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hey.. im new 2 dis and i prob dont hav a history wiv dis forum.. and i shudnt say nefin.. but i onli joined coz i njoy watchin kyph.. i dnt think ppl shud reali talk bout or argue ova da personal lives of dese actors.. i think every1 shud chill out n jus njoy kyph.. dats y were all on dis rite? coz we like watchin it.. well dis is onli my opinion.. sori if it offends ne1..

Originally posted by: Angad_Kripa_200

Hey Raksha di, I read what you said and its very true. But I really dont understand what going on here. Why is everybody wanting to leave all of a sudden? Whats going on, I am really confused. 🤢. Jenny di what happened?

neha and Sneha's fan are fighting almost everyday

Jenny,

The problems in this forum are unique just because one of its members happens to be the gf of a star

Her very presence on this forum has skewed this forum completely and created groups not only in the forum but also on the dev team it seems - as someone is always making plans to leave whenever they have spoken out on a topic against her.

For me when a gf of an actor comes to the forum to promote her boyfriend and badmouth another actor; she not only skews the forum and creates politics that would never have been there; but she

puts up her personal life up on the platter for anybody to comment on and discuss.

The members of the dev team should be above all this - but not so it seems - and should actually ask the gf to leave.

But not so, maybe because of shared friendships or to support her agenda. And then maybe at a higher level because she brings in more members because of her very prescence here?

Thought this was an INDEPENDENT forum - but does not feel like it.

I also come and get what I need and get out of here.

You have to be part of the team that supports the gf otherwise you are not on the team it seems.

Love
Maya



Love
Maya

Hey Guys Chill...

Has everyone gone and agreed to the promises i have put forth???

Misty

Originally posted by: Angeleyes 2

neha and Sneha's fan are fighting almost everyday

Hey thanks for clearing up the confusion. well Jenny di, I really dont know what to say. I am sorry first of all if any of my post have hurt you personally or anyone here in the forum infact and I am also sorry if my posts have created chaos. Honestly, if it has I never meant to do so. So lets all leave everything aside and lets stop all this fighting and be a happy family like we used to be. and please stop talking about leaving the forum. please.

guys cant we work these problems out? n raksha thank u for takin care of the forum everyday and we all appriciate all mods hard work n jenni donno no wat to tell u i guess people have to understand by them selves other wise we cant do anything otehr then close their posts. ppl on this forum are forgeting thta this forum is to discuss the characters and teh show not the actual actor and actresses. instead of leaving this forum or becoming a silent member we cant do anything.
i really donno wat to tell u. i wish i had something to say or to make all the fights go away but as long as we all remain together n not fall a part i think it wont matter wat others are saying.

im not tryin to hurt n e one but just tryin to help. hope i didnt hurt n e one

Originally posted by: maya123

Jenny,

The problems in this forum are unique just because one of its members happens to be the gf of a star

Her very presence on this forum has skewed this forum completely and created groups not only in the forum but also on the dev team it seems - as someone is always making plans to leave whenever they have spoken out on a topic against her.

For me when a gf of an actor comes to the forum to promote her boyfriend and badmouth another actor; she not only skews the forum and creates politics that would never have been there; but she

puts up her personal life up on the platter for anybody to comment on and discuss.

The members of the dev team should be above all this - but not so it seems - and should actually ask the gf to leave.

But not so, maybe because of shared friendships or to support her agenda. And then maybe at a higher level because she brings in more members because of her very prescence here?

Thought this was an INDEPENDENT forum - but does not feel like it.

I also come and get what I need and get out of here.

You have to be part of the team that supports the gf otherwise you are not on the team it seems.

Love
Maya



Love
Maya

I would rather not comment on such distasteful write ups which are just targetted at unsuspecting people, who are not only working hard,but also taking a lot of crap...This message is also not helping the forum in anyway and IF would have easily done away without such 2 cent contributions...Fueling the fights is not what a responsible member is supposed to be doing...Its very easy to point out and keep complaining..What is our part in diffusing the situation is more important...Or are we the ones who are actually creating the situations _ this is the question that we should ask ourselves before we point out at others...IF is not a debate platform...Specially KYPH section used to be a very innocent section till recently...If we are taking so much from IF, I think we have a responsibility to give it back something....To keep a forum clean is everybody's responsibility...

People just cant get away with whatever they want to say, without having the least regard for the fellow members...More than worrying about how a certain actor or actress is being treated, I think its more important to be considerate to the fellow members....

I want to see how many of the members will really raise to the occassion and help the forum get back into shape...Cos of this groupism, we have had enough already...Its time to reshape and restore!

Raksha

IF DEVELOPMENT TEAM

there r many fights betwen iqbal n amit
raksha di is rite
the dev team is tryin their best 2 stop all these fights nut it aint there fight if nobody is listenin

I just logged on in two days have been extremely busy with work and wanted to let everyone know my feelings & am also speaking on behalf of my dear chaddi friend Padma who i have known for so many years that THE DEV TEAM HAVE OUR SUPPORT IN GETTING THIS FORUM BACK IN SHAPE...like Rakhsa said, "It is time to reshape & restore! 😃