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too much drama..arent we here for kyph?

nice post jenny
why care abt their personal life. we shud pay attention to our frends and wat they r paid to entertain us

Originally posted by: rakshal

Jenny,

Which IQ posts that you are talking about, which have been left even after repetetion...Can you please give me the links?

Hey who are you calling baised? Do you know you are actually telling things to the DEV team, who are taking the brunt of the over active forum as well as the members, who sometimes are so rude?Do you know that the members of the moderator team are just like you all who are here to have some nice discussions and have fun?

Hey we are working hard day in day out, to make the forum a better place for you all...Its so unfair to get such comments, that we are being baised and closing Amit and others article posts...Its just getting to be too much...

I do agree that the forum is divided into two groups and its so apparent...But we are trying to get back to normal...And with everyone's support we will be able to do it...By just leaving the forum, I dont think we can achieve much....The problem still will remain as one...

This is just my humble but accurate opinion...

luv,
Raksha

First of all , the post is not targetted at the DEV team but the Sneha and Neha fans who fight all the time. and if the Dev team is part of the Sneha and Neha team, then it applies to them too.

and I thank all those who wonderstood my view. You guys proved how good and true friends you all are.

and to those whom I thought were my friends, you just prove it, that You were never my friends to begin with.😭

I am sorry, but I need it to get this out of my system. and Since those whom I considered friends were never my friends, You should have no problem with me leaving.

But a true friend once told me leaving will not be a solution, - Sorry LT, but if you were here, you would also understand me.

Originally posted by: rakshal

I would rather not comment on such distasteful write ups which are just targetted at unsuspecting people, who are not only working hard,but also taking a lot of crap...This message is also not helping the forum in anyway and IF would have easily done away without such 2 cent contributions...Fueling the fights is not what a responsible member is supposed to be doing...Its very easy to point out and keep complaining..What is our part in diffusing the situation is more important...Or are we the ones who are actually creating the situations _ this is the question that we should ask ourselves before we point out at others...IF is not a debate platform...Specially KYPH section used to be a very innocent section till recently...If we are taking so much from IF, I think we have a responsibility to give it back something....To keep a forum clean is everybody's responsibility...

People just cant get away with whatever they want to say, without having the least regard for the fellow members...More than worrying about how a certain actor or actress is being treated, I think its more important to be considerate to the fellow members....

I want to see how many of the members will really raise to the occassion and help the forum get back into shape...Cos of this groupism, we have had enough already...Its time to reshape and restore!

Raksha

IF DEVELOPMENT TEAM

Raksha,

I am sorry that you see it that way.

BTW, I am not even part of the debate that is going on on this forum and neither I am fuelling any fights.

I just had the guts to point out what I saw - and what the cause of all the root of all the problems. Just because the answer is not liked does not make it wrong.

Also the very stance that has been taken that it is

More than worrying about how a certain actor or actress is being treated, I think its more important to be considerate to the fellow members....

has been the root of all the problems here. Under the guise of the above highlighted rule, Dinky has been allowed to get away with making bad remarks on Neha (many a time under the guise of Kripa) just because she is an actress and we do not have to worry about how she is being treated by Dinky because Dinky as a forum member supposedly has the right to be treated considerately by other fellow members - despite what she is doing being wrong.

The rule that you mention is plain wrong - she is not just a member, she is the gf of the actor of the show. It is very distasteful of her to come here and make such remarks.

I am pointed this out not to cause further problems on the forum but to mentiuon the root of the problem and hopefully together find a way to fix it.

And before you give up on me; please honestly ask the question whether all these problems would have happened if Dinky was not part of the forum and I will rest my case.

Love

Maya

Hello KYPHers, Kaise ho…

I have not posted from two days and yes I won the challenge with my friend by not posting. And you guys all know who that friend is… Yes it is my dear Veena, whom I have shared my lifes lovely stories from my kindergarten days . 😃

Thanks Veena for posting on behalf of me as well, I really appreciate you taking the time of your hectic hospital schedule. Yes , the development has our support in getting this forum back in shape.


"The Dinky Team and The Neha Team" Well said Jenny and let me laugh at this first. 😆 😆

Anyways, my two cents on this post , I am not bashing anybody, I am a straight shooter and these are my views and my views only. 😊

This is a IF – KYPH forum we very well know that 'NEHA BAMB' plays the main lead and every member has a right to discuss her. So there is one team "Neha Team"…. But "Dinky Team", I am lost , are we not giving extra importance to this member and putting her on the same pedestal as "Neha Bamb"…. We should not do that…. She is not acting in KYPH and we should not discuss her or her personal life at all. Period. She should be given the same importance as other members are given. She is as special as all of us are, nothing more nothing less. 😃

Start of KYPH : It started sometime in March and I was a very silent member then. I loved all the stars (especially their acting) equally be it Iqbal Khan, Neha Bamb or Amit Tandon. I observed one thing then, there were a lot of Iqbal fans and they would just go crazy la la la…. Neha Bamb was being bashed from day one on this forum particularly by Dinky and she got the support of all the members who happened to be Iqs fans. I was not able to digest this and I felt very sorry for Neha and started supporting Neha with very few members. Dinky was given extra importance then 'coz she happened to be Iqs gf and she would give inside information about KYPH. (So the arguments with Dinky was very less then , it was only a couple of them who told her not to talk ill of Neha)

But as time passed and the members got to know more about Iq, they were highly disappointed with the way he treated his fans and they expressed their opinions on the forum and there was nothing wrong in that….. In the mean time, they got to know more about the lively and energetic 'NEHA BAMB' better , they realized she was very cool and dignified and never once retorted back. She took all the bashings of Dinky in her stride and moved on…. On account of this, Neha's popularity on the forum grew day by day. 😃

So these days Neha fans are not able to comprehend what is happening on the IF forum and cant digest anybody talking ill of her. They are putting forth their frank views which is not being understood by some of them. And hence these two teams. There should be only one team and that is 'KYPH TEAM'. All the other teams should be shelved ASAP , then the forum will return to its original fun state. 😛

Please feel free to disagree with me , and I would love to hear all your opinions. 😃

And last but not the least, Jenny you are a very intelligent girl and I love your frankness and boldness , common girl , dont quit the forum , this forum needs people like you and especially your lovely comments and this is coming straight from my heart and please believe me.

Heres my two cents and let me just say now that it is not my intention to offend anyone but sometimes you just reach a point where brushing something under the rug is causing more harm than helping. If we are going to name names then there is no point in beating around the bush. Everyone knows that of almost all the animosity on this forumn stems from the opposing views of, as Jenny put it, the "Neha team" and the "Dinky team".

I had been a lurker on this board for quite sometime. Mainly just came to read updates and gather a few spoilers if need be. When I first saw Dinky posting on the forumn, I thought it was cool, I didn't know her and honestly didn't care to, but the fact that she gave spoilers had me looking for her posts. So as time progressed on I glanced over more and more of Dinky's posts and was outright astonished with the malicious aspersions she was getting away with. But still I didnt have the time post on this forumn and kept quiet. PhoenixSuns gave a beautiful rendition to how the forumn evolved and why it seems more fights are occuring now than ever before. I can honestly say that some members are just fed up. There is nothing else about it. No one is out to get anyone, its just when you see that NOTHING is being done about a situation that is CONSTANTLY repeating itself you decide to take matters into your own hands.

I have nothing against Dinky but I DO take offense to her coming to this forumn and using it for her personal Neha bashing agenda. EVERY SINGLE ONE of Dinky's posts winds up getting closed because of some rude, crass, or downright ridiculous comment that gets tracked back to her. Whether she says it first or not, people are just fed up with the seemingly biased attitude by the people who have the power to control the happenings on this forumn.

I am not saying that the DEV team does not do their job. I see time and time again how much you guys have to put up with, from repeated posts (and honestly you cant catch them all) to rude posters who simply dont know the meaning of maturity and decency, and let me just say now THANK YOU FOR ALL THAT YOU DO!! 👏👏👏 But the one thing that comes to my mind is that if SO MANY posters take offense to the continuous rude comments by one lone poster why is nothing being done about it? Is it just because Sneha is IQ's gf? Is it just because she comes to the forumn to give spoilers? Does that give her the right to say hurtful things about another REAL person? We arent blind, just because someone uses the word "Kripa" instead of "Neha" doesnt mean we dont get the meaning implied.

Everyone should treat others with respect. I completely agree with that, but the truth is no matter how much we shouldnt take offense to what is being said about an actor we like people simply do. Why? For me its simply because Neha isnt here to defend herself and I dont think that ANYONE should be able to get away with making comments about ANYONE that are in a hurtful nature. I dont care if they are a stars GF or if that person isnt present on the forumn. If Sneha has a problem with Neha....FINE but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE Sneha settle it on your time and stop bringing your dislike of Neha to this forumn. There ARE Neha fans here and those Neha fans are just outright sick of you getting away with your nefarious posts. The above is also in regards to all the other rude comments that get posted about Suvarna and Amit. Come on guys respect the fact that there are fans of EVERY actor on this forumn. Treat others with respect, be it forumn member or actor.

Misty, I read your post of what the IF members must agree to in order for you to stay, and I wholeheartedly agree to it. But I also think that this matter needs to be handled once in for all. Agreeing to a fresh start is fine but you have to make sure you have negotiated so both sides feel that it is TRULY possible to have a fresh start.

Once again I dont mean to offend anyone but until this matter is handled I truly dont think it will be possible for ANY sence of calm to return to this forumn.

ya i truly agree there r so many topics which go against suvarna/mishti but i just dont reply cuz if i do i will be like totally bashed but there r some ppl in this forum who reply in a very kind manner... 😳

Originally posted by: veena

I just logged on in two days have been extremely busy with work and wanted to let everyone know my feelings & am also speaking on behalf of my dear chaddi friend Padma who i have known for so many years that THE DEV TEAM HAVE OUR SUPPORT IN GETTING THIS FORUM BACK IN SHAPE...like Rakhsa said, "It is time to reshape & restore! 😃

bingo i agree wid u here

i dun want to say anything, but one thing i can say, this forum has lost all its original charm,we have no freedom at all..we cannot share our feelings cannot express our views,why???????

Hmmm... best thing is to ignore the fights.. let those fight who want to .. somewhere they will find it a waste and stop.. i dont know am not on any sides and will not take sides.. i come here to have some fun,, which i have my way and am happy with it..

Am not from dinky side but still i think anyone anywhere has the right to join forums matter its actors girl friend, mom or brother or sisters.. this is a forum for public so i think anyone can join this 😕