about his one sided feelings for aryaman. I don't c any genuine friendship there. AS in a convo with his friends he was self pitying on his bad luck as how he really really likes a girl bd he was with her during her traumatic times and now her b.f is back in her life. And she is enjoying with her b. f and he is sulking here over her

If he was a really true genuine friend he wudn't b unhappy coz she got her lost love back. His one sided feelings are well nd gud for him but as a way frnd he shud b happy for his fraaand as she is now out of her trauma phase nd is back with her love. Instead he was indirectly taunting her when she makes a call to him and making nandu guilt trip for no fault of hers🥱

you forgot one thing.. He is psycho soha's brother.. .obvio psycho hai.. And nandini have a knack of befriending psychos... Personally i feel that somewhere it is also niti'd fault.. .she is letting her personal equation effect chemistry of manan.. You can't romance a guy onscreen if u are trying to stay an arm's distance. ..she is probably uncomfortable with parth and it shows on the screen.. .this is the first time I'm not liking her acting. .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mishaarshi

awesum post😊

From thursday's epi...it is clear..it is all about his one sided feelings for aryaman. I don't c any genuine friendship there. AS in a convo with his friends he was self pitying on his bad luck as how he really really likes a girl bd he was with her during her traumatic times and now her b.f is back in her life. And she is enjoying with her b. f and he is sulking here over her

If he was a really true genuine friend he wudn't b unhappy coz she got her lost love back. His one sided feelings are well nd gud for him but as a frnd he shud b happy for his best fraaand as she is now out of her trauma phase nd is back with her love. Instead he was indirectly taunting her when she makes a call to him and making nandu guilt trip for no fault of hers🥱



i did prefer abhimanyu over aryaman any day, he gave nandini the right advice always and was genuine as a friends, but here itts all about one sided love and aryaman feels nandini would have to face problems due to manik 😕
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bang on post
100% agree
I would rather opt for Abhimanyu as Nandu's true friend. At this point of time, if he would be there then he would be the most happiest person for Nandini getting Manik back after what all she had gone through.
It's even unfair to compare Abhi with Arya...Abhi was in all situations a far better friend.

Please someone share all these to the CVs...they do need a reality check about this fraaandship thing 😡
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: crazygirl4RD



i did prefer abhimanyu over aryaman any day, he gave nandini the right advice always and was genuine as a friends, but here itts all about one sided love and aryaman feels nandini would have to face problems due to manik 😕

agreed.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Couldn't have put it better dear! 👏 One of the sanest and the most sensible post I've seen in a long time!
More than Arya or Navya, I'm disheartened the way Nandini is portrayed! And I'm afraid if this continues things are going to get messier!

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