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charminggenie thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Have you read the comments .
Nobody is judging Mukti on her lifestyle choices.

Even a Prostitute deserves respect.

Yes this is a social cause that needs to be supported by every female , but -

Mukti harassed and molested guys too.

Shahid's MMS was spread all around. His posters were plastered all over the college. The guy was about to commit sucide.

Just like Rocky, Fab5 walked away because they had POWER TOO.

Mukti pulled a Rocky move on so many victims.

Still, that would not stand for anything ,IF , they had shown mukti apologetic or remorseful of her own behaviour of the past. Or if she would have learnt that using random sex for emotional numbing is dangerous. Rather than focusing on it , they are making it about her lifestyle issue- when there was no need for it. It's an attempt to cover her mistakes and her own growth .

If Rocky needs to be punished then Mukti needs too as well, Shahid should come back and get her arrested for the whole MMS thing. Coz well he was a victim too.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Flame.Of.Rose

Prostitutes don't do anything to deserve that. its their profession and people should learn to respect it. No one dreams of being one, they end up one. So no, none of us will ever question or blame a prostitute.

Now coming to Mukti. Why we blame her is not because of her lifestyle, we are calling out on her hypocrisy. When she did the same with Shahid, he was forced to the level of committing suicide, does she regret that? Does she guilt trips over that? No. The problem lies in that. If she goes around bullying people, she should also know how to handle these situations. We don't question people who have casual sex, we are pointing out on Mukti as she is using sex as means to numb her pain. Now that is wrong.

The whole points come down to, we don't say issue or cause is bad, we are just saying had this been handled properly and NOT shows as aftermath of consensual sex, none of us would have raged out the way we did.



i agree with u wht she did with shahid nd all nd had sex to numd her pain was wrong but that is only i want to say naa why r u even going there about what she did in her past.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Stardust09




She didn't blame him for having sex. She's guilty about the decisions she's made. She's furious because he circulated her number and publicised her as an easy s**t for it. He slept with her, why should only she be on the receiving end of the shaming (which originated from him)


Is she really guilty about the decsions she made?, because when her friends were telling her that , she flew off the handle at them, instead of thanking them and therein lies my problem. It seems like she is willing to dole out responsibility to anybody, everybody except herself. I would like to see her independent of advice from others, taking responsibility for her action. Of course Rocky and his friends think he is a stud and she is a s**t but why didnt Mukti say it out to them, why didnt she stand up for herself at that point of time and also accept that she makes stupid decisions.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i agree with u!! mukti kisi bhi guys ke sath close hui ho,even with rocky even if she willingly wanted to spend that night with him,but that doesnt mean she is a commodity,that rocky will pass on to others!! watever mukti did with rocky or anyone else,its her choice her consent,but that doesnt mean anyone can send her such cheap messages!!!! even a prostitute can file agsnt rape and she also has the right to receive respect!!!!! wat is wrong is worng,doesnt depend on situations or past!!!! yes mukti was wrong in shahid's case,i still find that wrong,but this is also wrong!!yes mukti is the right girl to portray this!!!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Thanks for the post..
Exactly what I am trying to say
"i m just trying to say here wht happened today with mukti could have happened with anyone so a wrong is a wrong no matter with whom it happens nd i think tht is only cvs wants to tell tht no matter wht mukti does in her life a wrong is wrong"...





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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: charminggenie

Have you read the comments .

Nobody is judging Mukti on her lifestyle choices.

Even a Prostitute deserves respect.

Yes this is a social cause that needs to be supported by every female , but -

Mukti harassed and molested guys too.

Shahid's MMS was spread all around. His posters were plastered all over the college. The guy was about to commit sucide.

Just like Rocky, Fab5 walked away because they had POWER TOO.

Mukti pulled a Rocky move on so many victims.

Still, that would not stand for anything ,IF , they had shown mukti apologetic or remorseful of her own behaviour of the past. Or if she would have learnt that using random sex for emotional numbing is dangerous. Rather than focusing on it , they are making it about her lifestyle issue- when there was no need for it. It's an attempt to cover her mistakes and her own growth .

If Rocky needs to be punished then Mukti needs too as well, Shahid should come back and get her arrested for the whole MMS thing. Coz well he was a victim too.



Fab5 and remorse? Probably never happening. Although it's kind of redundant for Manik and Cabir now. Mukti might grudgingly apologize to Nandini. Alya might too, after the whole fiasco is done with.
Mukti did realise her mistake the very next morning. Maybe it's Charlie you couldn't connect with. I don't think she'd sleep around anymore. She might voice her realisation after the walk, maybe.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@TM- People are talking about her Past because she is not apologetic about it. She went defensive when Cabir called her out on it yesterday .
Just so we know legally , people can file cases of molestation, rape years after the actual crime has done. It wasn't a random mistake that she did and can be overlooked. She then used the system and walked away scout-free and now she is complaining the same set-up they used earlier. If they want to go down the route, please do so- but make her realize her OWN MISTAKES TOO.

She is a victim. Yes. But is she a victim of herself too ? Loud Yes.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@StarDust - Hmm no nothing to do with the actor.
Here her remorse is needed because she was on the other side too. The seriousness of this situation needs her to understand her own actions. Because she will again relapse.

If a rehab couldn't sort her shit then this won't too. She went to the bar to confront random people about this. When her friend called her out on it , because it was all wrong and senseless. She went defensive- she couldn't see her own wrong there. This is what we fear, that they are going to gloss it using a very sensitive issue and make her forget her own growth and problem.

Navya time - they actually balanced it all out. Called Navya wrong too through Nandini and reminded her how it was her mistake too . She should have been careful and more aware. This is lacking here.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Let me tell you one thing, Mukti has used guys for her benefit, she has had one night stands, she has worn short clothes, she had sex with rocky, willingly and she never gave a damn about what people thought of her. Suddenly, she can't fight the world, she stands like a statue when people are commenting on her clothes, she's not fighting back when she's being forced into a saree by random people. Sorry but who's this new person? This is called butchering of a character or maybe they're just doing it to show this track. Either way it doesn't make sense. So yes. That's it!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think you are missing the point here...no one is saying anything about Mukti's character...She can wear whatever she likes and behave in any possible way but the point is that Mukti was not raped...She is not a junior victim, this is an example of consensual sex as she was the one who called Rocky to the hostel...She didn't even tell anyone about what happened until the guys started sending her messages...the issue is different in this case so it has nothing to do with s**t walks or sexual harassment...Mukti needs to start respecting herself first, she needs to realize that sleeping with random guys is not the solution for getting over heartbreak, she needs to realize that pushing her friends away is not going to make the pain disappear...Mukti's character needs to be developed before they attempt to promote a social cause

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