WHO SAID/DID WHAT ????

Good morning girls !!!!😃

To write or not to write was my dilemma today with all the shor😲 My Goodness, I came home after a heavy 16 hrs and that was a deafening episode, the music and the yelling. Neend bilkul udh gayi, so thought why not? I have an opinion about everything and anything, anyway😃 I certainly don't want to take sides or pass judgements on anyone today, if you can believe it🤔. I will simply write about my take on Rohit, Sona, Veena and Suman.

Rohit : Let us look at the background over the last 2 days with him. Suman comes and crucifies both him and his mom about taking Sona's money😡. He is rubbed very badly by Suman for this. Sona's cockamamie explanation is not very believable, but he agreed to it😳. He tried to make amends with Suman, even without an apology from Suman accusing him of leeching Sona😡. Do I think he has no hard feelings towards Suman? I do. If I put myself in his place and if my MIL barges in on me and accuses me and my family leeching off my husband's money, that is tata-bye bye for me from her😡 This guy is a bigger person here, he called to invite Suman👍🏼. When he uttered rubbish about him being blinded in love and how he was advised by his family not to get into alliance with her, this happens when you are insanely mad😭 You talk nonsense, but also some truths. So, what exactly does this mean? Yes, he had been advised🤢But look at the bright side, he had resisted that advice and made his own decision👏. He supported her through all the nonsense she put him through- the worst is the wedding fiasco, leading Pooji to Rani. THE ABSOLUTE WORST. How many times did we see him take his people to task and told them off. How many times did he make it clear to them that he won't tolerate BS against her? So, what is he now saying? Yes, I was warned, but I didn't heed that advice. Should I have? Even if we or him don't say this out aloud, even for an instant, won't we think along those lines? I certainly can see myself asking that rhetorical question when I am under tremendous duress. But look at his concern for Tanya, apne bhai ko trust karti ho😭❤️? That girl is breaking to pieces in front of him, his mother stormed out of the house, him and his mom were just accused by Suman. All of these don't add up to anything? 😲 The only wrong, I see is him jumping the gun with his judgement about Rohan and blaming Pari only.

Sona : What did I just hear from Sona here ? THAT SHE UNINVITED HER MOM for Tanya's event? What the bloody hell? A sane person would have cleared the MU between Rohit, Suman and "her croreworthy mamma" . She, so far hasn't told Suman about the money, she didn't give Suman a chance to clear it with Rohit or croreworthy mamma. So in effect, they still have bad blood between them. I simply don't like her jaap of " my family " to everybody including Suman and Pari. If Sippys are her family, then what are Suman, Pari and Pulki? 😡She didn't try to calm the situation between Veena and Pari or pull Pari into a room and give her a piece of her mind, instead she gave her gyaan about how " her mamma" is being treated rudely by parayi Pari😡She maarofied a thappad for effect, in front of her mamma and Rohit. To be a loveable bahu, do we have to estrange ourselves from our own families?🤢She never gave Pari a chance to explain herself to her. I am not saying there is much explaining to do, but at least give her a chance to speak. Nahin, she had to prove whose side she is on and that was it😡Switching gears, if I twist myself hard, I can find some justification as to why she is keeping Ajeeth's secret, but doesn't she foresee bigger problems- blackmailing guy has the family secret, Ajeeth's gambling habit etc. Even before she knew about Ajeeth, she had plenty of time between Rohit's surgery and giving away the money to tell Rohit " there is a blackmailer who knows this creepy secret". Yes, he is tired, but isn't this an important matter for him more than his sleep? What would he have done if his patient had a complication? He wouldn't have cared about his sleep, would he? If now, Rohit assumes that Sona told his family's secret to Suman, I can't really fault him, that is logical from his side.

Veena: Totally wrong😡. I am not going to justify her at all. Exception is that she was just accused of fleecing money from her DIL. All the bitter, true, inner feelings simply came pouring out. Like we talked about earlier, Veena is your normal quintessential saas who had hid her saasiness behind class. She never was put in that position so far to bring out her saasiness or rather she could cover it up. She covers up her acts of manipulating her bahu with crores of love, a warm smile and hugs. She had a secure, comfortable life where she could outwardly "flaunt" her " progressive thoughts". It is like all the richer nations calling out countries like ours as perpetrators of global warming🤔

Suman: I didn't like her accusing Veena and Rohit as fleecing money from Sona. Without finding out the truth from Sona, she has no business accusing them, because she is pissed. She hasn't yet apologized for that. I am OK if she just defended her child by saying, yes, my child is as much at fault as yours. She cared two hoots about Pooji who is an ultimate victim in this whole thing by announcing to the world about her being the " xxxxxxx bacchi". I will never forgive her for this😡. Her verbal diarrhea didn't even spare Rohit as a potential philanderer😡 No forgiveness for this as well😡 These are things attacking one's integrity, especially for a guy like Rohit who despises infidelity, I don't know how he can find it in himself to forgive her or forget her words🤢. I wish and hope that Suman goes home and takes a whip to her Pari😡There was simply no excuse to yell whatever she wanted to yell in a party. Could she have waited for people to clear off the invitees citing urgent reasons? Hell Yes😲But she simply wanted that shock effect😡Unacceptable.

The ultimate victims after this whole fiasco are Pooji and Tanya😭, not Sona. What about them? Looking at that Naren guy's face, why do I feel he is likely not going to be the kameena🤔. The actual truth might come out now.

These are my thoughts ! Have a great day 😃

Originally posted by: mili9

Good morning girls !!!!😃

To write or not to write was my dilemma today with all the shor😲 My Goodness, I came home after a heavy 16 hrs and that was a deafening episode, the music and the yelling. Neend bilkul udh gayi, so thought why not? I have an opinion about everything and anything, anyway😃 I certainly don't want to take sides or pass judgements on anyone today, if you can believe it🤔. I will simply write about my take on Rohit, Sona, Veena and Suman.

Rohit : Let us look at the background over the last 2 days with him. Suman comes and crucifies both him and his mom about taking Sona's money😡. He is rubbed very badly by Suman for this. Sona's cockamamie explanation is not very believable, but he agreed to it😳. He tried to make amends with Suman, even without an apology from Suman accusing him of leeching Sona😡. Do I think he has no hard feelings towards Suman? I do. If I put myself in his place and if my MIL barges in on me and accuses me and my family leeching off my husband's money, that is tata-bye bye for me from her😡 This guy is a bigger person here, he called to invite Suman👍🏼. When he uttered rubbish about him being blinded in love and how he was advised by his family not to get into alliance with her, this happens when you are insanely mad😭 You talk nonsense, but also some truths. So, what exactly does this mean? Yes, he had been advised🤢But look at the bright side, he had resisted that advice and made his own decision👏. He supported her through all the nonsense she put him through- the worst is the wedding fiasco, leading Pooji to Rani. THE ABSOLUTE WORST. How many times did we see him take his people to task and told them off. How many times did he make it clear to them that he won't tolerate BS against her? So, what is he now saying? Yes, I was warned, but I didn't heed that advice. Should I have? Even if we or him don't say this out aloud, even for an instant, won't we think along those lines? I certainly can see myself asking that rhetorical question when I am under tremendous duress. But look at his concern for Tanya, apne bhai ko trust karti ho😭❤️? That girl is breaking to pieces in front of him, his mother stormed out of the house, him and his mom were just accused by Suman. All of these don't add up to anything? 😲 The only wrong, I see is him jumping the gun with his judgement about Rohan and blaming Pari only.

Sona : What did I just hear from Sona here ? THAT SHE UNINVITED HER MOM for Tanya's event? What the bloody hell? A sane person would have cleared the MU between Rohit, Suman and "her croreworthy mamma" . She, so far hasn't told Suman about the money, she didn't give Suman a chance to clear it with Rohit or croreworthy mamma. So in effect, they still have bad blood between them. I simply don't like her jaap of " my family " to everybody including Suman and Pari. If Sippys are her family, then what are Suman, Pari and Pulki? 😡She didn't try to calm the situation between Veena and Pari or pull Pari into a room and give her a piece of her mind, instead she gave her gyaan about how " her mamma" is being treated rudely by parayi Pari😡She maarofied a thappad for effect, in front of her mamma and Rohit. To be a loveable bahu, do we have to estrange ourselves from our own families?🤢She never gave Pari a chance to explain herself to her. I am not saying there is much explaining to do, but at least give her a chance to speak. Nahin, she had to prove whose side she is on and that was it😡Switching gears, if I twist myself hard, I can find some justification as to why she is keeping Ajeeth's secret, but doesn't she foresee bigger problems- blackmailing guy has the family secret, Ajeeth's gambling habit etc. Even before she knew about Ajeeth, she had plenty of time between Rohit's surgery and giving away the money to tell Rohit " there is a blackmailer who knows this creepy secret". Yes, he is tired, but isn't this an important matter for him more than his sleep? What would he have done if his patient had a complication? He wouldn't have cared about his sleep, would he? If now, Rohit assumes that Sona told his family's secret to Suman, I can't really fault him, that is logical from his side.

Veena: Totally wrong😡. I am not going to justify her at all. Exception is that she was just accused of fleecing money from her DIL. All the bitter, true, inner feelings simply came pouring out. Like we talked about earlier, Veena is your normal quintessential saas who had hid her saasiness behind class. She never was put in that position so far to bring out her saasiness or rather she could cover it up. She covers up her acts of manipulating her bahu with crores of love, a warm smile and hugs. She had a secure, comfortable life where she could outwardly "flaunt" her " progressive thoughts". It is like all the richer nations calling out countries like ours as perpetrators of global warming🤔

Suman: I didn't like her accusing Veena and Rohit as fleecing money from Sona. Without finding out the truth from Sona, she has no business accusing them, because she is pissed. She hasn't yet apologized for that. I am OK if she just defended her child by saying, yes, my child is as much at fault as yours. She cared two hoots about Pooji who is an ultimate victim in this whole thing by announcing to the world about her being the " xxxxxxx bacchi". I will never forgive her for this😡. Her verbal diarrhea didn't even spare Rohit as a potential philanderer😡 No forgiveness for this as well😡 These are things attacking one's integrity, especially for a guy like Rohit who despises infidelity, I don't know how he can find it in himself to forgive her or forget her words🤢. I wish and hope that Suman goes home and takes a whip to her Pari😡There was simply no excuse to yell whatever she wanted to yell in a party. Could she have waited for people to clear off the invitees citing urgent reasons? Hell Yes😲But she simply wanted that shock effect😡Unacceptable.

The ultimate victims after this whole fiasco are Pooji and Tanya😭, not Sona. What about them? Looking at that Naren guy's face, why do I feel he is likely not going to be the kameena🤔. The actual truth might come out now.

These are my thoughts ! Have a great day 😃

I think you hate Sona as a character very much that you are saying she is wrong in every action of her from every episode.I am reading all your analysis from recent episodes. According to my opinion, today Sona is the only character behaved sensibly and told that both Rohan and Pari are fault. In today episode ,Rohit dialogues to Sona are not acceptable at all. Whatever how much in anger a person is, but telling those hurtful words to Sona about their marriage is not acceptable at all.

Enjoyed reading your analysis. You are right. No blame game needed here. I feel the makers are clever(or stupid) in one aspect that making a situation where two families offsprings are involved in an absolute wrong doing. EMA.. They put us the audience against each other to choose sides. But in this situation the only victim is TANYA who was betrayed in the truest sense. Everyone else just lost their face (Ego)

I did not find Rohit at fault at all for yelling at his wife for a devastating situation at home which involved her sister Pari again. Also what Suman accused his mother of dowry..

If a husband can back you up and praise you in front of a family he is great but if he vented his anger with you the same way then he doesn't deserve you?? So I don't think ruined Rohit character yet and I am low-key still hoping they won't...

Today except the part where she supported Veena I liked Sona. She supported Rohit even after his anger and am so glad she went with him to her home knowing his angry nature. There I felt she protected both her birth family and Rohit. Nice to see a Sona who went into crisis management mode..

One decent thing that the makers maintained is how Rohit did not utter one word to Pari though he was angry at her..I think he respected his wife enough to not accuse or yell at pari.

Venna was wrong to go and punish/accuse pari . She should have questioned her son. No excuse there. But did she blame Sona for this?

Suman was one more character given a positivity shade by makers because she was nice to Sona for a while. She cares more about money, power and control.

What she did at the Sippy's can not be justified. She hurt Pooja without single thought for what she went through because of Pari... She tried to commit sucide. Is some unfairly accusing your daughter is such a crime that warrants this humiliation to a family that your daughter just got married into?? She had no concern for Sona.

Also did she once appologized to Tanya for her daughter's action?? nooo only needs to show humiliation to family and say the sippy men are not satisfied with their wives including her daughter's husband..ok I can go on and on but I will stop.

Anyways it will be Interesting to see Rohits future relation with Suman and Pari. For that matter with Rohan and Ajit..

Rohan and Pari both behaved so remorselessly that cancels them as human beings..

Abey iski har post sona se start hoti hai and ussi pe khatam , behan jante h ki u hate sona but daily wohi bakwaas and ignoring others fault,what a biased person 😂 she can literally write thesis on sona and why she is the worst person on planet Earth 😂

Hii Mili... 🤗❤️

This is Alisha..

I have been reading your posts for quite some time now... And I really appreciate the way you write.. Yes most of the times my opinions and yours don't match.. So I didn't comment...

With this post of yours.. As much as I agreed to your opinion of Rohit, veena and suman... I disagreed with your opinion about Sona.. I am not going to talk of what she did previously coz that's a whole lot a thing.. But in yesterday's episode she was the most sensible one to question both rohan and pari when either of the families were choosing sides.. She was the one who pointed about the affair being both ways.. She didn't give a chance to pari to explain coz what pari did doesn't deserve an explanation for that.. She was right on calling out to pari that if she (pari) was being asked out by Rohan.. She could have clearly refused or shared it with sonakshi... But she went on with the flow knowing very well that Rohan is married.. Like Sona I agree cent per cent that extra maritalaffair is from both ways... Sona slapped pari coz she was literally trying to shove it off on Rohan.. When even she was at fault...

Cmg to Sona denying her mom's coming.. That was because if the way she spoke and it was really rude and disgraceful.. She just wanted both the parties( inlaws and maayka to be in peace..) She didn't want ki again suman faces some earful from veena and veena also hears a earful from her... She just wanted to avoid the situation... And she can only ask suman to not come coz she is her mother and that gives her the full right to be open with her...

Sona is not at fault in hiding ajit's deal coz even Rohit didn't Sona about pari when the tapasya incident took place... Both of them hid the matter about each other's siblings coz they didn't want to see each other hurt coz of their own siblings... Sona not telling about Ajit is equal to Rohit not telling her about pari... It was pari who came and told it to Sona that she leaked the news otherwise Rohit was not going to utter out even pari's name to Sona...

Rohit will not be wrong in judging that Sona revealed it to her mom.. I agree on that.. And I won't be blaming him..

This is just my opinion... I just felt you are being a little too critical about sonakshi as a character.. I know it's fiction and you don't have any specific grudge.. But it's little too critical on your part to question everything which sonakshi does... I maybe wrong.. And I am soory if I hurt you.. It's just that not everytime Sonakshi is wrong and Not everytime Rohit is right.. Both of them are two flawed individuals trying to balance it... For me it's more about Ronakshi than Rohit and sonakshi separately... If Rohit is wrong then so is sona.. Both of them, in order to not hurt each other about their respective families they tend to protect it.. And end up getting hurt..

As I said.. This is just my opinion and I don't mean to offend or hurt you...

Peace and love...❤✌

Originally posted by: Sree_mk

I think you hate Sona as a character very much that you are saying she is wrong in every action of her from every episode.I am reading all your analysis from recent episodes. According to my opinion, today Sona is the only character behaved sensibly and told that both Rohan and Pari are fault. In today episode ,Rohit dialogues to Sona are not acceptable at all. Whatever how much in anger a person is, but telling those hurtful words to Sona about their marriage is not acceptable at all.

Sona is responsible for Rohit suspecting Sona leaking truth ..now Sona has to prove herself by asking ajith to reveal truth ..don't know if scum ajith does it or chickens out by being selfish

Yes when u r insane u question about u r decisions .that's not wrong .it's so natural

.that's what he meant by he did not heed advice in marrying Sona.

Rohit only mistake is barging to.pari house instead of barging to.rohan ..first u need to question u r laadla rather than barging to.other woman ..if not pari Rohan will have some other woman ..

Sona holier than thou mahaan acts will bring her downfall

Veena is worst

I agree with suman public shaming naren sippy ..for once his snobbishness will.disappear from his life.and he will start living in reality .

.let the secrets come out in.public and pooji.she needs to know truth .

Truth will pain u only once ..for public it's a matter of two.weeks .they will trend to.diff topic after this topic gets bored

And pooji.marriage ..yes the man who accepts for herself will.marry her ..that's much better rather than hiding and worrying life long if the truth would leak one day to her hubby

Originally posted by: sohit-mishbir

Hii Mili... 🤗❤️

This is Alisha..

I have been reading your posts for quite some time now... And I really appreciate the way you write.. Yes most of the times my opinions and yours don't match.. So I didn't comment...

With this post of yours.. As much as I agreed to your opinion of Rohit, veena and suman... I disagreed with your opinion about Sona.. I am not going to talk of what she did previously coz that's a whole lot a thing.. But in yesterday's episode she was the most sensible one to question both rohan and pari when either of the families were choosing sides.. She was the one who pointed about the affair being both ways.. She didn't give a chance to pari to explain coz what pari did doesn't deserve an explanation for that.. She was right on calling out to pari that if she (pari) was being asked out by Rohan.. She could have clearly refused or shared it with sonakshi... But she went on with the flow knowing very well that Rohan is married.. Like Sona I agree cent per cent that extra maritalaffair is from both ways... Sona slapped pari coz she was literally trying to shove it off on Rohan.. When even she was at fault...

Cmg to Sona denying her mom's coming.. That was because if the way she spoke and it was really rude and disgraceful.. She just wanted both the parties( inlaws and maayka to be in peace..) She didn't want ki again suman faces some earful from veena and veena also hears a earful from her... She just wanted to avoid the situation... And she can only ask suman to not come coz she is her mother and that gives her the full right to be open with her...

Sona is not at fault in hiding ajit's deal coz even Rohit didn't Sona about pari when the tapasya incident took place... Both of them hid the matter about each other's siblings coz they didn't want to see each other hurt coz of their own siblings... Sona not telling about Ajit is equal to Rohit not telling her about pari... It was pari who came and told it to Sona that she leaked the news otherwise Rohit was not going to utter out even pari's name to Sona...

Rohit will not be wrong in judging that Sona revealed it to her mom.. I agree on that.. And I won't be blaming him..

This is just my opinion... I just felt you are being a little too critical about sonakshi as a character.. I know it's fiction and you don't have any specific grudge.. But it's little too critical on your part to question everything which sonakshi does... I maybe wrong.. And I am soory if I hurt you.. It's just that not everytime Sonakshi is wrong and Not everytime Rohit is right.. Both of them are two flawed individuals trying to balance it... For me it's more about Ronakshi than Rohit and sonakshi separately... If Rohit is wrong then so is sona.. Both of them, in order to not hurt each other about their respective families they tend to protect it.. And end up getting hurt..

As I said.. This is just my opinion and I don't mean to offend or hurt you...

Peace and love...❤✌

Both r diff issues. In pari case it was a childish act ..petty revenge and leaking ..a warning to pari by suman and Rohit ..would make the job done ..even in this case suman knows the truth ..it's not like Rohit kept it all to himself.

But here ajit has a gambling prob .it needs to be known in family and the most treasured secret is in hands of a scum gambling operations guy ..who could blackmail for 10 crs tomorrow ..

Ajit issue is much much bigger serious issue and needs to be known asap to Rohit

Ajit and pari issue r completely different .no comparison

As usual holier than thou Sona did not use her brain and tomorrow if she gets ousted by Rohit ..then she will turn towards camera and play sympathy card

Originally posted by: mthiru

Enjoyed reading your analysis. You are right. No blame game needed here. I feel the makers are clever(or stupid) in one aspect that making a situation where two families offsprings are involved in an absolute wrong doing. EMA.. They put us the audience against each other to choose sides. But in this situation the only victim is TANYA who was betrayed in the truest sense. Everyone else just lost their face (Ego)

I did not find Rohit at fault at all for yelling at his wife for a devastating situation at home which involved her sister Pari again. Also what Suman accused his mother of dowry..

If a husband can back you up and praise you in front of a family he is great but if he vented his anger with you the same way then he doesn't deserve you?? So I don't think ruined Rohit character yet and I am low-key still hoping they won't...

Today except the part where she supported Veena I liked Sona. She supported Rohit even after his anger and am so glad she went with him to her home knowing his angry nature. There I felt she protected both her birth family and Rohit. Nice to see a Sona who went into crisis management mode..

One decent thing that the makers maintained is how Rohit did not utter one word to Pari though he was angry at her..I think he respected his wife enough to not accuse or yell at pari.

Venna was wrong to go and punish/accuse pari . She should have questioned her son. No excuse there. But did she blame Sona for this?

Suman was one more character given a positivity shade by makers because she was nice to Sona for a while. She cares more about money, power and control.

What she did at the Sippy's can not be justified. She hurt Pooja without single thought for what she went through because of Pari... She tried to commit sucide. Is some unfairly accusing your daughter is such a crime that warrants this humiliation to a family that your daughter just got married into?? She had no concern for Sona.

Also did she once appologized to Tanya for her daughter's action?? nooo only needs to show humiliation to family and say the sippy men are not satisfied with their wives including her daughter's husband..ok I can go on and on but I will stop.

Anyways it will be Interesting to see Rohits future relation with Suman and Pari. For that matter with Rohan and Ajit..

Rohan and Pari both behaved so remorselessly that cancels them as human beings..

Let Pooja know the truth once for all and let public know about it..rather than this lies and deceit

Pooja should be strong and deal with it .she needs psychiatrist asap ..not revealing truth in public is not a solution ..tomorrow some how if the truth gets to public ..do there's always that risk

Let it be done now .

Suman mistake is not slapping Rohan in public and not making pari apologise to Tanya publicly and not telling pari to get out of house

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

Both r diff issues. In pari case it was a childish act ..petty revenge and leaking ..a warning to pari by suman and Rohit ..would make the job done ..even in this case suman knows the truth ..it's not like Rohit kept it all to himself.

But here ajit has a gambling prob .it needs to be known in family and the most treasured secret is in hands of a scum gambling operations guy ..who could blackmail for 10 crs tomorrow ..

Ajit issue is much much bigger serious issue and needs to be known asap to Rohit

Ajit and pari issue r completely different .no comparison

As usual holier than thou Sona did not use her brain and tomorrow if she gets ousted by Rohit ..then she will turn towards camera and play sympathy card

Ajit and pari issues are different.. But Rohit and sonakshi's intentions are not!!

She trusts as much as she would trust pulkit.. And when ajit promised her that he would not involve in gambling then she trusted him... You can't be riding over someone who trusts...

I agree sona needs to tell it... But in pari's case too Rohit didn't want to reveal it nor did suman..

Ajit will himself reveal it Rohit.. but he will take time..

Sona is not wrong in trusting Ajit...

It's not always about justifying one character over other... It's about them together.. Rohit and sonakshi are one.. And I vote for Ronakshi, not Rohit and Sona individually... You question one the other gets automatically questioned coz both of them love each other...

I won't be quoting you any further in this

Originally posted by: sohit-mishbir

Ajit and pari issues are different.. But Rohit and sonakshi's intentions are not!!

She trusts as much as she would trust pulkit.. And when ajit promised her that he would not involve in gambling then she trusted him... You can't be riding over someone who trusts...

I agree sona needs to tell it... But in pari's case too Rohit didn't want to reveal it nor did suman..

Ajit will himself reveal it Rohit.. but he will take time..

Sona is not wrong in trusting Ajit...

It's not always about justifying one character over other... It's about them together.. Rohit and sonakshi are one.. And I vote for Ronakshi, not Rohit and Sona individually... You question one the other gets automatically questioned coz both of them love each other...

I won't be quoting you any further in this

How can u trust a gambling addicted guy and take the risk of getting blamed u r self in future..that's a mahaan act ..that's not normal act .

Rohit act was not mahaan act .he let suman know it and back then all sippys were blaming Sona. Bcos they did not know pari did it .they were not blaming rohith

Here every one will.blame sona if ajith truth not revealed

Hell of a difference .no comparison at all