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Wonderful review..

I believe sona and suman fallout happened bec sona decided to give up on her career and two, lied to suman about the money / didnt tell her the complete truth . The family who have been boasting about their social status use sona's money to pay off their son's gambling money..if suman knew it , she would have rubbed it in their faces along with naren pooja..😆 suman is right somewhere to slam the door on sona bec sona is acting totally one sided here...obviously it was wrong to humiliate them publicly..she could wait or ask the guests to leave... its impossible to get the right perspective on things unless the someone is completely honest about the situation.. suman was lied to and so many secrets were kept from rohit so I dont blame him also completely..but in Rohan pari case his judgement is wrong..what was that "your family is behind my family jaap"

Enuf said by me abt the epi but in this I forgot to mention tanya and pooja deserve a round of applause 👏 actors for their acting and the characters for taking it so much in a day ..thy r the real victims not rohit sona veena ..the way everyone turned pale as suman started to blurt out the truth,it was so nicely done 👏

Hey mili, been following your post for a while now and it's high time I make this comment: I really think you should see Sona in a different light. Every act and every action from her side, you point it out and start bashing. Even the smallest of behavior u don't let go.

You said sonakshi should've let pari a chance to explain?? Are you serious?! What explanation is there to give when u see a video OS your own sister and brother in law making love on the bed when they both knew rohit is married and Tanya is expecting?! Even if it was a situation like rohit lured pari into it, there is absolutely NOTHING to justify this sinful crime. Pari and Rohan both should be disowned.

And then you said you didn't like how sonakshi didn't help the situation to calm, instead she gave her gyaan about how " her mamma" is being treated rudely by parayi Pari. Hold up! Please help me understand, is it a crime that sonakshi has started considering rohits mom as her own that she stood up for her when that brat of a pari started disrespecting veena by talking shit about her and her parvarish and that she has no right to slap her, not considering that she's of her mother's age and that she deserves respect?! In fact I'm mad that Sona didn't grab a stick to beat her sister black and blue and kick her out of the house right there and then.

Another thing I would like to point out from your post, you said u don't like sonakshi's jaap about "my family" to everybody and that u didn't like how she told suman to not come to the party. Milli, suman, pari they're her FIRST family. She will never feel the same right she has over them on the sippys no matter how much she says they're HER family and no matter how much she embraces them. Asking her mother not to come to the party - maybe it didn't sound right but any sane mom would UNDERSTAND why her daughter might ha e asked her not to. It doesn't mean that sonakshi doesn't understand sumans concern about sonakshi that she just barged into the Sippy mansion and accused the sippys. It means that she's trying to calm what happened the night before, she's trying to put a balance.

Same with pari, none of the sippys have the kind of right sonakshi has over pari. None of the sippys can beat pari black and blue or disown her other than sonakshi and suman. So when u mentioned in your post that sonakshi is PROVING who's SIDE she is in, she in fact was proving the RIGHT she has over pari by giving her the lecture and slapping her bratty sister. sonakshi has never tried to chose the sippys over her own family because she lives in that house and she's the DIL. In fact she has always chosen her "side" by judging who is right and who's wrong. And I really think you should consider all these factors before bashing sonakshi's character in every post. in sorry if I sounded a bit harsh but I was merely trying to prove my point. I hope you don't take it to heart :)

Originally posted by: Mushfika_01

Hey mili, been following your post for a while now and it's high time I make this comment: I really think you should see Sona in a different light. Every act and every action from her side, you point it out and start bashing. Even the smallest of behavior u don't let go.

You said sonakshi should've let pari a chance to explain?? Are you serious?! What explanation is there to give when u see a video OS your own sister and brother in law making love on the bed when they both knew rohit is married and Tanya is expecting?! Even if it was a situation like rohit lured pari into it, there is absolutely NOTHING to justify this sinful crime. Pari and Rohan both should be disowned.

And then you said you didn't like how sonakshi didn't help the situation to calm, instead she gave her gyaan about how " her mamma" is being treated rudely by parayi Pari. Hold up! Please help me understand, is it a crime that sonakshi has started considering rohits mom as her own that she stood up for her when that brat of a pari started disrespecting veena by talking shit about her and her parvarish and that she has no right to slap her, not considering that she's of her mother's age and that she deserves respect?! In fact I'm mad that Sona didn't grab a stick to beat her sister black and blue and kick her out of the house right there and then.

Another thing I would like to point out from your post, you said u don't like sonakshi's jaap about "my family" to everybody and that u didn't like how she told suman to not come to the party. Milli, suman, pari they're her FIRST family. She will never feel the same right she has over them on the sippys no matter how much she says they're HER family and no matter how much she embraces them. Asking her mother not to come to the party - maybe it didn't sound right but any sane mom would UNDERSTAND why her daughter might ha e asked her not to. It doesn't mean that sonakshi doesn't understand sumans concern about sonakshi that she just barged into the Sippy mansion and accused the sippys. It means that she's trying to calm what happened the night before, she's trying to put a balance.

Same with pari, none of the sippys have the kind of right sonakshi has over pari. None of the sippys can beat pari black and blue or disown her other than sonakshi and suman. So when u mentioned in your post that sonakshi is PROVING who's SIDE she is in, she in fact was proving the RIGHT she has over pari by giving her the lecture and slapping her bratty sister. sonakshi has never tried to chose the sippys over her own family because she lives in that house and she's the DIL. In fact she has always chosen her "side" by judging who is right and who's wrong. And I really think you should considering all these factors before bashing sonakshi's character in every post :)

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Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

How can u trust a gambling addicted guy and take the risk of getting blamed u r self in future..that's a mahaan act ..that's not normal act .

Rohit act was not mahaan act .he let suman know it and back then all sippys were blaming Sona. Bcos they did not know pari did it .they were not blaming rohith

Here every one will.blame sona if ajith truth not revealed

Hell of a difference .no comparison at all

Yess sonakshi needs to tell rohit about this! I agree! But trusting the ajit is not some mahaan thing! She knows ajit is not a bad person and just because he did a mistake u cannot loose the trust on that person! This part i disagree! Even i as an elder sister have hid many mistakes of my brother from my patents because i trust him and once he told me he won't repeat it was enough for me!

Even in this whole scenario if we analyse the situation we would understand that whatever efforts sonakshi took towards building her relationship with sippys or trying to win over their love was worth it! Because since ropa revealation nobody in the sippy family except for rohit blamed her! Nobody threw draggers at her..even aakash chachu blamed her sister pari not her, tanya and deepa who knew about this from so long were normal with sonakshi yk and nishi called rohan the devil and while talking with rohit didn't say it was because of sonakshi, naren also didn't opened his filthy mouth to accuse sonakshi!

And they woukd have not blamed sonakshi for anything of suman wouldn't have done what she did! Suman was right in certain aspects but her approach was wrong! Nobody does what she did when there r ppl not from the family also present! And specially when it is ur newly married daughter's in-laws house! so if on monday the family blames sonakshi i won't be surprised because they would think before her enteting tge family all the secrets were hidden and they were at peace..though wrong but it is human nature if they think like that!

Till now sona kept mum in ajit's matter because the blame was not on her or it didn't turn people against her! But once she knows that ajit let the secret out to suman she should open her mouth and tell this to rohit!

Don't really wanna explain much on the latest episodes as I have said enough in the discussion forum. But I think you are really harsh on Sonakshi. Anything she does, you find faults in her, like how she slapped Pari and told her that both her and Rohan are at fault and she can't blame Rohan alone on this affair. Sona was absolutely right in this judgement, only her and Tanya were the sensible one to blame both Rohan and Pari, unlike Veena and Rohit. It seems like you extremely hate or are critical of Sona's character (whatever your reason is idk), but you give benefit of doubt, leeway to other characters, though they are equally at fault as Sona is.

Coming to Rohit, whatever he said, whether its in anger, in impulsiveness, doesn't justify it. Rohit literally questioned that his marriage to Sonakshi was a mistake. That is a huge coming from a husband. Think of it from Sona's POV.... the affair gets revealed, she literally minutes ago finds out about her Sister and BIL's affair and was busy consoling/taking care of Tanya, her SIL, when Veena should have done it (but instead she was out to Rastogis to settle her score with Suman), and she gets to hear all sorts of nonsense hurling from her husband. Why would Rohit even fualt Sona or just her family for the affair. What about his brother? Shouldn't his first approach been to confront his brother? Nope, instead he's busy blaming Sona. Should Sona have done the same? When Naren was spouting all sorts of crap about her character and her profession, should Sona have blamed Rohit for it because he belongs to a Sippy family? Should she have blamed rest of the Sippys? Would that have been fair on Rohit, to be judged for what his father says? Similarly, Rohit blaming Sona and her family for Pari's deeds are uncalled for. Neither Suman, nor Sona encouraged this affair. They are both on dark as are rest of the Sippys. You can justify it whatever way, but what Rohit said to Sona and what Veena did to Pari (instead of confronting her own son) were wrong and uncalled for.

Yes, I agree Sona shouldn't have lied to Rohit about Ajit's blackmailing, but even for that Rohit put her in that position, constantly telling her "my mom is the most imp for me, her happiness matters the most, she's the top most priority, I trust you to protect my mom and this family (his convo with YK/Nishi)". Though I believe even though Rohit said all this, Sona should have still confided in him, but I don't fully blame her for not doing it either.

In anyway, this whole situation could have been handled better if both communicated with each other. As simple as that.

No offense meant!

Originally posted by: Shanayass

rohit didn't tell suman..pari herself did! Here also it has to be ajit! No one except his dad and rohan actually blamed sona foretting the news out! They didn't doubt her there! It was the news reaching sona and her breakdown after which the sippys lost their mind and blamed her for not able to keep puja away from the reality!

Yess sonakshi needs to tell rohit about this! I agree! But trusting the ajit is not some mahaan thing! She knows ajit is not a bad person and just because he did a mistake u cannot loose the trust on that person! This part i disagree! Even i as an elder sister have hid many mistakes of my brother from my patents because i trust him and once he told me he won't repeat it was enough for me!

Even in this whole scenario if we analyse the situation we would understand that whatever efforts sonakshi took towards building her relationship with sippys or trying to win over their love was worth it! Because since ropa revealation nobody in the sippy family except for rohit blamed her! Nobody threw draggers at her..even aakash chachu blamed her sister pari not her, tanya and deepa who knew about this from so long were normal with sonakshi yk and nishi called rohan the devil and while talking with rohit didn't say it was because of sonakshi, naren also didn't opened his filthy mouth to accuse sonakshi!

And they woukd have not blamed sonakshi for anything of suman wouldn't have done what she did! Suman was right in certain aspects but her approach was wrong! Nobody does what she did when there r ppl not from the family also present! And specially when it is ur newly married daughter's in-laws house! so if on monday the family blames sonakshi i won't be surprised because they would think before her enteting tge family all the secrets were hidden and they were at peace..though wrong but it is human nature if they think like that!

Till now sona kept mum in ajit's matter because the blame was not on her or it didn't turn people against her! But once she knows that ajit let the secret out to suman she should open her mouth and tell this to rohit!

I never believe hiding secrets and I won't tolerate it also .hiding secrets is the root cause if all probs we see in society now

I tell my children always one thing .be transparent .even if u do a wrong be transparent don't hide .

If u r used to being transparent automatically u will stop doing scummiest things ..

When ever u tell a lie u should feel.uneasy ..if u bought up like that u won't be a scum

If u r used to hiding from.parents tomorrow u will hide from spouse too

Any how for me if I am transparent I will have a hearty light feeling and I will have a good sleep and I am trying my children to be bought up like that

Truth hurts only once .lie and hiding and deceit hurts u multiple times that's my.motto I tell that to my kids

Don't really wanna explain much on the latest episodes as I have said enough in the discussion forum. But I think you are really harsh on Sonakshi. Anything she does, you find faults in her, like how she slapped Pari and told her that both her and Rohan are at fault and she can't blame Rohan alone on this affair. Sona was absolutely right in this judgement, only her and Tanya were the sensible one to blame both Rohan and Pari, unlike Veena and Rohit. It seems like you extremely hate or are critical of Sona's character (whatever your reason is idk), but you give benefit of doubt, leeway to other characters, though they are equally at fault as Sona is.

Coming to Rohit, whatever he said, whether its in anger, in impulsiveness, doesn't justify it. Rohit literally questioned that his marriage to Sonakshi was a mistake. That is a huge coming from a husband. Think of it from Sona's POV.... the affair gets revealed, she literally minutes ago finds out about her Sister and BIL's affair and was busy consoling/taking care of Tanya, her SIL, when Veena should have done it (but instead she was out to Rastogis to settle her score with Suman), and she gets to hear all sorts of nonsense hurling from her husband. Why would Rohit even fualt Sona or just her family for the affair. What about his brother? Shouldn't his first approach been to confront his brother? Nope, instead he's busy blaming Sona. Should Sona have done the same? When Naren was spouting all sorts of crap about her character and her profession, should Sona have blamed Rohit for it because he belongs to a Sippy family? Should she have blamed rest of the Sippys? Would that have been fair on Rohit, to be judged for what his father says? Similarly, Rohit blaming Sona and her family for Pari's deeds are uncalled for. Neither Suman, nor Sona encouraged this affair. They are both on dark as are rest of the Sippys. You can justify it whatever way, but what Rohit said to Sona and what Veena did to Pari (instead of confronting her own son) were wrong and uncalled for.

Yes, I agree Sona shouldn't have lied to Rohit about Ajit's blackmailing, but even for that Rohit put her in that position, constantly telling her "my mom is the most imp for me, her happiness matters the most, she's the top most priority, I trust you to protect my mom and this family (his convo with YK/Nishi)". Though I believe even though Rohit said all this, Sona should have still confided in him, but I don't fully blame her for not doing it either.

In anyway, this whole situation could have been handled better if both communicated with each other. As simple as that.

No offense meant!

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You explained each and every character point of view and situation beautifully.I agree with all your points.

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Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Don't really wanna explain much on the latest episodes as I have said enough in the discussion forum. But I think you are really harsh on Sonakshi. Anything she does, you find faults in her, like how she slapped Pari and told her that both her and Rohan are at fault and she can't blame Rohan alone on this affair. Sona was absolutely right in this judgement, only her and Tanya were the sensible one to blame both Rohan and Pari, unlike Veena and Rohit. It seems like you extremely hate or are critical of Sona's character (whatever your reason is idk), but you give benefit of doubt, leeway to other characters, though they are equally at fault as Sona is.

Coming to Rohit, whatever he said, whether its in anger, in impulsiveness, doesn't justify it. Rohit literally questioned that his marriage to Sonakshi was a mistake. That is a huge coming from a husband. Think of it from Sona's POV.... the affair gets revealed, she literally minutes ago finds out about her Sister and BIL's affair and was busy consoling/taking care of Tanya, her SIL, when Veena should have done it (but instead she was out to Rastogis to settle her score with Suman), and she gets to hear all sorts of nonsense hurling from her husband. Why would Rohit even fualt Sona or just her family for the affair. What about his brother? Shouldn't his first approach been to confront his brother? Nope, instead he's busy blaming Sona. Should Sona have done the same? When Naren was spouting all sorts of crap about her character and her profession, should Sona have blamed Rohit for it because he belongs to a Sippy family? Should she have blamed rest of the Sippys? Would that have been fair on Rohit, to be judged for what his father says? Similarly, Rohit blaming Sona and her family for Pari's deeds are uncalled for. Neither Suman, nor Sona encouraged this affair. They are both on dark as are rest of the Sippys. You can justify it whatever way, but what Rohit said to Sona and what Veena did to Pari (instead of confronting her own son) were wrong and uncalled for.

Yes, I agree Sona shouldn't have lied to Rohit about Ajit's blackmailing, but even for that Rohit put her in that position, constantly telling her "my mom is the most imp for me, her happiness matters the most, she's the top most priority, I trust you to protect my mom and this family (his convo with YK/Nishi)". Though I believe even though Rohit said all this, Sona should have still confided in him, but I don't fully blame her for not doing it either.

In anyway, this whole situation could have been handled better if both communicated with each other. As simple as that.

No offense meant!

Hmm u want to keep the other person happy by lying to the teeth ..how many days can u hide truth .truth will be revealed some how then it will hurt more with the extra burden of lies said .. doesn't sona have that much of maturity ..she is not a teenager

For Sona lying her immaturity is the reason and not rohith

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

Hmm u want to keep the other person happy by lying to the teeth ..how many days can u hide truth .truth will be revealed some how then it will hurt more with the extra burden of lies said .. doesn't sona have that much of maturity ..she is not a teenager

For Sona lying her immaturity is the reason and not rohith

Oh ok. Everyone should always speak the truth. Then, what about Rohit lying to Veena for 14 years about Naren's affair and Pooja being his daughter? What about YK-Nishi lying to Pooja about her adoption, then fake mother Rani, and Naren being her father? What about YK-Nishi lying to Veena as well as the rest of Sippys for the past 21 years about the same?

Should people always speak the truth??? If Rohit-YK-Nishi-Naren had told Veena the truth at the right time, all of this shit and nonsense drama wouldn't have been happening right now anyway.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Don't really wanna explain much on the latest episodes as I have said enough in the discussion forum. But I think you are really harsh on Sonakshi. Anything she does, you find faults in her, like how she slapped Pari and told her that both her and Rohan are at fault and she can't blame Rohan alone on this affair. Sona was absolutely right in this judgement, only her and Tanya were the sensible one to blame both Rohan and Pari, unlike Veena and Rohit. It seems like you extremely hate or are critical of Sona's character (whatever your reason is idk), but you give benefit of doubt, leeway to other characters, though they are equally at fault as Sona is.

Coming to Rohit, whatever he said, whether its in anger, in impulsiveness, doesn't justify it. Rohit literally questioned that his marriage to Sonakshi was a mistake. That is a huge coming from a husband. Think of it from Sona's POV.... the affair gets revealed, she literally minutes ago finds out about her Sister and BIL's affair and was busy consoling/taking care of Tanya, her SIL, when Veena should have done it (but instead she was out to Rastogis to settle her score with Suman), and she gets to hear all sorts of nonsense hurling from her husband. Why would Rohit even fualt Sona or just her family for the affair. What about his brother? Shouldn't his first approach been to confront his brother? Nope, instead he's busy blaming Sona. Should Sona have done the same? When Naren was spouting all sorts of crap about her character and her profession, should Sona have blamed Rohit for it because he belongs to a Sippy family? Should she have blamed rest of the Sippys? Would that have been fair on Rohit, to be judged for what his father says? Similarly, Rohit blaming Sona and her family for Pari's deeds are uncalled for. Neither Suman, nor Sona encouraged this affair. They are both on dark as are rest of the Sippys. You can justify it whatever way, but what Rohit said to Sona and what Veena did to Pari (instead of confronting her own son) were wrong and uncalled for.

Yes, I agree Sona shouldn't have lied to Rohit about Ajit's blackmailing, but even for that Rohit put her in that position, constantly telling her "my mom is the most imp for me, her happiness matters the most, she's the top most priority, I trust you to protect my mom and this family (his convo with YK/Nishi)". Though I believe even though Rohit said all this, Sona should have still confided in him, but I don't fully blame her for not doing it either.

In anyway, this whole situation could have been handled better if both communicated with each other. As simple as that.

No offense meant!

Rohith mistake is going to confront pari instead of rohan..that's the grave mistaje he did .he can't question pari without slapping Rohan first

And questioning himself in his decision to marry Sona is not wrong .that's quite a natural reaction ..we do in times of stress and shock .