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The reason...feelings always cloud our judgments...so lets use our grey cells for a change instead of our heartbeats!!
Quite a few are disgruntled with the track right now!! Some were never happy with the Soha track in the first place..and so the unhappiness is deep rooted. Just wanna touch base about this first... The moment Soha was introduced she was trouble with a capital T, and serious trouble cause she was Soha Khurana!! The girl had power...she was the female Manik Malhotra!! And people who have a powerful backing at a very young age..learn to use it too very quickly...just like Manik..they know how to negotiate and manipulate!! Soha was no ordinary girl with a crush on Manik..nope...she wanted him and she would have got him. Soha would have ripped MaNan apart without a doubt..if and only if it was not Manik on the other side. Any other guy and he would have buckled under the Khurana duo pressure...unluckily for the father daughter and luckily for us...she chose the wrong guy...Manik had the power and the means and the money to fight back and so he did...but he was never...never going to get out of it without collateral damage.Soha was also brought in for one big reason..jealousy. And no..please do not underestimate or look down upon this very very powerful human emotion. It can lead to love, confession and even murder!! If love can push buttons, hate and jealousy are equally powerful string pullers. And nope jealousy does not translate as lack of trust or faith...nope not always...its definitely more complex than that!! Soha made Nandini realize she was not capable of letting go of Manik. She could walk away, that was manageable but seeing him with someone else...was just not an option!! Nandini's realization and desperation were all brought on by jealousy..yes it does good too!!
So, the track did some good and some bad in the end...but what it brought about was what we always knew!! MaNan were weak somewhere...yes it hurts like hell to say that...but that's the brutal truth. A relationship grows, takes roots...takes years to build..block by block...experience by experience. Just attraction, physical or otherwise is not love..right??
Soha did not destroy MaNan...nothing could have pulled them apart if they were strong enough!! For me the way Soha track ended was perfect...the girl had power..she used it...Manik fought back but some damage had to be suffered. She revealed their strengths and their weaknesses too...
Now...the IHU track that some feel is stretched now!! Let's look at what Nandini did (and before someone says a word about my partiality...stop...I was among the first to defend her stand...so please I don't belong to camps and those who do...they don't belong in my posts...thank you!!) She was doubtful about MURDER!! Yes...it was a murder charge...killing someone willfully!! Just for one moment think...if Khurana would have refused to take back the charge...then Nyonika's all the power in the world might not have been enough to get Manik out of prison. Yes...Nandini's statement was like the death knell!! It effectively killed Manik's life...his future...the guy would have spent his whole life in and out of courts and jails, totally destroyed!! All for the fact that he saved Nandini !! Nandini's doubt...one second of floundering was akin to Manik's murder!! We are watching this as a love story...but lets not forget the implications of certain actions!! How would you have fared in Manik's shoes...would you be able to forgive a partner whose doubtful testimony would have labelled you as a murderer...really??? However much I hate Nyonika...I owe her for two things...saving Manik's hand and saving his life...literally!! (Yes..it was a trap laid by her...but...no one knew that right other than khurana and us...so the case was at that moment genuine...the magistrate and his ruling were genuine too..)
We take this as a lovers' tiff and so want him to forgive and forget, but is that justified?? Is that what this was...just a small lack of trust...a misunderstanding...?? Can we please consider the implications of this slip up and then understand the man's hurt?? Nandini understands...yes, she understands the magnitude...only some of us don't!!
Now, coming to the future jealousy track that quite a few are against...some saying being there done that?? When?? With Dhruv ?? Some instances yes...but was it pure jealousy?? Nope...there were several undercurrents. Manik was very insecure..he wanted to be what Dhruv was to her!! And he also just did not feel good enough for Nandini, at the back of it all he felt inadequate, he knew Dhruv was a better choice!! He wanted her to smile for him, to treat him as a friend, a confidant that Dhruv had become for her..but the poor guy just didn't know how to go about him!! It was not much of why are you smiling at him...but more of why are you not smiling at me?? Why do I get the frowns..?? It was more about Manik and what he wanted from Nandini!! Yes...there was traces of jealousy too but they were tempered and controlled by the fact that he absolutely loved Dhruv like a brother!! Then is pure jealousy even a possibility?? Please don't kill me for saying this but at that time I felt Manik loved Dhruv more than he loved Nandini..that was the attraction phase...love came later much later. So...my point...no we have not witnessed a purely jealous Manik !! What we saw was conflict..yes...he finally left her for Dhruv...then how could that be jealousy?? Wasn't that his unconditional love for a friend??
This track is different...this promises to be pure possessive...un adultered jealousy...!! He owes the Pandit nothing but antagonism...so this should be a different ball game altogether!! And somewhere they have taken each other for granted...time for a wake up call!! Time to realize, like Nandini did...that you can walk away but can you see her with some one else?? And those who say, Jealousy is just more salt...nope its a spice..a seasoning that is always welcome in a relationship...as it grows older..it needs to be re invented...rejuvenated...and this one spice can give it a breath of fresh air...trust me!! š Some say he has suffered enough...huh??? He is in love ..right?? Love is half pain, half pleasure.š...even at seventy you feel unhappy if your partner gives more attention to grandkids and less to you...ask your Dadaji..he will know!! š So who are we to decide that they have suffered enough..if so then they have loved enough too...?? š
The problem is not MaNan...its us!! We each have our individual expectations or thoughts or opinions and we feel the story should progress accordingly..can we just sit back and let them tell their story š!! ( I have mine too...and I lectured myself mercilessly trust me..) ANother problem...we love them...we love them too much...and that's makes us emotional..unbalanced!! Can we take a few paces back...clear our vision and then take a look...its a gorgeous love story...and its still in the making!!
(And I am not in the pay of the cvs...some might label me their chamchi...again...but I have a bad habit of saying what I feel...so sorry...š)
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