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Posted: 5 years ago

Chandu, thank you for thissmiley31. You never fail to amaze me, you know that. You don't know how many cups I had since this AM, we had to finalize some logistics for the next academic year. Phew!!!

Yes, it seems like a hurricane has just passed throughsmiley4 here.


Originally posted by: mili9

Good afternoon girls😃 !!!! Thanks for all opinions👍🏼

My, it looks like there was a raging fire storm here😲 I saw

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this briefly this AM, but had much, much bigger fish to fry🤔. So here I am, now. Generally, I don't like to get into the back and forth. I am somebody who believes in perceptions are perceptions and are largely shaped by our experiences and circumstances. So, I am not going to go into nitpicking every comment here.

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But, there are these few things I wanted to tackle as most of you seemed irritated by my following comments.

1. About why I have an axe to grind about UNINVITING Suman. Here is an analogy. I would be horribly offended, if my chair told me, you are too much of an opinionated nut and therefore can create trouble, so can you please not come🤢 for a meeting? There is nothing that is untrue in her request, but I would still feel humiliated. Suman is not somebody who takes these things kindly, she will assume that Sona's hand was twisted by Sippys in uninviting her. She will take it personally even with a mere perception that she is being belittled. Even if it is your own daughter or your parent, tells you " don't come, you might create trouble" will that go well with anybody? It certainly won't with me🤢As it stands, Suman still thinks Sippys are fleecing and Veena Sippy is irate because of that accusation. Now, uninviting Suman is adding rocket fuel to fire😲

2. The most unfortunate event is Sona lacking the foresight that the secret had gotten out. Like I said, it gives us warm fuzzies that she had trusted and forgiven Ajeeth🤔Bahut khoob. But, this gambling put him in a position where he didn't care to sell an explosive family secret to a 3rd party and didn't think twice to put Sona in a dangerous situation with Kohl dude. He then went on to drink, blabber, almost would have been a road kill and then went on to blabber to Suman. So, as we can see there were wide reaching repercussions. Unfortunately, trusting somebody for willing himself out of an addiction won't cut it😒. OK, I can twist myself to admit, Sona is not a trained professional to know that addictions can't be willed or trusted away🤓. But what about the kohl dude? Even if everything else is peaceful, what stops the kohl dude from blackmailing again? My peeve is in the fact that Rohit was sleeping in her lap, this was when she didn't know about Ajeeth's involvement. Was his sleep important than letting him know about that this nefarious guy is in on the secret that can threaten everything? Or YK and Nishi if Rohit is unavailable? If you ask me what could they have done, I don't know the answer to it, but it would have been not solely on her.

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3. Slapping Pari without letting her have an audience: this is very close to my heart. I am somebody who believes in giving everybody at least one chance to tell their story before they get crucified. There is always a second side to the story. Let me give an analogy to explain this better. In a week, there is at least once or twice, my support staff or my student will come and tell me " so and so in that room is very rude". If I go in as a raging bull, ready to pick a fight for insulting my student, I have lost the battle before it ever started. I can say with conviction that 90 % of the time, by the time I enter that room they are embarrassed and incredibly apologetic for their outburst. There is another back-story there, their pet is getting euthanized, they were in a MVA coming in or they have just signed off their parent to hospice😒, heartbreaking story which we would never have known if we never gave them the space. 10 % are simply unreasonable, boors😳 whom we can't please anyway. What I am saying is every saint has a past and every sinner has a future.

Here toh, we know Pari is a insensitive, selfish, mean girl who cares nothing about people around her. She can also get aggressive if she is pushed into a corner. Heck, we have seen how ballistic she had become with the dreaded Suman. With all the nonsense Veena spoke about hormones and all, I don't expect her to be respectful or cordial with Veena. It doesn't matter whether you are an older woman or not, if Veena can't maintain her decorum ( I cringe even to remember things she said to Pari ) then she can't expect any semblance of respect from Pari. Sona, on the other hand didn't know ( I don't remember if she walked in after this verbal diarrhea ), and expecting Pari to be respectful is not appropriate. That slap was totally uncalled for. She could have pulled Pari to a room, at least given Pari an audience, to keep that door open for a conversation with Pari. Now, Sona slammed that door shut on Pari's face to ever open for a conversation, she is pushed to a corner by her too. She is going to be a maniac which is what we are seeing🤢. What do we know what she told Suman? For crying out loud, Pari is Sona's sister. Doesn't she want to assess how this all came about and make amends/corrective action rather than jumping the gun? Doesn't she want to provide reassurance to her sister that she will listen with an open mind whatever her story is? Doesn't Sona factor in as Pari's support system?

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4. People, generally nothing can offend me😃. Let me see if I can slide this in as gently as possible 😃I feel like I have seen everything, well almost everything ( I know I shouldn't challenge my fate😲 ). My opinions are mine alone shaped by my experiences and circumstances. You may tell me that you don't agree to my opinion. I don't expect everybody to agree to my opinion and I actually welcome that and ready to hear out other perspectives too. That is what makes every conversation/interaction richer. But please watch out against labeling - "you are biased", " you are harsh", " you are a basher", these are not acceptable💔. When some of you can have an opinion about a real person ( me, if you can believe I am real flesh and blood 😃), as a harsh, overly critical/bashing, biased person and are vocal about it, why can't I have an opinion about a fictional character Sona? Not that this changes anything from my end😃, I will still be the same.

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People, I am not some character stamping authority. Why should anybody care about what I think and my gibberish?😔I am a n equivalent of one, please ignore if you don't like what I write, block my name off or shake your head and say " Mili is a nut and here she goes again", I won't take it personally.😃


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Who knows, aisa kuch ho jaayein ki I start loving Sona and completely disconnect with Dr. Sippy. Till then, let us have the freedom to formulate our opinions, give each other space to express them😃


Wat 😲 😆I Really Wish Cvs Work out Like That Sona ko SONA banade 😛Sippy ko Bhuljaye 😉😳


Have a great day !!! I am entering into a busy week, not sure when I will be able to watch Monday's and comment. I think more loudness to come😳

Have A Great Day Dear🤗😳❤️

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

Sorry to bring regional divide ..south is much much better ..in case of women rather than north we have much more freedom in and after marriage compare to average north .here parents advise not to marry northie guys since it's hard to accept the culture of northy MIL and north boys ..

i dont say people who blast on women in rape case exist but it's minority here .i stay in Hyderabad and my native place is a rural place

Even though a rural place i can assert u it's better than delhi in terms of mindset reg women ..i.e it's not a typical rural place shown in movies .

this i agree to some extent! Not tgat ppl r bad over here or have low mindset but its just that north india has a little more complicated mindset as compared to south india!
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

I understand what u say .i dont have Netflix account .chappak movie i will watch .unfortunately some people mindset has yet to change .yes women r enemies of women ..

I heard version of another acid attack women ..in South warangal our own state area .that guy was after her saying all nonsense i love u and the gal rejected him she is a eng college bright student

He just poured acid on her .in society there was severe backlash against them and then govt encountered them in 2 days just like priyanka reddy alias disha case


But even when over whelming jantha are supporting her ..it seems in govt hospital which she was getting treatment some two guys were saying to her on face bcos of her those kids died so there's always a minority scums even here in South .

But difference is overwhelming majority is there just bcos of public pressure govt encountered them .just like in priyanka case

U should have watched videos in priyanka reddy murderrape .when those monsters were being taken to court in govt vehicles ..people in thousands went running in back of vehicles chanting we will kill them ..govt has to bring 6 vehickes so that public won't know in which vehicle they r such is public outburst


Initially they were I police station before going to court .thousands stormed the police station .govt afraid they will break the doors of police station and so they locked the police station from outside and bought extra police force

Bcos of this outrage govt encountered them the rapists

i have seen all that! And hyderabad is 1000 times better when it comes to providing justice!! Its not the same in delhi! U remember the nirbhaya case? 8 yrs and still justice not given!! The protests that took place for that case still remains amongst the largest ones but still justice not served and the worst part is that the main culprit is roaming freely!
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: mili9

Good afternoon girls😃 !!!! Thanks for all opinions👍🏼

My, it looks like there was a raging fire storm here😲 I saw this briefly this AM, but had much, much bigger fish to fry🤔. So here I am, now. Generally, I don't like to get into the back and forth. I am somebody who believes in perceptions are perceptions and are largely shaped by our experiences and circumstances. So, I am not going to go into nitpicking every comment here.

But, there are these few things I wanted to tackle as most of you seemed irritated by my following comments.

1. About why I have an axe to grind about UNINVITING Suman. Here is an analogy. I would be horribly offended, if my chair told me, you are too much of an opinionated nut and therefore can create trouble, so can you please not come🤢 for a meeting? There is nothing that is untrue in her request, but I would still feel humiliated. Suman is not somebody who takes these things kindly, she will assume that Sona's hand was twisted by Sippys in uninviting her. She will take it personally even with a mere perception that she is being belittled. Even if it is your own daughter or your parent, tells you " don't come, you might create trouble" will that go well with anybody? It certainly won't with me🤢As it stands, Suman still thinks Sippys are fleecing and Veena Sippy is irate because of that accusation. Now, uninviting Suman is adding rocket fuel to fire😲

2. The most unfortunate event is Sona lacking the foresight that the secret had gotten out. Like I said, it gives us warm fuzzies that she had trusted and forgiven Ajeeth🤔Bahut khoob. But, this gambling put him in a position where he didn't care to sell an explosive family secret to a 3rd party and didn't think twice to put Sona in a dangerous situation with Kohl dude. He then went on to drink, blabber, almost would have been a road kill and then went on to blabber to Suman. So, as we can see there were wide reaching repercussions. Unfortunately, trusting somebody for willing himself out of an addiction won't cut it😒. OK, I can twist myself to admit, Sona is not a trained professional to know that addictions can't be willed or trusted away🤓. But what about the kohl dude? Even if everything else is peaceful, what stops the kohl dude from blackmailing again? My peeve is in the fact that Rohit was sleeping in her lap, this was when she didn't know about Ajeeth's involvement. Was his sleep important than letting him know about that this nefarious guy is in on the secret that can threaten everything? Or YK and Nishi if Rohit is unavailable? If you ask me what could they have done, I don't know the answer to it, but it would have been not solely on her.

3. Slapping Pari without letting her have an audience: this is very close to my heart. I am somebody who believes in giving everybody at least one chance to tell their story before they get crucified. There is always a second side to the story. Let me give an analogy to explain this better. In a week, there is at least once or twice, my support staff or my student will come and tell me " so and so in that room is very rude". If I go in as a raging bull, ready to pick a fight for insulting my student, I have lost the battle before it ever started. I can say with conviction that 90 % of the time, by the time I enter that room they are embarrassed and incredibly apologetic for their outburst. There is another back-story there, their pet is getting euthanized, they were in a MVA coming in or they have just signed off their parent to hospice😒, heartbreaking story which we would never have known if we never gave them the space. 10 % are simply unreasonable, boors😳 whom we can't please anyway. What I am saying is every saint has a past and every sinner has a future.

Here toh, we know Pari is a insensitive, selfish, mean girl who cares nothing about people around her. She can also get aggressive if she is pushed into a corner. Heck, we have seen how ballistic she had become with the dreaded Suman. With all the nonsense Veena spoke about hormones and all, I don't expect her to be respectful or cordial with Veena. It doesn't matter whether you are an older woman or not, if Veena can't maintain her decorum ( I cringe even to remember things she said to Pari ) then she can't expect any semblance of respect from Pari. Sona, on the other hand didn't know ( I don't remember if she walked in after this verbal diarrhea ), and expecting Pari to be respectful is not appropriate. That slap was totally uncalled for. She could have pulled Pari to a room, at least given Pari an audience, to keep that door open for a conversation with Pari. Now, Sona slammed that door shut on Pari's face to ever open for a conversation, she is pushed to a corner by her too. She is going to be a maniac which is what we are seeing🤢. What do we know what she told Suman? For crying out loud, Pari is Sona's sister. Doesn't she want to assess how this all came about and make amends/corrective action rather than jumping the gun? Doesn't she want to provide reassurance to her sister that she will listen with an open mind whatever her story is? Doesn't Sona factor in as Pari's support system?

4. People, generally nothing can offend me😃. Let me see if I can slide this in as gently as possible 😃I feel like I have seen everything, well almost everything ( I know I shouldn't challenge my fate😲 ). My opinions are mine alone shaped by my experiences and circumstances. You may tell me that you don't agree to my opinion. I don't expect everybody to agree to my opinion and I actually welcome that and ready to hear out other perspectives too. That is what makes every conversation/interaction richer. But please watch out against labeling - "you are biased", " you are harsh", " you are a basher", these are not acceptable💔. When some of you can have an opinion about a real person ( me, if you can believe I am real flesh and blood 😃), as a harsh, overly critical/bashing, biased person and are vocal about it, why can't I have an opinion about a fictional character Sona? Not that this changes anything from my end😃, I will still be the same.

People, I am not some character stamping authority. Why should anybody care about what I think and my gibberish?😔I am a n equivalent of one, please ignore if you don't like what I write, block my name off or shake your head and say " Mili is a nut and here she goes again", I won't take it personally.😃

Who knows, aisa kuch ho jaayein ki I start loving Sona and completely disconnect with Dr. Sippy. Till then, let us have the freedom to formulate our opinions, give each other space to express them😃

Have a great day !!! I am entering into a busy week, not sure when I will be able to watch Monday's and comment. I think more loudness to come😳

U reminded me of Jack Nicholson in Few Good Men "You want the truth...you can't handle the truth..." 😎


@bold 👍🏼...Live & Let Live, its a free world (forum), there is room for all


Have a chilled weekend and all the best for your busy week ahead

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Shanayass

i have seen all that! And hyderabad is 1000 times better when it comes to providing justice!! Its not the same in delhi! U remember the nirbhaya case? 8 yrs and still justice not given!! The protests that took place for that case still remains amongst the largest ones but still justice not served and the worst part is that the main culprit is roaming freely!

Yes they should have encountered them once established it's them .

It's so easy take them in vehicle to court ..or to establish evidences ..they tried to escape ..shoot them .

See how they r using loop holes in system main thing women mindset should change

In priyanka murder rape ..that guy wife was shame lessly supporting her husband after encounter saying many r raping why punishment to my hubby ..still after rape if he escapes she is ready to share life with him ..she saying bcos of that bitch my hubby died ..but they r lowest income strata of society ..

Overwhelming majority of villagers to which the guy belongs supported encounter.thry were.happy

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Edited by VARUNI2014 - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: mili9

Chandu, thank you for this🤗. You never fail to amaze me, you know that. You don't know how many cups I had since this AM, we had to finalize some logistics for the next academic year. Phew!!!

Yes, it seems like a hurricane has just passed through😃 here.

Are u in academics .can i know u r profession .u are so articulate .so ..if u don't have prob just post hereb

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Shanayass

this i agree to some extent! Not tgat ppl r bad over here or have low mindset but its just that north india has a little more complicated mindset as compared to south india!

Way of thinking in north is different .that has reason .u know moghuls rule impacted north culture for thousand years where as in South it was for a very less period

So north fell behind south in gal education and gal freedom as we all know the Ill effects of moghul rule regarding gal.freedom

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