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Dear Stuti!
Maybe I understand better this problem. I know what is if a child had neurological injury at birth. I, fortunately, was not as hard, as you described. Not cerebral palsy. But the treatment had taken many years, and that such children are very heavy and are even more hopeless situations, I know.Oh I never knew it!😲 It must have been very hard for you. However, I am proud of you.🤗
But I was very lucky. I had the best parents in the world. Best Dad of the world! I was - father's daughter. 😃 Although we, as in the East, the boys are valued more. 😊I felt very happy for no reason after reading this line that you had the best parents and best dad of the world!😳
Few can imagine what the stress having by both parents. And very often, too often, mothers are remain alone with a child disabled. Presses all: public opinion, family, a sense of guilt, simply elementary physical fatigue. If you still don't have enough qualified medical assistance, don't have money ... it's a disaster.Yes you're right. 😔
I have no sympathy and respect for the men, throwing their sick children and wives. But I will not blame the husband in this invented story. It is easy to say that we should "be good" if you don't know the problem from the inside, what is such the pain and blame, didn't give help them. These families need with the first days in a competent psychological care, a kindly family, in their friends. Well, that now have Internet and people can form groups to assist each other.You wrote it very well. The family and the parents should undergo a counselling process along with the child's treatment some time, I think. Yes, in social forums people can find same kind of persons and can share and help each other.
The mistakes which make the exhausted mother, can be justified fully, but their should be avoided - the removal of her husband psychologically. The husband must learn to love such a child, if he can't, him necessary learn, as learn to walk of a newborn. Some people are born noble and good initially, other people need help to become the good men.Rightly said.👏
For these children need not only special treatment, but also special upbringing, education. Their mothers (mostly moms) and their families should be, as say, "to deliver monuments during lifetime", but a real would be to better give their help from society.Yes.⭐️
Jodha in this story - a great woman! Many mothers who stay with their children, but she helps and others !!! The real prototype too?The woman from whose story I am inspired, too works for the differently able children now; her husband has left her long before and now happily married with some other person, and she has given away her life to serve the poor differently able children ... She is indeed a great woman.
