WHO SAID/DID WHAT ???? - Page 4

Hii milli! 🤗

I usually find ur post read worthy because u have a diff POV and also present it in a sober manner!

Its ok if u don't understand or relate to sonakshi's char and don't like her! Its ur choice but its getting a little too much! Calling her out when she is not at fault and at the same time justifying others wrong to express ur disliking towards a char is wrong!

Ur posts (specially this one) is coming out as a biassed post and is clearly looking as something done for char bashing!

I am sry if i hurt u..it was not my intention!

Cheers!!!

Originally posted by: Shanayass

but dosen't tge same theory applies to other chars??

Sona lied..her fault! Ok! She had her own reasons! But still her fault! Ok!

Rohit also lied to sona and the whole family! He could have also told sona about pari bieng the culprit on leaking tge news! He saw ppl blaming puja after a certain point for puja's condition, he saw sona crying, blaming herself and bieng guilty for no fault of hers atleat then he could have told her! Did pari got punished for what she did? No! It all might have started as a small revenge thing but it became huge! The thing that she used to take revenge was not small! Puja tried commiting suicide and possibly could have died..still did he told anyone? No! Still nobody at sippys know that it was pari who let the secret out! He could have told veena the truth about naren way back when he came to know! It would have hurt her once but all this mess wouldn't have happened and probably their relationships would have been at a far better stage! Did rohit tell sonakshi about rani and the plan?? Even after knowing about his bua's sick plan he was angry on sonakshi and even fought for her! He knew she was bieng used as a bait by everyone and everyone in that damn family blamed ger for bringing rani home..he knew it was all his stupid bua's plan..did he tell anyone about the truth? No! Because he had his own reasons!!

And lets not talk about all the lies nishi and yk have fed everyone! From rohit to sonakshi to veena to puja and everyone else in the family too! And they have been doing that from the past 21 yrs! They lied about puja bieng adopted to puja first, then about rani bieng her mother to everyone and then to justify their lie so many lies were spoken! They have been hiding about naren from everyone for so long! Why? Because they had their own reasons! They coukd have also told everyone the truth! But they didn't because they had reasons! Nisgi told sonakshi that she hid about this because naren told her and promused her that he won't repeat and she trusted him! Sona did the same!

Weren't u the one who once mentioned that nishi-yk should have simply told puja that her biological parents died? Or she was picked from a dustbin or smthg? Why? Wasn't that a lie? They could have told her the truth..it eould have hurt her once but eventually things would have settled! Because they had their own reasons!

So my question is if other chars can ve understood and even if wrong things saud in the fit of rage can be justified by calling it "in the heat of the moment" or "impulsive" then y so critical when it comes to sonakshi!

Sonakshi did what she believed she should do, to protect everyone around her. It's really sad that she doesn't have someone who'll do the same for her. Not even Rohit. Rohit always puts his mom before anyone else, Further proof of this is when Sonakshi said Rohit loves his mom more than anyone else, he didn't even tell her that he love them both equally. Although I truly believe Rohit wants to put his mom and wife on the same pedestal, he subconsciously always puts his mother one step higher.

Sona on the other hand is the complete opposite. She treats everyone the same. her mother in law is as much as a mother to her as her real mother, Naren who leaves no stone unturned to berate her, is still a father to her, a father she never got a chance to know.

She loves Pooja as much as she loves Pari and Pulkit, and I believe that the same goes for Ajit too. She wants to defend Ajit, help him even, because he's family. In spite of what she told him, I truly believe she cares for him, feels sorry for him and that's the reason she's keeping quiet, although not hurting Rohit is also a big part of it.

From all the characters we've got on the show, Sona's is the purest mainly because she only loves. that's the only she knows how to do. ❤️

I myself am not very fond of this, Sometimes I feel like she should give it back to everyone who has taken advantage of her, including her MOMS and after yesterday's episode, her husband as well.

Thank you for reading.❤️

Originally posted by: Shanayass

but dosen't tge same theory applies to other chars??

Sona lied..her fault! Ok! She had her own reasons! But still her fault! Ok!

Rohit also lied to sona and the whole family! He could have also told sona about pari bieng the culprit on leaking tge news! He saw ppl blaming puja after a certain point for puja's condition, he saw sona crying, blaming herself and bieng guilty for no fault of hers atleat then he could have told her! Did pari got punished for what she did? No! It all might have started as a small revenge thing but it became huge! The thing that she used to take revenge was not small! Puja tried commiting suicide and possibly could have died..still did he told anyone? No! Still nobody at sippys know that it was pari who let the secret out! He could have told veena the truth about naren way back when he came to know! It would have hurt her once but all this mess wouldn't have happened and probably their relationships would have been at a far better stage! Did rohit tell sonakshi about rani and the plan?? Even after knowing about his bua's sick plan he was angry on sonakshi and even fought for her! He knew she was bieng used as a bait by everyone and everyone in that damn family blamed ger for bringing rani home..he knew it was all his stupid bua's plan..did he tell anyone about the truth? No! Because he had his own reasons!!

And lets not talk about all the lies nishi and yk have fed everyone! From rohit to sonakshi to veena to puja and everyone else in the family too! And they have been doing that from the past 21 yrs! They lied about puja bieng adopted to puja first, then about rani bieng her mother to everyone and then to justify their lie so many lies were spoken! They have been hiding about naren from everyone for so long! Why? Because they had their own reasons! They coukd have also told everyone the truth! But they didn't because they had reasons! Nisgi told sonakshi that she hid about this because naren told her and promused her that he won't repeat and she trusted him! Sona did the same!

Weren't u the one who once mentioned that nishi-yk should have simply told puja that her biological parents died? Or she was picked from a dustbin or smthg? Why? Wasn't that a lie? They could have told her the truth..it eould have hurt her once but eventually things would have settled! Because they had their own reasons!

So my question is if other chars can ve understood and even if wrong things saud in the fit of rage can be justified by calling it "in the heat of the moment" or "impulsive" then y so critical when it comes to sonakshi!

Excellent post. Here, some people justify other characters in this serial by saying they are impulsive, they are angry,they are reacting according to the situation and all. But when it comes to Sona, they are being too harsh,say every action of her is wrong and she is behaving Mahaan and all.Being other characters have flaws is acceptable by them, but Sona having flaws is not acceptable by them.They repeatedly criticize Sona for her every action. I am not understanding this behavior of some people in this forum towards Sona.

Originally posted by: 2TheMoonAndBack

Whats with you and the words mahaan lol. And even if sonakshi is being mahaan with her acts, why do we have so much problem with that. Some ppl are like that, they love to sacrifice, they're very selfless. And it doesn't seem natural because they're are a VERY people in this world who are like that ok. Also, don't forget that she's the female lead of the shwo and so her character is supposed to consist of selflessness and sacrifices. Idk why this is so hard for anyone to understand...

You spoke my mind and everything that I wouldn't have been able to articulated. Thank you! ❤️

Originally posted by: YoursDearly

Sonakshi did what she believed she should do, to protect everyone around her. It's really sad that she doesn't have someone who'll do the same for her. Not even Rohit. Rohit always puts his mom before anyone else, Further proof of this is when Sonakshi said Rohit loves his mom more than anyone else, he didn't even tell her that he love them both equally. Although I truly believe Rohit wants to put his mom and wife on the same pedestal, he subconsciously always puts his mother one step higher.

Sona on the other hand is the complete opposite. She treats everyone the same. her mother in law is as much as a mother to her as her real mother, Naren who leaves no stone unturned to berate her, is still a father to her, a father she never got a chance to know.

She loves Pooja as much as she loves Pari and Pulkit, and I believe that the same goes for Ajit too. She wants to defend Ajit, help him even, because he's family. In spite of what she told him, I truly believe she cares for him, feels sorry for him and that's the reason she's keeping quiet, although not hurting Rohit is also a big part of it.

From all the characters we've got on the show, Sona's is the purest mainly because she only loves. that's the only she knows how to do. ❤️

I myself am not very fond of this, Sometimes I feel like she should give it back to everyone who has taken advantage of her, including her MOMS and after yesterday's episode, her husband as well.

Thank you for reading.❤️

Even i don't relate to sona to the extent i relate to rohit...but i can surely see through her actions and understabd her!!!

She is indirectly trying to keep rohit happy by keeping ppl related to him happy! And rohit though told ger not to do so..did he really mean that? He told her that "my superwoman wife would handle everything" and "my wife would handle the family and do wverything like my mother did" what was that supposed to mean?? And by again and again telling her that his mom is his 1st priority and is more imp to him than to her and he loves his mom more! I was like WTH! Dude..its completely fine if u love ur mom more...but who keeps chanting that again and again in front of ur wife?? She will understand but won't she feel bad at some point of time that she is not her husband's 1st priority? Won't she feel vad that she is not the one who her husvand loves the most?? Rohit should stip repeating it in front of her again and again!!! He even went on to tell her the same while dressing her wounds on their wedding day! His constant mumma..mumma jaap has actually indirectly made sonakshi feel that she has to do everything to keep veena happy! And to keep veena happy she actually needs to keep everyone in the family happy, specially nareen! And now ajit has joined the list too!

I am not a biassed viewer or a single char stanning person! I have 1000 pounts to defend or justify rohit but if u r gonna point out sonakshi for everything..i am gonna come up with 1000 diff points to defend or justify her too!

Originally posted by: Shanayass

exactly! But certain ppl r like that! My own massi is like that and due to this nature of hers she has faced much much more problems as compared to others in our family!

Even i don't relate to sona to the extent i relate to rohit...but i can surely see through her actions and understabd her!!!

She is indirectly trying to keep rohit happy by keeping ppl related to him happy! And rohit though told ger not to do so..did he really mean that? He told her that "my superwoman wife would handle everything" and "my wife would handle the family and do wverything like my mother did" what was that supposed to mean?? And by again and again telling her that his mom is his 1st priority and is more imp to him than to her and he loves his mom more! I was like WTH! Dude..its completely fine if u love ur mom more...but who keeps chanting that again and again in front of ur wife?? She will understand but won't she feel bad at some point of time that she is not her husband's 1st priority? Won't she feel vad that she is not the one who her husvand loves the most?? Rohit should stip repeating it in front of her again and again!!! He even went on to tell her the same while dressing her wounds on their wedding day! His constant mumma..mumma jaap has actually indirectly made sonakshi feel that she has to do everything to keep veena happy! And to keep veena happy she actually needs to keep everyone in the family happy, specially nareen! And now ajit has joined the list too!

I am not a biassed viewer or a single char stanning person! I have 1000 pounts to defend or justify rohit but if u r gonna point out sonakshi for everything..i am gonna come up with 1000 diff points to defend or justify her too!

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I am also find some times odd when Rohit start his mother jaap. Giving equal affection to both wife and mother is important.

Originally posted by: Sree_mk

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I am also find some times odd when Rohit start his mother jaap. Giving equal affection to both wife and mother is important.

Originally posted by: Shanayass

exactly! But certain ppl r like that! My own massi is like that and due to this nature of hers she has faced much much more problems as compared to others in our family!

Even i don't relate to sona to the extent i relate to rohit...but i can surely see through her actions and understabd her!!!

She is indirectly trying to keep rohit happy by keeping ppl related to him happy! And rohit though told ger not to do so..did he really mean that? He told her that "my superwoman wife would handle everything" and "my wife would handle the family and do everything like my mother did" what was that supposed to mean?? And by again and again telling her that his mom is his 1st priority and is more imp to him than to her and he loves his mom more! I was like WTH! Dude..its completely fine if u love ur mom more...but who keeps chanting that again and again in front of ur wife?? She will understand but won't she feel bad at some point of time that she is not her husband's 1st priority? Won't she feel vad that she is not the one who her husband loves the most?? Rohit should stip repeating it in front of her again and again!!! He even went on to tell her the same while dressing her wounds on their wedding day! His constant mumma..mumma jaap has actually indirectly made sonakshi feel that she has to do everything to keep veena happy! And to keep veena happy she actually needs to keep everyone in the family happy, specially nareen! And now ajit has joined the list too!

I am not a biassed viewer or a single char stanning person! I have 1000 pounts to defend or justify rohit but if u r gonna point out sonakshi for everything..i am gonna come up with 1000 diff points to defend or justify her too!

Beautifully said again! What Rohit keeps saying about his mumma doesn't seem like a problem to us because Sonakshi is the FL, and Sonakshi would never bring it up in front of him. Imagine if Raima was his wife, what would have gone down between her and the Sippys? The Sippys are having so many problems with Sona, an ideal bahu, an ideal human being. What does that tell you? Yes, Sona has made mistakes, but they were made because she cares. Not the other way around.

People keep bringing up Sona's 'Mujhe joot se nafrat hai' dialogue but that isn't all. Context matters a lot. She said this to a person who she believed, (rightfully so) was taking advantage of her family. At that point, she didn't know what was going on but she still supported her family. If this doesn't show you what kind of a person Sona is, I don't know what else will.

Originally posted by: sohit-mishbir

Ajit and pari issues are different.. But Rohit and sonakshi's intentions are not!!

She trusts as much as she would trust pulkit.. And when ajit promised her that he would not involve in gambling then she trusted him... You can't be riding over someone who trusts...

I agree sona needs to tell it... But in pari's case too Rohit didn't want to reveal it nor did suman..

Ajit will himself reveal it Rohit.. but he will take time..

Sona is not wrong in trusting Ajit...

It's not always about justifying one character over other... It's about them together.. Rohit and sonakshi are one.. And I vote for Ronakshi, not Rohit and Sona individually... You question one the other gets automatically questioned coz both of them love each other...

I won't be quoting you any further in this

Hi i agree with you on Ronakshi's intentions...they love each other therefore want to protect EO from pain.

But with Ajit it's sona's responsibility to involve, not only Rohit but the whole sippy family about his problem. After all they do care for their son..Gambling is a serious issue. It makes a person harm others to feed the habit which Ajit did.

Also she herself is shocked and needed another perspective to handle this issue.

In Pari's case the damage had already been done so not much point to involve her when the family already blaming her. In Ajit the damage is yet to be done to their Marraige...

Also Rohit hid Pari's truth to protect only Sona but Sona is doing it to protect Ajit also. She is always trying to be good to everyone and in the process hurts herself and the people who really loves her..

She wronged the man who not only loves her unconditionally but also trusts and respect her and her mother( who is emotionally high strung when it comes to money matters), when she didn't inform the money withdrawal to suman (not Rohit,) then the dowry accusation would not have happend.

See even the not so hypocrite people would take an offence to the unfair accusation by the in laws. This was complete Sona's fault.

She hurt the man who loves her when she lied to his face the reason for money withdrawal. She could have told him then because Rohit will hurt Sona for what Suman disclosed since it's a natural conclusion that she would have been the one who told Suman the secret.

He is going to be a big fool because his wife didn't let him know there are other people who knows the secret. Why the hell Sona didn't share her doubt that someone may have heard their conversation. Not everything needed to be a mystery solved by Sona..

Think the promo makes sense now where he says she broken him and his trust. This is a biggest mistake she did to him. He deserved to know this ya.

He is going to behave foolishly on so many levels. He may even disrespect suman.. Is his relationship with suman not important to Sona?

Give some respect to pain he had been facing for so long due to this perceived infidelity by his father and trust him to handle crisis too.

Like you I am also rooting for Ronakshi but realistically speaking Rohit is not at fault.. At least not yet.. Praying for a decent Monday episode.. Don't want an another high octave suman again...

Rohit is not only blaming Pari for the affair. He was yelling at his wife for the problems they are facing because of her family which is true. He is the one who wanted to beat Rohan.. Wish their fight happened then maybe suman thing wouldn't have...

About Rohit words, they don't bother me as much. Couples say these in anger even after many years of Marraige. Even in real the first year of Marraige couples face some of the ugly fights between them due to adjusting to each other..

Do we complain when he gave praise to Sona after surgery or fights his family and supports her in front of everyone?? or when he uttered some insensitive words to Raima about how he wished Sona came early into his life. He really loves her completely. If it's ok for him show his love amongst family then why not anger???

PS: I felt very bad when Sona involved Sumith again when she needed help not Rohit. This is not the first time. She did it during the wedding, job resignation. Is Rohit such a insensitive husband/friend/human that he would prefer to sleep then to help??? This is not to bash Sona but I would be really hurt if my husband involved his friends and not me when he was in trouble however busy he maybe...

Originally posted by: YoursDearly

Beautifully said again! What Rohit keeps saying about his mumma doesn't seem like a problem to us because Sonakshi is the FL, and Sonakshi would never bring it up in front of him. Imagine if Raima was his wife, what would have gone down between her and the Sippys? The Sippys are having so many problems with Sona, an ideal bahu, an ideal human being. What does that tell you? Yes, Sona has made mistakes, but they were made because she cares. Not the other way around.

People keep bringing up Sona's 'Mujhe joot se nafrat hai' dialogue but that isn't all. Context matters a lot. She said this to a person who she believed, (rightfully so) was taking advantage of her family. At that point, she didn't know what was going on but she still supported her family. If this doesn't show you what kind of a person Sona is, I don't know what else will.

Exactly..but ppl (sometimes even me) forget that context matters! Situation matters! If rohit questioning his marriage in the heat of the moment can be justified then y not sona saying that to an outsider who has been lying and possibly was there to harm her family and even used her as a bait can be justified too!!

If many (though he is wrong) can relaye to rohit saying things in the heat of the moment scan be justified (because we all know he is a gem and he didn't actually mean that) then y not with sona! Even i in my personal life have told many ppl that i hate lies..and i actually do! But that dosen't mean that i have never lied in my entire life!!

I don't have a prblm with rohit or him commiting a mistake! He is also a human after all but y r tge same rules applicable to sona??

If it was the other way around and if sona instead of trying to understand sona blamed him and his gamily for the affair? Because both came to know about it at the same time amd if her sis was envolved than his brobwas envolved too! And went on to wuestion his marriage? And about all the miseries she went through?

what if she told rohit that i was almost raped in ur own room because your family couldn't manage a atranger in ur house? What if she told him that i was molested and anything could have happened to me if on my wedding day because u decided to speak about ur and commisioner uncle's plan in front of that mahesh or didn't warn me about him even when u suspected him? What if she blamed him for the way rohan spoke to her when puja's news was out? What if she blamed him for all the emotional manipulation and insults his father has thrown at her? What if she blamed him for the manhandling his father did when they found puja in a pool of blood? What if she went on to blame him for nishi insulting her and talking low about her by seeing puja in the hospital or for yk jumping his guns on her profession and calling her emotions fake as she is an actress when puja refused to talk to her? What if she blamed him for all the accises thrown at her by all the sippys when she brought rani home when she came to know it was nishi bua's plan and she was used as a bait? What if she blamed rohit for ajit blackmailing her? What if she blamed rohit for his family emotionally manipulating her to an extent that she felt uts best to quit working? What if she blamed rohit for the fact that every single guest that comes to that house and insults her profession but still they keep mum? What if she blames rohit for everything that siyappa aunty and raima did?? Or blamed him for all the bakwaas his pyaari mother did right after she was molested? Or even for leaving her alone on the doorstep all alone minutes after sge got molested and married?😐

The blame game could have done by her also in the fit of rage but she didn't because she thinks about situations! What rohit said cannot be justified by saying its a natural reaction? Natiral reaction to what?

This post is from sona's pov because ppl r still bashing her! Its not a rohit bashing post! If anyone would bash him i have 1000 more points to justify and stand with him too!

I just want both the chars to be treated equally without being biassed!

Peace!🧡