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Posted: 10 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: XOXOgossipgirl

I absolutely agree. You've said in much better words what I've wanted to say in previous posts of mine (which tend to go unnoticed since I'm a new and not so regular member in this forum).

I strongly feel this track is NEEDED for them to actually realize what they mean to each other. At the age they are at in the show (19, if I'm not wrong), LOVE is a very easy word to say. It CANNOT be forever wala love at such an early age, whatever you say. But, this is a show and still for it to be realistic but at the same time forever wala, things like this are needed. Now ofcourse since it's a show extremes will be shown. But such possessiveness and jealousy IS a very common emotion in couples at this age. People fight for such small things and this is MURDER we are talking about. And no matter what anyone says, I think Manik is ABSOLUTELY justified in this outburst. Of course we all know hatred is a very strong word, but his anger and hurt and betrayal is more than justified.


And like he said in today's episode, IF they manage to stick it out over these few weeks of the concert, then they have hope. Cause then they will REALIZE what they mean to each other. This is linking to my point above where I said that despite the young age, this is more than JUST attraction. It is STRONG love. And for a relationship to grow stronger, a PROPER HARDCORE difference of opinions is needed. And more than anything, you need to fight it out. To see for yourself how strong the love is.


I've even said this earlier that I prefer Manik as a character over Nandini any day. But as a couple these two are meant to be and this test is needed. For them to realize what a strong connection they have. The fact that they know is is a different thing. They need to REALIZE it.


And as of now, his jealousy is going to make him realize it. How jealousy will over take torture. How hope will take over hatred. And how love will take over it all. :)

No...not that I can say it better...but yes...when you are new...its difficult to find a footing!! Hey I have been there...and know how hard it is...hang on...you will find your friends here...just takes some time!! 😊
Yes...somewhere I feel too that this track was needed to bring forth some issues to the surface!! They needed to be addressed!! They had to learn the hard way..and there are no short cuts in love!! Each and every step is painful and patient...They are young...unique...headstrong...stubborn...spirited and too much in love...so it has to be intense...everything will be extreme...!! But the sense of reality is still felt...its not a fairy tale...neither a documentary..for me the balance between the heart and the mind has still been maintained...my heart is involved and my mind is engaged too...
If the last out this storm...there is hope!! Cause this phase is not going to be easy..when there are so many difficult undercurrents and still they have to work and create together...its a challenge...and they have to face it...
Manik's character is such that he will always be attractive to the human eye...cause he demands more emotions than Nandini...as complex as he is...but together they are perfect!!
Totally looking forward to what the cvs have in store for us...its their baby and they don't need tips for babysitting...they have been doing a good job so far...
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Posted: 10 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: navi04vet

Usually I ignore posts having contents against my thoughts...don't want to hurt tm and also to avoid fights... But with u I could be open... I m sure u will think from others view point too..
Let's see how story will unfold ...then again we expect things from manan coz we love them sooo damn much

Absolutely...I avoid them too...😆!! But again I know exactly what you are saying and feeling...some friends...you trust them with an open mind...and an open heart!! You can say whatever you feel like ...and I it will be heard, understood and more so respected...on the contrary you are doing me a favor by showing me a whole new perspective...so shoot...😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: gauriangel

Lovely post as always Eveline..

Jealous Manik..i totally agree this time is going to very different...
I wanna see how he reacts to this realisation that if he is willing to let go his nandu...she has other options ..like pandit..
He knows he cant stay with her, but neither he can stay away from her...what he doesnt know yet is he cant even think her being with someone else other than him..

thanks 😳...knowing Manik...this is going to kill him!! 😆 And he so deserves it...if you let go of your girl...some one is bound to grab her...all your fault man!! 😃!! Lets see how long he lasts before explodes in flames and burns Pandit to cinders...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi there again.
As usual a lovely post and a much awaited one. And you are absolutly right. Quite a few are disgruntled with the track right now.I read many posts saying that it was a filler episode or boring etc., but for me today's episode was an importent one. manik who is like a closed book started communicating with Nandini. Even though he is confused he opened up, which was a major drawback in their relationship and the cause of all the trouble (not communicating).
when he saved Cabir from Suicide he told Nandini that he was at crossroads.Right now he is in a similar situation. he is at crossroads.one he loves nandu madly second he is so hurt and in pain that he doesn't know what to do or which way to go.He is literally shackled by his pain. Hence, the line "I can't live with you or without you" and "can't stay away from you". Nandini at that time said that when Manik would be too tired , she would pick up the battle for him. That is what he is exactly waiting for. For Nandini to pick up the battle for him. After all Didn't he say that he loves her 'never give up' attitude the most? He is so desparately waiting for Nandini to win.
Also Manik taught Nandini a very important lesson, to not to take his words at face value. What he speaks and what he actually wants are two different things.He wants her to see beyond his words into his soul. not to listen what his mouth speaks but to what his heart says. Whether Nandini learned the lesson or not that is yet to be seen. But Manik definitely gave some insight of himself for sure. And regarding this jealousy track, yes I belive that it is necessary because this jealousy will help Manik to break free his shackles and push him from this crossroad towards Nandini.
hope I made sense. Looks like my mind has become like Manik's. wanted to write something else. and wrote something else entirely. sorry for such a long and a boring post.

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Posted: 10 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: -mehr-

First of all you never need to say "Sorry" for what you feel and what you want to pen down, you pen so gracefully and it's honor to read such intriguing thoughts.. always!

I have always believe in "live and let live, to love and let love"...so why ruin it by questing it...

You will always find me at bay, when it comes to your writing :)

WOw...thank you ..I am blessed!! Rarely do people find such unrelenting and trusting support in another's words!!
And that's the motto...it makes not only yours but everyone around you's life easy too...live and let live...
Thank you...always in need of a friend...
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Posted: 10 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: amisuv

Hmm don't worry be happy my dear 😉 Remember our happy dreams n wishful thinking...



The IHU track is being handled in a very interesting way. Because we understand Manik and his complex ways, we always knew what HATE are we talking about here. It is a lost cause already. But in the end only one winner, that is their love.


As u rightly said, Soha's exit led to huge collateral damage. Yes this relationship needed this wake up call. The absolute trust in each other still to be tested. The realization of what they mean to each other, understanding and acceptance of each other's weaknesses and their priorities in life.

The protection mode is also quite overwhelming, that needs to be addressed too in my opinion.


Coming to the jealousy angle. Not so sure. The CVs did drag the Soha track for too long, more than what was required from the story point of view. Nandini realized she could not stay away from Manik and her possessiveness came out beautifully.
But still they dragged on and made Soha more of a torture for us to watch on our screens. So the dj vu feeling what if the Pandit track goes the same way.


Yes I agree with u. With Dhruv it was not pure jealousy. Manik could never be jealous of Dhruv. his best buddy, the one who saved his life. Manik was more insecure here. How Dhruv managed to make Nandini smile all the time. She never game him those smiles, only frowns. Hence the inferiority complex.

But this Pandit is a third party, no obligations whatsoever. Today Manik is aware of she feels for him. She is ready to fight for their love. So he is a satisfied man on that front. Hence no insecurities this time. Just an acceptance on his part he cannot live without her. And that " I cannot live with u " is just a temporary aberration on the part of his mind clouded with anger and disappointment.


My dear Manik, let the Pandit catch hold of Nandini tomorrow, phir dekhte hain tumhaara kya reaction hota hai 😛 His innovative ways of keeping her away from Panditji.


Just one thing, I can't see it going too creepy. No touchy/feely from pandit, like Soha. I won't be able to take it. I HATE it. PERIOD And max 2 weeks is the time I give the CVs to wrap this up. But who am I fooling here. Fusion concert still 10 days to go. And in KY2 one day stretches to a week, so 10 days toh pata nahi kahaan jaayenge 🥱


Bhai hum ne to bina expectation ek dekhne seekh liya hai. So enjoying the ride 😃

did you ever realise you write so well..hats off gal!
Agree to every point including watching without expectations 😃

Will be fun to watch manic post pandit holds her..
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Posted: 10 years ago
#37
Good post Evie,
U have summarized it perfectly here. It was not pyre Jealousy where Dhruv was concerned. He was wishing in wanting Nandini to give him the same attention she gives to Dhruv.

Also he can manipulate the situations there.

Here when nothing is in his control he will be pure mad.

Adultered Jealousy and supreme possessiveness. Monster in him is going to wake up now for sure.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Thanks so much dear 😊

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Posted: 10 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: sucker4Luvstory

did you ever realise you write so well..hats off gal!

Agree to every point including watching without expectations 😃

Will be fun to watch manic post pandit holds her..

Get after her...don't let her get away...I have been trying to make her see the light of the day...meaning...she writes so good...she needs to start writing...but no...she is as stubborn as the man we love...Manik (who else)!!
She is denying us all such a pleasure...the lovable idiot!! Not fair...😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: amisuv

@sucker4Luvstory

Thanks so much dear 😊

😳 Tries to hide...

I am not gonna let you hide...see so many are saying it now...you lazy laid back dreamer!! Embarrassed😆

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