put your brains aside and think...

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Posted: 19 years ago
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sorry about the title of the post, I just wanted to catch attention, after all I am an attention seeker. 😛


It's silly to see people blaming Kripa and hating her for a very bizarre reason. I am not sure how many of you have been in a situation where your whole world collapsed because the one you love betrayed you in the name of infidelity. God forbid that this happens to anyone, but just think for a moment what would you do then. Those who will answer me saying that they will give him a chance to speak up his truth then I am sorry to say, but you are only saying so you know Angad's truth. No woman can forgive a man for infidelity, if she does then she is either very weak that she needs to dependent on him, or either she is foolish. You all are audience and you all know Angad's truth then why you deny Kripa's circumstances. Can any woman who is reading this is willing to tell me why should Kripa forgive a man who betrayed her trust; the man she loved the most slept with another woman; a woman whom she considered a friend (who is not her friend but an asteen ka saap) slept with her love? We all know the answer and that is she SHOULD NOT forgive that man. Just because we watch it and we know it, we can't blame Kripa for not believing her love.

I find it rather funny that knowing the both sides of the situation, most of you are still developing hatred toward Kripa's character and calling her names such as "brainless", "idiotic". Seeing such replies, I think you all want me to believe that woman should easily forgive a man who betrays her. If you disagree then tell me what are the other reasons of calling Kripa a brainless woman? Or is it because she listens to her best friend? Kripa is not to be blamed for trusting Prithvi, it is he who is her best friend, someone who has always been with her, and how can she not trust him? Give me one good reason why Kripa shouldn't believe Prithvi, well you know the answer yourself, that she doesn't know that her best friend is the cause of all her problem, and mostly the cause of ruining her love's life.

We can not accuse her of not being loyal to her love because if you hear the last sentence said by her, you will get your answer. Kripa said, "Angad maine wahi kiya jo tum chahate the". So why people are making an assumption that she did on her own will. Prithvi might have said something else to Kripa that made her believe that Angad wanted to be punished. Because if you know Angad very well, then you should know that he punishes himself for doing wrong things to Kripa; an example when he sacrificed him self for Kripa because he once made her suffer.

Any strong woman can break down easily when the man she loves mostly stamps the relationship with infidelity. Most of you are women here, so I ask you, would you be willing to forgive a man who betrays you?

ps…Not intended to offend any1

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sharanb thumbnail
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Posted: 19 years ago
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no wayy
that man is going wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy down if u noe wat i mean

and for the record

any guy who tries that isnt the

1. sharpest knife in the drawer

2. the brightest crayon in the box

even though angad is both the sharpest and the brightest

Edited by sharanb - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Nice post, Happe. I agree with everything. Except that when u love someone, even if they did something liek sleeping with another woman, u dont put their life in danger..however much u mite hate them but u still love them and cant see them getting life-sentenced. If ur love is true, u wudnt want to see the man u love, be hanged..u mite want him punished for it..but going against him in teh court case was just beacuse of personal feelings and not the truth, because i think she knew that Angad cant murder nyone..yet, still she let her feelings come in teh way of her love's life..
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Posted: 19 years ago
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ok... Happe I dont agree with u here .... no matter how shattered or betrayed I was , I would NEVER deliberately send anyone - rpt anyone - to jail, based on a charge that I knew He was NOT GUILTY off...

In my books, this act is Petty and this is an "Insaniyaat sey giri hui harkaat" - and this coming frm a woman who touts her so called morals and sense of right & wrong: I am Disgusted plain and simple ..... 😕 Kripa's act y/day sucks major time !
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angad_Diwani

ok... Happe I dont agree with u here .... no matter how shattered or betrayed I was , I would NEVER deliberately send anyone - rpt anyone - to jail, based on a charge that I knew He was NOT GUILTY off...

In my books, this act is Petty and this is an "Insaniyaat sey giri hui harkaat" - and this coming frm a woman who touts her so called morals and sense of right & wrong: I am Disgusted plain and simple ..... 😕 Kripa's act y/day sucks major time !

Agreed.100%.Where were her so-called sanskar??

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: ftm_ca

Agreed.100%.Where were her so-called sanskar??

WITH HER BRIAN

IN EKTAS LOCKER

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angad_Diwani

ok... Happe I dont agree with u here .... no matter how shattered or betrayed I was , I would NEVER deliberately send anyone - rpt anyone - to jail, based on a charge that I knew He was NOT GUILTY off...

In my books, this act is Petty and this is an "Insaniyaat sey giri hui harkaat" - and this coming frm a woman who touts her so called morals and sense of right & wrong: I am Disgusted plain and simple ..... 😕 Kripa's act y/day sucks major time !

BINGO!!!!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I think she has lost it completly😃
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Posted: 19 years ago
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happo di, love ur analysis but am completely lost!
so sorry if i'm spoiling ur post with my huh!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Great topic Happe.

Like I said in Veeru's (IMM)topic, its not a cut and dry, black and white situation of will I or won't I forgive him, just because he still loves me. I, for one believe infedility is not something to be trivialised.

Should it happen to anyone (God forbid), the person involved be it a man or a woman would be devestated to learn of said partners unfaithfulness, and maybe after ranting, raving, cursing and getting it all out, things can be looked at in a calm manner. But you cannot expect one to see things calmly when such a betrayal has taken place. Forgiveness, if it does come, will not come immediately.


That all said, I have to say that I was totally put off by the Volte face that Kripa did yesterday. This is a woman who was brought up with strong morals and principles. Yet, what happened to those morals and principles?

When she hated Angad, she still testified for him in the rape case because she knew he was innocent, it was the right thing to do....those were her own words, so why not here???

Sure, you think he's betrayed you, sure, hate him for that.....but to send him to jail for a crime he did not commit???? A crime that he's accused of committing to his best friend????

What happened to her sense of right and wrong??? What happened to her morals and principles here????

I don't hate her, I'm not even saying she should forgive him before finding out the truth, all I'm saying is that she was completely wrong yesterday....because no matter how much you are hurting, you don't sentance a man to hell, for something he didn't do.

If you want revenge, extract it in a different manner. The way Zeb 🤢 is going to do!!!

Hafsa

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