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Posted: 6 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: binduprasad41


Coming from someone who has great experience in this...great to know! 👏

Ofcourse little bit of compromise, adjustment and understanding!😳

Nothing much to add on this...

It's really great to know...both lashy di and Lavanya di views... like my two big sister's!
One has pure arrange marriage and other one has pure and totally opposite... love marriage...that too saying literally after spending blissfull of 20 years of marriage!

Gosh...what a platform is this...where we can read real life of experience and teaches us lot !
Love or arrange...we have to work on it ! 👍🏼
Thank You both of you ! 🤗


Bindu dear I pray that you get someone who is caring and loves you to the moon!!

Agree with you, Lavanya and Lashy that relationship is work in progress, we have to work at it every day. My hubby and I are totally opposite in nature, likes/dislikes, choices, subjects on history/political, food...it has been a great learning experience for me since I got married, it has been 26 years and don't take anything for granted!! We don't agree on lot of things, we argue, discuss but at the I end of the day the relationship becomes stronger, we become stronger mentally.

Not a bit, but a lot of compromise, understanding and adjustment required. Arranged marriages are bit more tougher, I think!
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Posted: 6 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: Testmytest


Bindu dear I pray that you get someone who is caring and loves you to the moon!!

Agree with you, Lavanya and Lashy that relationship is work in progress, we have to work at it every day. My hubby and I are totally opposite in nature, likes/dislikes, choices, subjects on history/political, food...it has been a great learning experience for me since I got married, it has been 26 years and don't take anything for granted!! We don't agree on lot of things, we argue, discuss but at the I end of the day the relationship becomes stronger, we become stronger mentally.

Not a bit, but a lot of compromise, understanding and adjustment required. Arranged marriages are bit more tougher, I think!


And there you go, Bindup... from someone even more experienced than us! 😉
Then again, there's nothing wrong in letting oneself get lost in a bit of romance...
much like how men use sports, TV, friends, hobbies etc to de-stress & get away from reality for a while... I think girls have stories and imagination to get away from reality for a while (Of course, we do love our friends/hobby times 😉etc too)

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Posted: 6 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: lashy

Hey Rekha... how's your FIL doing? How's everyone at home? 🤗


He is stable now Lashy, but his brain activity has been reduced, right side paralyzed, unconscious since 10 days, breathing with help of oxygen mask 😔

This is not a pleasure trip obviously, mixed feelings...not sure how this going to turn out, it's my MIL's decision at the end of the day, she says she can't see him suffer like this and I agree, it is painful to watch him with all the tubes on him, my memory of him total opposite of what I see now.

It's ok, we all are prepared for the worst.

I want to thank all my Dearies here at HBAS for best wishes, means a lot 🤗
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Testmytest


He is stable now Lashy, but his brain activity has been reduced, right side paralyzed, unconscious since 10 days, breathing with help of oxygen mask 😔

This is not a pleasure trip obviously, mixed feelings...not sure how this going to turn out, it's my MIL's decision at the end of the day, she says she can't see him suffer like this and I agree, it is painful to watch him with all the tubes on him, my memory of him total opposite of what I see now.

It's ok, we all are prepared for the worst.

I want to thank all my Dearies here at HBAS for best wishes, means a lot 🤗


This is what it is about, isn't it? 😔
I hope you find peace in whatever decision you all make... and whatever God above has destined ...
At the end of the day, you have good friends and family and you're together during these tough times... that's what matters

We're here da... for you
🤗
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Posted: 6 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: binduprasad41

Omg...awesome starting!
Thank you thank you sweetie...🤗

Beautiful and simple concept ...most important things is everything happens in My lashy di place...beautiful London!😳

Ufff☺️
6.2 handsome Mr midnight blue met divine and pretty girl!

😉 Haan ji

Both helped each other without even asking...both saved each other in their own way .

You always notice the smallest things, don't you?👏

Aww so much of curiosity to know each other!
Both are figuring out each other...scrutinising very closely!

😉 yes ... aakhir hoga naa... curiosity!
Aww Miss pretty noticed his hidden taveez too .😆
And he notice her partial blindness or...🤔

Yes yes they did!

So basically divine girl is going through lot ...it's been only 6 month she lost her only family and best friend...her di...look like both were pretty closed to each other...

Yes... 😭

like a any typical Indian girl she said yes to marriage and met Mr Raichand...

Kyaa karein?

Everything is going perfect but still there is something was missing in all this...she was surrounded by many but she still missing her di ...😭

Undoubtedly!😭

But irony is that when Mr midnight blue is around her...she forget everything but only curiosity to know him more is there!

Yesss

I love the way both reading and observing each other little little movements too...and both are behaving unlike their true nature!

Again Bindup's trademark review line here!
Let's see what this small meeting store for both ...😳

👍🏼

Beautiful first part...few lines are so different yet beautiful I wanna read again and again !
Love it ! ❤️
Sach mein?

Waiting eagerly for next part ...

Thank You lashy di for beautiful surprise ! 🤗

Special thank you to Lavanya di too ! 🤗

🤗 Love you too sweetie!

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Haikus.

She's yet to be named
He's yet to be named so far
First meet on platform.😉

Why we get the feel
That we've seen them already
Is it obsession?

Partial sight she has
He's six feet two, wears taveez
We knew them before?😕

What makes the diff'rence
This one is in black and white
That was in colours..😃

Can we guess their names?
She is Champa or Jodh Bai
He may be Jalal..😛

KK.


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Posted: 6 years ago
#87

Originally posted by: karkuzhali






Haikus.

She's yet to be named
He's yet to be named so far
First meet on platform.😉

Why we get the feel
That we've seen them already
Is it obsession?

Partial sight she has
He's six feet two, wears taveez
We knew them before?😕

What makes the diff'rence
This one is in black and white
That was in colours..😃

Can we guess their names?
She is Champa or Jodh Bai
He may be Jalal..😛

KK.



Awesome haikus, Patti! 👏
You penned down everyone's feeling here ! 😆
Yes we feel ...we know them but don't know ... something like that ! 😆
Just waiting for the next part for better picture! 😳

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Testmytest


He is stable now Lashy, but his brain activity has been reduced, right side paralyzed, unconscious since 10 days, breathing with help of oxygen mask 😔

This is not a pleasure trip obviously, mixed feelings...not sure how this going to turn out, it's my MIL's decision at the end of the day, she says she can't see him suffer like this and I agree, it is painful to watch him with all the tubes on him, my memory of him total opposite of what I see now.

It's ok, we all are prepared for the worst.

I want to thank all my Dearies here at HBAS for best wishes, means a lot 🤗


Rekha di...🤗
Praying for what ever store for your family...
Please be strong and take care ! 😳
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Testmytest


Bindu dear I pray that you get someone who is caring and loves you to the moon!!

>>> Thank you so much , Rekha di! 🤗

Agree with you, Lavanya and Lashy that relationship is work in progress, we have to work at it every day. My hubby and I are totally opposite in nature, likes/dislikes, choices, subjects on history/political, food...it has been a great learning experience for me since I got married, it has been 26 years and don't take anything for granted!! We don't agree on lot of things, we argue, discuss but at the I end of the day the relationship becomes stronger, we become stronger mentally.

>>> Oh my... 26 years of marriage and beautiful life experience!
It'd so great to read you know...❤️
Thank you for sharing here, di ! 🤗

Not a bit, but a lot of compromise, understanding and adjustment required. Arranged marriages are bit more tougher, I think!

>>> Ohok... not a little bit but a lot of everything ! 👍🏼
Bold... I understand, di...so much change happens in your life all of a sudden after marriage na .😳





Originally posted by: lashy


And there you go, Bindup... from someone even more experienced than us! 😉

>>> Yes...26 years of experience ! 😲

Then again, there's nothing wrong in letting oneself get lost in a bit of romance...
much like how men use sports, TV, friends, hobbies etc to de-stress & get away from reality for a while... I think girls have stories and imagination to get away from reality for a while (Of course, we do love our friends/hobby times 😉etc too)

>>> Aww!

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Posted: 6 years ago
#90
AUNTY SUCH WONDERFUL HAIKUS 👏


AGREE REKHA COMPROMISES AND ADJUSTMENTS IS WHAT MAKES A RELATIONSHIP THRIVE. AND OF COURSE ROMANCE TOO 😉 BUT BOTH HAVE TO WORK TOGETHER FOR IT


LOVE OR ARRANGED I GUESS BOTH ARE TO BE POSITIVELY HANDLED


I HOPE YOUR FATHER IN LAW FEELS BETTER REKHA - WHATEVER DECISION YOU ALL TAKE. THESE ARE TOUGH TIMES FOR YOU AND I AM GLAD THAT YOU ARE ABLE TO COME HERE N SHARE WITH US

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