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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ok now my turn dear u r amazing this post ohh i loved it to the core u r absolutely right we fans r so madly n opelessly in love with manan that we r not able to understand that manan is a love story and every love stories has so many troubles burries and lovers ned to cross them through their love trust and faith
personally i never dislike soha dat much cause dat track had realized them that they cant sre eachother wit anyone else this traclk showed us how madly they love each other and aso showed us inspite of so much love they r so weak as well as their relashionship manik always believed love is trust from very since of his life n we shuld not forget that he broke up wit alya for dis lack of trust aliya was nothing to him but nandini is his life how can he forgivre her so easily
besides when dhruv happend that manik n dis manik has lot of diff that time he was hell confused he used to love his buddy mre than hi life but now things have changed so i think dis ihu track will make der relasionship more strong and they will have extreme faith n confident on each other
so sorry for such a long post if my words hurts u than i m.sorry thnx a ton dear for making such a post wher i m able to give my pov love u dear 👏
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Posted: 10 years ago
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main toh huggies dena bhul hi gayi 🤗 🤗 🤗
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Posted: 10 years ago
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simply loved your post
agree with each and every line of yours
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I have no words to say.
I may add something later.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I absolutely agree. You've said in much better words what I've wanted to say in previous posts of mine (which tend to go unnoticed since I'm a new and not so regular member in this forum).

I strongly feel this track is NEEDED for them to actually realize what they mean to each other. At the age they are at in the show (19, if I'm not wrong), LOVE is a very easy word to say. It CANNOT be forever wala love at such an early age, whatever you say. But, this is a show and still for it to be realistic but at the same time forever wala, things like this are needed. Now ofcourse since it's a show extremes will be shown. But such possessiveness and jealousy IS a very common emotion in couples at this age. People fight for such small things and this is MURDER we are talking about. And no matter what anyone says, I think Manik is ABSOLUTELY justified in this outburst. Of course we all know hatred is a very strong word, but his anger and hurt and betrayal is more than justified.


And like he said in today's episode, IF they manage to stick it out over these few weeks of the concert, then they have hope. Cause then they will REALIZE what they mean to each other. This is linking to my point above where I said that despite the young age, this is more than JUST attraction. It is STRONG love. And for a relationship to grow stronger, a PROPER HARDCORE difference of opinions is needed. And more than anything, you need to fight it out. To see for yourself how strong the love is.


I've even said this earlier that I prefer Manik as a character over Nandini any day. But as a couple these two are meant to be and this test is needed. For them to realize what a strong connection they have. The fact that they know is is a different thing. They need to REALIZE it.


And as of now, his jealousy is going to make him realize it. How jealousy will over take torture. How hope will take over hatred. And how love will take over it all. :)
Edited by XOXOgossipgirl - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: MaybeSomeday...

WOHOOO I GET THE FIRST POST! WOHOO
NOW LET ME JUST SPEND THE FIRST FIVE MINUTES HYPERVENTILATING AND DANCING LIKE A FANGIRL.

KAY?
WOHOOO

LET ME FEEL NOT THINK.

Calms down.😆

Unreserving now.

The amount of times i've to refresh to see your posts! i be all happy to be first kay?🤣
I really love how you give such a well thought and well analyzed analysis of everything and I don't think there's any sort of bias here. You always produce beautiful angles to things and simply adore anything you write because it's so clear first of all, so deep and so well put and sends your brain wheels churning. So just always always keep writing because I LITERALLY LOVE YOUR POSTS SO MUCH! And you're always bursting with optimism about this show like Genie Ma. You both should sit together and nobody will be able to not love this show lmao.


Now coming back to the show I've to admit that it has become sorts of an addiction😆 there was a time when even I had it on a pedestal as the show that's set to be apart and the most amazing, different one ever. The first 70 episodes of this show will always be really special for me and unbeatable as well. They were something else.

Now I see it more as a show with its needed amount of fillers and dragging and their limited availability of thing of sorts. There are days i do like the episodes and days i really don't. I always prize brilliant quality, settings, placement, over quantity. For me because scenes + scenes make any show, i want every scene to be not just depicted beautifully but to be impactful and moving the show even further. I think also because I love critically studying stories i sometimes expect too much so its okay.😆

Now having said that, coming to my babies, I adore them. They're just two teenagers stuck in a phase that's too intense for them to handle. Both Manik and Nandini have to do some learning of their own. I don't want them to get back together 'just because' without taking any lessons from this. In fact I'm hoping for them to take the long road and discover themselves before stepping back into this relationship.

Manik is my baby, like a little adorable bachha for me, but I know that he has a lot of learning to do on his own, things that Nandini has and should have absolutely no hand in. He cannot always revert back and play into Nyonika's hands for give and take. Manik lets Nyonika Manipulate him because he simply allows for it to happen. And I want him to break free from those shackles. The moment he does he'll be liberated and he'll breathe.

I know Nandini had a simple, gullible moment of human error and erring in the courtroom and she's that gullible but Manik also has yet to learn the depth of her vulnerability, of what this means to her, of what he means to her, of how this girl has always incurred losses, great loss of the people she so dearly loved. Since the day she's been in his life she's been trying her best to cope, and somewhere under all that pressure the girl's bound to loose her self and that's where I want my boy to step in. I don't want Nandini to always nurse his hurts because he's so much more capable of so many more things than his anger and confusions. And he's always shown that sensiblity and capability and this one time I want him to be the one to walk on that learning curve and find his self.

And Nandini too, too many questions she needs answers to, she should need answers to, so many facts of life, harsh as they're she needs to learn. She needs to see things as grey, learn the harsh truth about many people. Smile abundantly.

This whole partnership thing looks quite interesting because it's again taking them to their base. Partners, that's how they started communicating. Manik's doing that right now. He needs her, he loves her and he wants to give her that chance, give their relationship that chance by making her see things as what they're and not as what they're sold.
He's always had this 'she just believed me. Maan bhi liya usne. Manik aise kaise kuch karsakta hai?'

And he knows that's where the root cause lies. And because he's Manik he'll show her the truth of it all in his own implicit way because he can never be away from her and he who gives no one any chances will do it for them.

Babies are just perff in that way.
and so adorable.
But they've a lot to learn yet and I'm hoping this track brings all that to limelight and more. I wouldn't mind the much needed introspection and time apart, with both focusing on their goals, Nandini on herself as an individual and Manik on himself as an individual toward positive construction.

PHEW.
Rida.😳

P.S. JEALOUS MANIK IS ONE ENTERTAINING PACKAGE I'D NEVER WANNA MISS.
🤣

I can go on and on about how much I love you..gush n mush n no hush...but will only say..i m the leader of the Rida Fan Club..😆..and thank you !!Embarrassed
Hmm...I have done the same in a way to the show..put it on a pedestal coz I think its perfect!! NO...the wrong word cause a few more years in this world has taught me..nothing ever is!! Nothing is perfect...and perfection is boring!! Just think what would Manik be if he was perfect...sheesh...booorrriiinng!! So...if its man made...it can't b perfect and having accepted that...I am just happy if I get a good logical story...great performances..and a love story I can sink my teeth in..and a saga I can dip my heart in...(now that itself is a tall order in today's TRP ruled world..so might as well I shut up now!!😆)
I swear I can't stand two minutes of another indian telly show...God knows have tried...( I call it the great indian challenge...when u think this show sucks try watching two mins of another indian show...ROFL..that should cure you )so I value what I have right now...and am actually so addicted that I worry about what will happen when its over and done with...
Hmm what you say about stories does not surprise me cause you my sweetheart are a die hard romantic...the world for you has to be idyllic..perfect...hmm how I love dreamers like you...they make the world worth living..Its people like you..the ones who won't settle for second best...that make all the difference ❤️...The likes of me...hmm...realist to the core...I guess 😆
Same here...adore them...and realize that they are teenagers...caught in a whirlpool...a love that hit them totally unprepared and too young...it can be overwhelming and scary!! So we have to cut them some slack. Its a love story in the making...we judge it like its over and done with...
They have a long way to go...and in this case the journey promises to be more interesting than the destination. And likewise they getting together without learning some hard bitter lessons out of this whole escapade ...would be useless. I don't want them to reunite any time soon...not without rectifying some mistakes at least. For others...there is a lifetime!!
Manik...he is already so mature (they both are) but its just not enough for the kind of love they have been hit with or for the kind of life he has been destined to live with. Nyonika...he will be saddled with her till the day he becomes a man...an actual real man of this world...the day he totally grows up...is the day he gets rid of her!! As I see it...she still has a part to play in his and their story...so...she will be around but then will come a day when they are so strong that she becomes redundant...useless...totally powerless...till then she will play her role..testing them and making them stronger at every turn...
He needs to evolve...some with Nandini...and some without her. He needs to carve his own niche, seek his own identity without her...figure out so much and no one can help him in that...in the past Fab 5 couldn't and even Nandini can't ...they are his battles and only he can fight and win...I don't want Nandini crippling him with her help...nope..he has to deal with them on his own...no
The same goes for her...she has a lot of growing up to do..if she has to deal with the likes of Manik and Nyonika all her life. She has been sheltered and protected...in a way she looked at the world through the rose tinted glasses of the idealist...as you say so aptly...the grays and the blacks needs to be introduced in her shade cared alongwith the whites and the pinks. I don't want Manik holding her hand all the time or baby sitting her...she has to come on her own...
They are now at a very interesting phase...working together...creating together...learning together...side by side...going through pain and pleasure together...and they have never seen this kind of togetherness before...this kind of comradeship has always been denied to them...and how much will they learn from this...again...so excited...rubbing my hands in anticipated glee...so wanted a track like this...where they stand shoulder to shoulder...
The bottom line..they have to grow...both of them cause...
Only two strong sensible individuals can make a solid love story...love is not for the weak!!
They have so much to learn...so much wisening up to do, so much to absorb and digest...but do we have the patience!! We just seem to take a love story as an absolute...a totality...love..so trust..so faith...they are ready to die for each other..period...hey where are the shades...the subtleties...the nuances...the ups and downs...the learning curve...the gradual turning over of every page in a saga...the graph that shows a relationship growing stronger with each withering storm...
We think its already a love story...if only they are written so easily and quickly...sigh!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Aap tho post pei post damaakar dete ho, ki app ek fans Parth kei action jasie superlative terms ka google karna paregaa!!!
Agree to every point!! Especially why manic is so hurt and feel betrayed!
What the show has to offer, I am with Nandini Moorthy! Bring it On! Our hope on CVS win or their hate on bad TRPs win..😛

It's too complex for me to think what jealousy can stir and how possessiveness can take over..I have this unique disability of understanding the depth go emotions which I haven't experienced,..so I would stick on with all your ladies view points and take it as my learning curve..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Oh...my goodness...
i think i am falling in love with ur writing...like seriousslllyyy...how can someone write so ethereally...!!!!!!??????
HOW?????HOW??????HOW??????
Do u know 2 days earlier i wrote my 1st post n it was on d jealousy track only...but no can i write as beautiful as u... no...no...no... u r just amazing...
i totally like really wala TOTALLY agree with ur each n every word...
this is a much required track 4 manan's relationship to grow n be strong, like a relationship of love should be...
u know THE UNBREAKABLE...TENACIOUS...OBSTINATE...PERTINACIOUS...Kind of love...so yeah they need this track gravely...
n also my thoughts were same as you but i was not able to express it so befittingly and intricately...
🤗 this hug is 4 u 4m my side...
ok..bye..take care...

P.S- trust the cvs
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Same here...adore them...and realize that they are teenagers...caught in a whirlpool...a love that hit them totally unprepared and too young...it can be overwhelming and scary!! So we have to cut them some slack. Its a love story in the making...we judge it like its over and done with...


Manik...he is already so mature (they both are) but its just not enough for the kind of love they have been hit with or for the kind of life he has been destined to live with.


THIS. EXACTLY THIS. This is exactly what I've been wanting to say ever since everyone has gone berserk with the track. It is needed. Needed for this very reason. They're far too young to understand the depth of the love they're feeling and with the love they are in. This is only going to bring them closer. And I for one, am really impressed with this track. And Parth has been doing a stellar job. He can seriously match senior actors in the expressions and express with eyes/faces department. Superlative.


ANd like you said. He has to keep reminding himself that he's got to hate her. Take the terrace scene for example. Honestly, that is by far my FAVORITE MaNan scene. Even over and above their lovey dovey ones.(Again, KICKASS acting by Parth. I mean what amazing expressions even without talking. His face is SO freaking expressive! The scene after she goes away, theres a part where they show her walking in the corridor and him in the terrace simultaneously. The way he's holding on to the railing for support and just trying to balance himself from breaking. AMAZING) Cause it's SO real and SO relatable. He wipes her tears, caresses her cheeks. ANd suddenly takes a deep breath and lets go. Cause he had forgotten. And as of now, he can't afford to forget it. He NEEDS to get it our of his system. As much as we want them to solve things, what about his feelings?! We've always been complaining that HIS feelings are compromised cause of everyone else's. It's his turn now. Let him get it out of him. All will be well once he's over it. It's too soon to forget.
Edited by XOXOgossipgirl - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Updated on Page 2 😊

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