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Posted: 10 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: charminggenie


If he is selfish enough, which he is or else he never would have wanted or desired this feeling , he will change for himself because he wants to have this love in his life. Not for her , but for himself.

@Bold - Last few days this place worked well for those discussions .

To some extend I at par with you, though when you compare his character change from the 1st episode to the last, he seems to be going in circles... This is the not the first time where they have come to a crossroad (with his monster self), even when she proposed lets be friends first, he turned to his monster self again. There is lack of progress when it come to his characterization and change..
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Posted: 10 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: priyanka3677


Hi

Tina I don't think he is behind her expulsion at all. He will just ignore her and go away tomorrow I feel and Niyonika will take it that her son is over Nandini.

And that would be her biggest defeat.
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The real loser in all this is manik if we consider...
Hope he wakes up from his anger n try to find out what really happened?

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Posted: 10 years ago
#43
Genie...Manik being inherently all good is up for debate... from my POV
Bcoz most of his goodness is concentrated on few people only ...
With others he is careless ...indifferent ...vengeful... even cruel...
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Posted: 10 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: -mehr-

To some extend I at par with you, though when you compare his character change from the 1st episode to the last, he seems to be going in circles... This is the not the first time where they have come to a crossroad (with his monster self), even when she proposed lets be friends first, he turned to his monster self again. There is lack of progress when it come to his characterization and change..


See this thing is Monster self which he had was for years, he was slowly steadily shedding it all down. But then it would take him one moment, one misstep especially if it's orchestrated by her mother to retreat back.
Is this not how we all deal with our issues- when shit hits, we are angry, we stop listening , it's only when we calm down or someone makes us understand we come around. Technically he is doing the same- he is hurt, has a legitimate reason to be so - yes he is walking away, because that is his defense mechanism just like crying is for Nandini.
He needs to be away to get that space to let this whole thing play out.

I don't think he has been an monster or there has not been any progress. But the way it was going I would have been surprised if he didn't lapse now especially when it had trust and his mom involved in the same equation.

He would have to come back to the starting point to realize that he cannot do this however much he wants, he cannot go back after coming this far
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Posted: 10 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: MaybeSomeday...

that my friend is cherry pickingg. Never makes sense.😆
Welcome to my world, where we dissect every word, It's called nitpicking, and it works wonders on others 😆
Are you saying all relationships are supposed to be about just receiving? That they involve no problems? Talking about normal relationships that is.
When did I say that? I said at the current track and junction their relationship seems toxic. I am not referring to their past or future, but highlighting on their present.

I think relationships evolve with time, bonds strength with time and tests. Both of these things. Sometimes you do not realize how much you love someone until that love is tested, sometimes you do not know how much you can do for someone until you're put on test. Time and tests, they're a bonding factor.

Toxic would be absolutely no growth. Toxicity is not light. It's a mental abuse to people in a relationship. It's a constant poison. Manik and Nandini don't even go near.
Toxic is state and it's not permanent, so there is potential to grow with change. And you think in the current track there is no mental abuse for Manik and Nandini, there is no pain?


They're broken people with their set of issues that cannot vanish in thin air. They're teenagers as well swinging btw conflicts and turmoils. They're going to find their way because they have it in them, too.

And I know these scars will bleed
But both of our hearts believe
All of these stars will guide us home


this song, bas! feels. ^
The song is too sweet for my taste 😆
The song Demons is still playing in back ground 😆

Edited by -mehr- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: arathim

Genie...Manik being inherently all good is up for debate... from my POV

Bcoz most of his goodness is concentrated on few people only ...
With others he is careless ...indifferent ...vengeful... even cruel...


Aren;t we all indifferent at times. Nandini too is indifferent, she doesn't go seeking crusades , she fights for her people or just when it weighs down her conscious at that moment like say Shahid's case , she is more open about it than him.

He is vengeful only for his loved ones. and he doesn't mind being cruel for them because he doesn't care for himself.

Careless- they both are or we won't be having this communication vacuum.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: -mehr-

that my friend is cherry pickingg. Never makes sense.😆
Welcome to my world, where we dissect every word, It's called nitpicking, and it works wonders on others 😆


very nice.😆


Are you saying all relationships are supposed to be about just receiving? That they involve no problems? Talking about normal relationships that is.
When did I say that? I said at the current track and junction their relationship seems toxic. I am not referring to their past or future, but highlighting on their present.

that's the thing. I was asking, thus the question mark XD



I think relationships evolve with time, bonds strength with time and tests. Both of these things. Sometimes you do not realize how much you love someone until that love is tested, sometimes you do not know how much you can do for someone until you're put on test. Time and tests, they're a bonding factor.

Toxic would be absolutely no growth. Toxicity is not light. It's a mental abuse to people in a relationship. It's a constant poison. Manik and Nandini don't even go near.
Toxic is state and it's not permanent, so there is potential to grow with change. And you think
toxic may be a state but it also has a time loop. Its symptoms are constant throughout thus eliminating the concept of errors and trials. People in a toxic relationship are not ready to change, the ones who are, are no more in one. A toxic relationship isn't light, not to me. it's a big thing and never leads anywhere that is until a huge change hits you. A huge one.

in the current track there is no mental abuse for Manik and Nandini, there is no pain?


mental abuse and pain are not synonymous. As they say, no pain no gain. No to former, yes to latter.




They're broken people with their set of issues that cannot vanish in thin air. They're teenagers as well swinging btw conflicts and turmoils. They're going to find their way because they have it in them, too.

And I know these scars will bleed
But both of our hearts believe
All of these stars will guide us home


this song, bas! feels. ^
The song is too sweet for my taste 😆

Which other one will you prefer?😆

i feel really lazy today.🤔
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Posted: 10 years ago
#48
@A - Problem is we tend to evaluate Manik and Nandini's goodness using same reference point. That is wrong because their definition and inherent goodness would e shaped by their individual experiences.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#49
Yo!😎
Get me a Manik pliiis.

My own Monster Manik.

sigh

Mera Manik. Just. :'))
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Posted: 10 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: rubys07

Yo!😎

Get me a Manik pliiis.

My own Monster Manik.

sigh

Mera Manik. Just. :'))


Yo, Make do with Suha, ok.😆

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