Sheesh! - Page 4

Originally posted by: jenny1000

From now on, Iam gonna be a silent member, just reading the updates and spending time with my friends.

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Well... I am doing the same thing too......But for different reasons.....😃

[quote]Plz forgive me if you felt bad, but this is going way out of hand. This forum is divided into 2 groups.

The Dinky Team and The Neha Team.

You forgot the third team Jenny ( To which I belong)........ Those ill mannered spectators who enjoy throwing bottles at the players and then silently slip away to escape the police lathi charge!!!! 😆😆😆 ...... Kolkatans know it best!!

Jokes apart....... ALL OF US have been a part of this mud slinging match. There is no use blaming the other for the state this forum is in.... I have been adorned innumerable times with the chociest of words(read bashing) for trying to intervene......

According to me the Most Utopian Situation would be when EVERYONE IS ALLOWED TO SAY EVERYTHING ABOUT EVERYONE(read celebrity) PROVIDED IT DOES NOT ATTACK A FELLOW IF-ian......

Where is the Freedom of Speech that we Indians celebrate so much??

Curbing our freedom of speech just to maintain peace is just a TEMPORARY Solution..... Similar to the 1975 emergency.....

You want to know what freedom of speech is....?? Go have a look at the old posts-

ZOO LOOKALIKES and BOTH AINT THAT GOOD authored by Jots and swordfishh respectively....and other similar posts ( These are real old.....So you could perhaps "search" for these posts) .......

DISCLAIMER: Pls do not respond to any comments on the actors cuz they were written a really long time back.........😃

Kismet girl, I totally agree with every word you have said. Bang on target. 👏

Originally posted by: maya123

Jenny,

The problems in this forum are unique just because one of its members happens to be the gf of a star

Her very presence on this forum has skewed this forum completely and created groups not only in the forum but also on the dev team it seems - as someone is always making plans to leave whenever they have spoken out on a topic against her.

For me when a gf of an actor comes to the forum to promote her boyfriend and badmouth another actor; she not only skews the forum and creates politics that would never have been there; but she

puts up her personal life up on the platter for anybody to comment on and discuss.

I am partly with you on that.... It is not just that ONE member who is responsible for that.....

This forum also has an Employer's cousin, a friend, an aunt , a sis, a grandmom etc.. who are doing the same thing- Intentionally or Unitentionally(I doubt).....Worse....Is the hypocrisy they have been showing......

A firm believer in FREEDOM OF SPEECH....... I think IF this has to stop- ALL OF THEM SHOULD BE ASKED TO SHUT UP....... Including those those proudly claim to have sources close to KYPH or its actors.....

Or else...... Let anyone speak whatever they want......But perosnal attacks are not acceptable.....

Misty......Do you now understand what I was trying to say in that post of yours??

i am agree with you but i never do this kind of thing

Hey Guys, Well looks like things have really gotten out of hand here in this forum. But like AngadKripa4eva said I completely agree with you Kismet girl and also Paddy Di I agree with you. Both of you are so right. But what I can say is that we should let all these fights behind us and move on being a happy family. Lets top these Neha and Sneha fight and just have fun and enjoy ourselves as a happy family. Please lets forget about the past fight, think of the future happiness and lets all stick together and make the present better please.

Originally posted by: veena

I just logged on in two days have been extremely busy with work and wanted to let everyone know my feelings & am also speaking on behalf of my dear chaddi friend Padma who i have known for so many years that THE DEV TEAM HAVE OUR SUPPORT IN GETTING THIS FORUM BACK IN SHAPE...like Rakhsa said, "It is time to reshape & restore! 😃

bingo!

Kismet...I must say you write really well.. It's a pity that I have not interacted much with you in the past. But I might just add a couple of lines to what you want to say- This Forum has lots of other people who are furthering their respective agendas. It is upto us- The common public to not get hood winked by their agendas....
Whether they admit it publicly.....or silently further their agends in the garb of trying to bring the Forum back on track. 😉

I m not ne one side, I luv everyone morethen actors nd charcters. I just said nd saying everything in fun nd i dont want to offeneded ne one but still people take me wrong nd doesnt want to be my friend so i cant do nething. I just coming on the forum for fun but i m going in depression day by day, so its best for me to stand far of all these tensions nd enjoy with my lil family. Some pplz gave me so much respect nd told me that i m just like their mother nd so carring nd bla bla bla but now they totally changed, have new friends or may be i m wrong but my name is not in the list of their luv ones. I m so so so shocked nd in depression, whatever happening over here its also influencing in my personal life cause of my depression.
I need friends thats y i came over here but nobody needs me. I dont care bout lot of pplz but some who really near of my heart they would be changed so much i cant believe it. I dont came here for fight or nething except fun but nowadays pplz make this forum just a personal place. Anyways if I hurt someone or said something wrong so plz forgive me.

Luv U All Alot
Munni

Originally posted by: buttercup

Hmmm... best thing is to ignore the fights.. let those fight who want to .. somewhere they will find it a waste and stop.. i dont know am not on any sides and will not take sides.. i come here to have some fun,, which i have my way and am happy with it..

Am not from dinky side but still i think anyone anywhere has the right to join forums matter its actors girl friend, mom or brother or sisters.. this is a forum for public so i think anyone can join this 😕

everyone have the right to join this forum ,but I think she must not have revealed her identity ,she must have told us that she is IQs friend /knew someone from the cast .so we must have considered her as a normal forum member ,but now I cannot consider dinky as a forum member bcoz we dont know any star personally & she knows .

for us IQ is an entertainer ,just another actor ,maybe next year we will be crazy about someone else ,but for her he is her life not just an actor .hos success is her success .

so I dont consider her as a normal forum member .

bad mouthing neha & praising IQ is not right at all.Its right that IQ plays the most important part in the success of kyph but his gf should never say so .she have the right to praise IQ buy should not try to promote him

I try to stay away from fights but sometimes react ,its not bcoz I am a neha fan I am a neha -iq fan .I love both equally .

btw today there was no problem between neha sneha fans ,why are you reminding us ?