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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: lghosh



In our training today the topic was dealing with Mental Disturbance or Traumatic Experience. They asked us how do we deal with mental stress and they asked us to tell the person next to us about it. So I turned to this lady and told her 'I listen to music or do some deep breathing to get de-stressed'! Imagine what that lady in a very matter of fact tone in a casual manner told me? "I drink some tequila shots and if that doesn't do anything I go for some resting'! Her actual words were very blunt and straightforward which I can't write here but the meaning was that. I went from 😳 to 🤣!! After that training was a vague memory. 🤣


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Posted: 7 years ago


Originally posted by: lashy


Hmmm... interesting... thanks for giving us a glimpse of life on the other side...
I would say that 20 if not 18, and you start seeing your parents are confidantes, rather than just 'parents' - Especially, girls their moms and boys their dads!😳

Of course, it was only a couple of years ago, that I was a teen too😳...but I've forgotten all about it... what with my powerful memory!


very much true...😃

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Vmanoh

Yes please - would love to see them !
Here it's shown that they are also throwing the plate away at them? 😲😆
So you need to dodge not just the colors but on what it came from. !


So cute!😆
I guess people can get carried away - and the clip we are seeing is quite dramatic...

But no, plate-throwing is not technically part of Holi 😆

Good Morning Banjaras and Baisas 🤗
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: roseraja1915

Eid ka chand -can this be included in the HBAS lingo list? ( Lashy's list. Since there is a Lana's list, so need to clarify)😆


Lashy's list is safe list.
Yes, Eid ka Chand (The "Once in a blue moon") and Sangat ka Asar. (Influenced by the company you keep)
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Vmanoh


You got that right Rose !!! 😆
My late night movie time.



>>> I had no idea you slept so late over the weekends! 👍🏼


Selvi - Missed her last night - usually she comes back after the poems & I had this pice below to share with her. Hope all ok with her. 😕

Actually, Periyamma, Selvi and Bindup - all three have gone quiet. 😒


Lake Sorvagsvatn, Faroe Islands ( betweeen Iceland & Denmark



A different view



This is spectacular... reminds me a little bit of the Grand Canyon!

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Vmanoh


It has a name - what was the name given? But for a first time you have got it pretty good. 👍🏼
Older one = Mr. Snow
Middle one = Tony

His name Mr. Tony Snow!😆

I was going to say the same to add a carrot for the nose & button for the eyes (black ) & coloured buttons for the mouth.

Shush... I was just waiting to finish ticking the box "mommy who helped build snowman", so I could get back in...
They all went 'Yayyy' when the topic of snowman came and then sorta went numb half way through it. My hands were literally frozen! So carrot... button... no way... I just put whatever I could find! 🤣

So did you roll 2 or 3 snowballs & kept them on top of the other. When you roll the snow into a ball(s) it stays longer - provided of course the weather stays put.

Something like that!🤔
Rithi seems to have acquired her Momma's DQ for real.😆

>>>😳


Btw look at this car under 7 feet of snow. There was a family trapped in it. Thankfully, London is not so snowed-in!


Poor doctors are walking 5-10 miles to their hospitals just so someone is there to tend to the sick... hospitals are empty..
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Vmanoh


Lashy - What you mentioned about a teenager is true - I can say that as I went through that with my son. They pass their teens & into their early 20's and then start to make conversations. About topics they like is what makes the difference & see that from what Shagun has mentioned as well, Since I had no daughters in order to keep the line of communication along with his dad I too got involved in watching my son's two favourite sports - Baseball & Basketball. Hardest part for a parent is to let go and deciding when & what to give into, knowing all that can go wrong.

I'm not sure Lavanya at what age driver's license can be obtained there. For us here it's sixteen.
Having born in November & all his classmates had got their license already that year my son went out on his B'day to do the license test, Until then he'd been driving on our driveway and unknown to me with his dad around the block at night. My mister's reasoning was that he'd rather did that with him around than without. My son's reasoning to be able to drive was that since he is a teetotaler he'd rather have the car & be driving it himself than getting a ride from someone who might have had one too many. Boys in their late teens for sure do not want to be seen dropped off at their friends by their parents. . But showing that you trust them with some of their decisions & guiding them without being overbearing helps, along with a prayer that you have instilled good values for them to follow. It is a tight rope walk while your kids pass through this stage of their life.


Teenagers!
It's scary!
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... but we will brave this storm in life too! And yes, there's that thin line between being protective and yet showing you trust them. Too trusting consequences could be "😲" too protective and their rebelliousness could get outta hand!


Edited by lashy - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Vmanoh


Oh Good - Now will this also go to 1st page below the "Glossary of terms"" ? 😆


If that's what the baisas want... 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago

Awww thank you Manu 😳
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: lghosh



Thank you Rose!! 🤗 Needed that, it felt like I was stuck behind the wheel all day going from one place to another. 😃

🤗Thursday and Friday - both tiring days for you!😳

In our training today the topic was dealing with Mental Disturbance or Traumatic Experience. They asked us how do we deal with mental stress and they asked us to tell the person next to us about it. So I turned to this lady and told her 'I listen to music or do some deep breathing to get de-stressed'! Imagine what that lady in a very matter of fact tone in a casual manner told me? "I drink some tequila shots and if that doesn't do anything I go for some resting'! Her actual words were very blunt and straightforward which I can't write here but the meaning was that. I went from 😳 to 🤣!! After that training was a vague memory.


🤣 🤣




Edited by lashy - 7 years ago

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