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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: history_geek


Last night's episode was quite good it seems. I have not seen it.
Only heard that Jalal administered Justice and kept his theory of kingship above all. :)

I am missing out, on the details of episode. Can someone elaborate.?.


PS : I also want to share LOT of historical anecdotes but not doing so keeping in mind the forum rule based on historical discussions. I hope we remember that rule and the consequences for this thread in case it is not followed. Please be careful. :)

Extremely Sorry abhay I thought it was just a snippet from literature and not real history or any fact that happened in real but a folklore told ,but would be very careful in future of not making any references...
I can give you a gist of what happened yesterday
The episode starts with jalal asking nadira did you see salim hitting and she replied yes, I was there and quadir was picking fruits and salims arrow hit him. Jalal angrily ask salim now I want to know who is lying salim ask forgiveness and say he didn't do it deliberately but I was just trying ti hit the fruit.Jalal is still angry and says mistake is one if it is deliberate or not and also you lied to me and assures the grandma that justice will be done and declares he would give verdict tomorrow. Jo asks salim y u lied ,he says he is afraid of jalal,jo says you shouldn't have run after hitting.Jalal is not only your father but shenshah too and so she doesn't know what he will decide.
Quadirs grandmother is saying I don't know if he will get alright he used to do all my work.Jalal and todar is there in disguise hearing it. Nadira's mother scold her for telling the truth but she stand by her words and say I I didn't lie I said only the truth .She says may be we would go away from here but nadira's father stop and say then nadira will be considered a liar . she recall sagunibai's words that they will soon go to palace .
Tarazu scene : Jalal is standing there thinking of old lady's plea and salim's fearful face .Jo comes there and say I know you would be here ,one side is the father and the other side is shensah. I know you would do justice but also remember salim didn't do it deliberately .Jalal gets angry and say i'm thinking how to do justice and you come here with innocence of your kid I want muz to be with me and not just salim's mother .salim would be innocent if he not lied and he did that and so its a crime.I just want salim to know what responsibilities king have and jo says i'm sorry If you still feel salim is a criminal punish him as you wish .Salim unfortunately hears this and gets dejected .He thinks now amminaan also wants to punish me too. Jo say just remember he is a 9 year kid ,a kid who once saved others from not being crushed by elephant so please don't crush him by your decision.
salim asks ruq both ma and dad wants to punish me do you also wants to .she says no you are my life ,you are the heir no one will punish you.He says y didn't ma speak for me father would always listen to whatever she says.Ruq as ususual find her chance and say i'll there for you and your mother can say anything but I will always do you good😡.Really Ruq ...and also says to her now I got the chance finally I will snatch your child as you snatched mine you will be just muz i'll have your son.
the villagers are waiting for jalal's verdict .jalal comes and ask Rahim to bring salim forward.salim is shivering wondering where ruq is .Jalal says Mughal santanate is known for its justice and today too I will do justice .An arrow fly past his ears. Everyone looks for the culprit ruq say its me jalal gets angry and say arrest her. ruq comes fwd .Hb ask y she did so ruq say i'm sorry my target was not jalal but the fireholder behind him. if he had come in middle he would have been hurt but my intention was not that .Jalla gets angry and says its a crime to bring weapon to court and you will be arrested for it.Jo tries to interfere from veil saying ruq is just trying to make you understand salim's situation she could see you but salim couldn't even know quaidar is there . Jalal says its a crime to bring weapon to court and arrest her .
Precap:
Jalal says to hb I know jo is hurting for salim and i'm too as a father but I wanted salim to know that for a king nothing is greater than justice
Edited by prav2 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

I agree with the posts here, and posting response to the stereotyping which we are discussing.

We are watching a show which is "supposed" to be set in 16th century. I agree that, many OTT things have happened, which do not give the show a look like 16th Century.

But, i want to make a point that, not all ladies in that age were as strong as i have seen/read/known about MUZ. I wanted her characterization to be at par with what she was.

It is stereotyping that Male is protector of female.?. Interesting question. We have the likes of Marykom, our female athletes, other sportsperson, and many female players who are breaking the traditional norms and entering into the sports which were considered bastions of male sportsperson. We have many CEO's of leading institutions, as ladies. We have doctors and teachers among them. Recently, the Chairman of ISRO while launching the book on Mars Mission, said that the team handling the placement of satellite in orbit was headed by ladies. The Research Lab of many facilities there are still headed by ladies. There are examples in many fields.

While i stand for complete equality of both genders in present world.

BUT

Do we think that 450 years back , that was the case. As i mentioned few lines back, NOT ALL were strong like Razia, MUZ or NJ in those days. Not all were very politically powerful. We had certain / few ladies who were really powerful and we are demanding a strong characterization for them.


I also wanted a strong Jodha. And posted this yesterday afternoon on Lasya's thread..
Link: 115894576
""
But when it comes to Jodha, i wanted the CV's to show her growth also, along with Jalal. She was a business woman, commanded cavalries, had great hold in the Mughal Sultanate, known to issue charitable lands, had issues political farmans even, had her jaagir . But did we see even an iota of those facts.?. NO. The CV's seem to have reduced her role to singing Bhajans, and making Rangolis. They should have broken the norm, and come above the normally accepted trend of a "Medieval LadY" who could do nothing except some selected works which we all know.🥱 She had wished Hasan and Husain to be like their father when they grow up. Clearly shows that , US WAQT , she also had a vision regarding her sons. But right now, it seems nothing of the sort is happening. Leave a POWERFUL Empress, right now she looks like any other common lady. It seems she is MUZ just for name. In my opinion, She was much better, assertive before she got this title. Not once, CV's gave a good introduction like announcement in DEK, that - " Malika-e-Hind Mariam-Uz-Zamani Begum is arriving" ,< i mean the sort of announcement done for Emperor. Not once is she shown involved in some farman issuing activity. The list can go on and on.
""

^^^^
Had it been someone else, i won't have written this, but i wrote this because hers was the CASE which was different from those among medieval ladies. The CV's could have broken the run of the mill concept of showcasing all ladies as subservient, as i have known from this forum itself that in other shows normally the same old story repeats.

BUT, Did anyone of us demand a strong Bakshi Bano.?. I don't know, perhaps we demanded.
I did not demand it, because i have not heard of her as a strong lady.
In the movie, and also in the readings her image does not comes across as that of a strong lady.
Hence, if she is shown as a abla naari, would that be also called stereotyping.?.
This case i will not call stereotyping, in my opinion.


Coming to our show, i will give one example, which i mentioned a month back, that is about the Mirchi War.
Link :
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/114811745

"
I had no problems with the Mirchi War. But i had problems with Abul Maali capturing Jalal. I had no problems with the Harem Ladies fighting for their honor, but i had problems with the torture of Jalal that too at the hands of someone of the ranks of Abul Maali.. For me, Mirchi War and Jalal torture are 2 different events. Hence, i will NOT mix up both of them. Both could have been shown in some manner, but CV's went the other way..!!..
"

^^^ In this case, Ekta tried to show a strong league of women, but in this process, she just ERASED Akbar. She could have shown (i)Akbar fighting and also shown the (ii)ladies fighting for honor. But, she skipped the first part.

Are we talking of stereotyping in general or stereotyping in case of our show. ?

Isn't this also stereotyping that, MOST men would leave/ditch/shrug off their wives in case of crisis.?. Is the reverse not possible.?. I think the practicing lawyers here would be knowing of enough cases which i am trying to mention here.
Are there only the male authorities/politicians who make stereotypical remarks.?.


I, for one, do not know about "most" of other shows in details, and hence, i am talking about ONLY Jodha Akbar. It is not that , all the shows females are portrayed as abla naaris. Recently, I have come to know of a show, where a wife entered the prestigious Indian Police Services after her marriage, though her husband is a normal shopkeeper. There may not be many cases of such shows but, there are shows which showcase strong women, and in BETTER positions than their husbands.

This issue runs across various realms, and is quite common and applies to both the "segments" . The small screen has also shown strong women in the shows, and also shown them as doormats. We can not generalize the case.I won't be able to think of a generalization here...

Edited by history_geek - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
@Priya...

Thanks a lot for the details and the WU...Will try to respond as soon as possible.
I have not read all the posts till now 'carefully' . Will be back later.
BTW, My comment was a general reminder, not for you... I liked your details... 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: history_geek


Last night's episode was quite good it seems. I have not seen it.
Only heard that Jalal administered Justice and kept his theory of kingship above all. :)

I am missing out, on the details of episode. Can someone elaborate.?.


PS : I also want to share LOT of historical anecdotes but not doing so keeping in mind the forum rule based on historical discussions. I hope we remember that rule and the consequences for this thread in case it is not followed. Please be careful. :)


Thanks, Abhay!

@ All friends,

You can share historical anecdotes on the Historical Sticky thread and simply add the link here. Otherwise this thread may be closed, as has been conveyed by the Mods already and we would be unable to continue the other discussions we are having.Thanks for your cooperation!



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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: history_geek

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">
I agree with the posts here, and posting response to the stereotyping which we are discussing.

We are watching a show which is "supposed" to be set in 16th century. I agree that, many OTT things have happened, which do not give the show a look like 16th Century.

But, i want to make a point that, not all ladies in that age were as strong as i have seen/read/known about MUZ. I wanted her characterization to be at par with what she was.

It is stereotyping that Male is protector of female.?. Interesting question. We have the likes of Marykom, our female athletes, other sportsperson, and many female players who are breaking the traditional norms and entering into the sports which were considered bastions of male sportsperson. We have many CEO's of leading institutions, as ladies. We have doctors and teachers among them. Recently, the Chairman of ISRO while launching the book on Mars Mission, said that the team handling the placement of satellite in orbit was headed by ladies. The Research Lab of many facilities there are still headed by ladies. There are examples in many fields.

While i stand for complete equality of both genders in present world.

BUT

Do we think that 450 years back , that was the case. As i mentioned few lines back, NOT ALL were strong like Razia, MUZ or NJ in those days. Not all were very politically powerful. We had certain / few ladies who were really powerful and we are demanding a strong characterization for them.


I also wanted a strong Jodha. And posted this yesterday afternoon on Lasya's thread..
Link: </font><font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">115894576
""
But when it comes to Jodha,
i wanted the CV's to show her growth also, along with Jalal. She was a
business woman, commanded cavalries, had great hold in the Mughal
Sultanate, known to issue charitable lands, had issues political farmans
even, had her jaagir . But did we see even an iota of those facts.?.
NO. The CV's seem to have reduced her role to singing Bhajans, and
making Rangolis. They should have broken the norm, and come above the
normally accepted trend of a "Medieval LadY" who could do nothing except some selected works which we all know.🥱
She had wished Hasan and Husain to be like their father when they grow
up. Clearly shows that , US WAQT , she also had a vision regarding her
sons. But right now, it seems nothing of the sort is happening. Leave a
POWERFUL Empress, right now she looks like any other common lady. It
seems she is MUZ just for name. In my opinion, She was much better,
assertive before she got this title. Not once, CV's gave a good
introduction like announcement in DEK, that - " Malika-e-Hind
Mariam-Uz-Zamani Begum is arriving" ,< i mean the sort of
announcement done for Emperor. Not once is she shown involved in some
farman issuing activity. The list can go on and on.
""

^^^^
Had it been someone else, i won't have written this, but i wrote this because hers was the CASE which was different from those among medieval ladies. The CV's could have broken the run of the mill concept of showcasing all ladies as subservient, as i have known from this forum itself that in other shows normally the same old story repeats.

BUT, Did anyone of us demand a strong Bakshi Bano.?. I don't know, perhaps we
demanded.
I did not demand it, because i have not heard of her as a
strong lady.
In the movie, and also in the readings her image does not
comes across as that of a strong lady.
Hence, if she is shown as a abla naari, would that be also called stereotyping.?.
This case i will not call stereotyping, in my opinion.

</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif"><font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Coming to our show, i will give one example, which i mentioned a month back, that is about the Mirchi War.
Link :
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/114811745

"
I had no problems with the Mirchi War.
But i had problems with Abul Maali capturing Jalal. I had no problems
with the Harem Ladies fighting for their honor, but i had problems with
the torture of Jalal that too at the hands of someone of the
ranks of Abul Maali.. For me, Mirchi War and Jalal torture are 2
different events. Hence, i will NOT mix up both of them. Both could have been shown in some manner, but CV's went the other way..!!..
"

</font>^^^ In this case, Ekta tried to show a strong league of women, but in this process, she just ERASED Akbar. She could have shown (i)Akbar fighting and also shown the (ii)ladies fighting for honor. But, she skipped the first part.

Are we talking of stereotyping in general or stereotyping in case of our show. ?

Isn't this also stereotyping that, MOST men would leave/ditch/shrug off their wives in case of crisis.?. Is the reverse not possible.?. I think the practicing lawyers here would be knowing of enough cases which i am trying to mention here.
Are there only the male authorities/politicians who make stereotypical remarks.?.


</font><font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif"><font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I, for one, do not know about "most" of
other shows in details, and hence, i am talking about ONLY Jodha Akbar. It
is not that , all the shows females are portrayed as abla naaris. Recently, I have
come to know of a show, where a wife entered the prestigious Indian
Police Services after her marriage, though her husband is a normal shopkeeper. There may not be many cases of such
shows but, there are shows which showcase strong women, and in BETTER positions than their husbands.
</font>
This issue runs across various realms, and is quite common and applies to both the "segments" . The small screen has also shown strong women in the shows, and also shown them as doormats. </font><font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif"><font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">We can not generalize the case.</font>I won't be able to think of a generalization here...

</font>



Hi...
I am new here...although i have read many of your posts before...
In fact, I have learnt so much about the Mughals from one of your threads...

Firstly, I would like to say...great post... 👏
When the serial started, I loved Jodha...
From wat I know, she was one strong, powerful yet dignified n graceful woman...
She traded with the Portuguese(if i am not wrong) n enjoyed a powerful position...

Such a woman must have had a really overwhelming personality...unlike wat we have in this serial...

Initially I loved Jodha, but now my liking for her is reduced...
Bcoz Jodha's character has not grown in the past years...n that power n position are missing...
Even after becoming Maryam-Uz-Zamani, that power is missing in her personality...
She's still the woman who accepts all insults...

Now i find Ruqaiyya to be much better... 😆
I know she's evil, vicious, insolent n cruel...but she holds her ground no matter wat n does not bow down to anyone...

I wanted Jodha to be depicted with this power, without the evil side...

But the CVs have reduced her to an ordinary Queen...just another wife of Akbar, who's busy running after her kid...
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: history_geek


I agree with the posts here, and posting response to the stereotyping which we are discussing.

We are watching a show which is "supposed" to be set in 16th century. I agree that, many OTT things have happened, which do not give the show a look like 16th Century.

But, i want to make a point that, not all ladies in that age were as strong as i have seen/read/known about MUZ. I wanted her characterization to be at par with what she was.

It is stereotyping that Male is protector of female.?. Interesting question. We have the likes of Marykom, our female athletes, other sportsperson, and many female players who are breaking the traditional norms and entering into the sports which were considered bastions of male sportsperson. We have many CEO's of leading institutions, as ladies. We have doctors and teachers among them. Recently, the Chairman of ISRO while launching the book on Mars Mission, said that the team handling the placement of satellite in orbit was headed by ladies. The Research Lab of many facilities there are still headed by ladies. There are examples in many fields.

While i stand for complete equality of both genders in present world.

BUT

Do we think that 450 years back , that was the case. As i mentioned few lines back, NOT ALL were strong like Razia, MUZ or NJ in those days. Not all were very politically powerful. We had certain / few ladies who were really powerful and we are demanding a strong characterization for them.


I also wanted a strong Jodha. And posted this yesterday afternoon on Lasya's thread..
Link: 115894576
""
But when it comes to Jodha, i wanted the CV's to show her growth also, along with Jalal. She was a business woman, commanded cavalries, had great hold in the Mughal Sultanate, known to issue charitable lands, had issues political farmans even, had her jaagir . But did we see even an iota of those facts.?. NO. The CV's seem to have reduced her role to singing Bhajans, and making Rangolis. They should have broken the norm, and come above the normally accepted trend of a "Medieval LadY" who could do nothing except some selected works which we all know.🥱 She had wished Hasan and Husain to be like their father when they grow up. Clearly shows that , US WAQT , she also had a vision regarding her sons. But right now, it seems nothing of the sort is happening. Leave a POWERFUL Empress, right now she looks like any other common lady. It seems she is MUZ just for name. In my opinion, She was much better, assertive before she got this title. Not once, CV's gave a good introduction like announcement in DEK, that - " Malika-e-Hind Mariam-Uz-Zamani Begum is arriving" ,< i mean the sort of announcement done for Emperor. Not once is she shown involved in some farman issuing activity. The list can go on and on.
""

^^^^
Had it been someone else, i won't have written this, but i wrote this because hers was the CASE which was different from those among medieval ladies. The CV's could have broken the run of the mill concept of showcasing all ladies as subservient, as i have known from this forum itself that in other shows normally the same old story repeats.

BUT, Did anyone of us demand a strong Bakshi Bano.?. I don't know, perhaps we demanded.
I did not demand it, because i have not heard of her as a strong lady.
In the movie, and also in the readings her image does not comes across as that of a strong lady.
Hence, if she is shown as a abla naari, would that be also called stereotyping.?.
This case i will not call stereotyping, in my opinion.


Coming to our show, i will give one example, which i mentioned a month back, that is about the Mirchi War.
Link :
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/114811745

"
I had no problems with the Mirchi War. But i had problems with Abul Maali capturing Jalal. I had no problems with the Harem Ladies fighting for their honor, but i had problems with the torture of Jalal that too at the hands of someone of the ranks of Abul Maali.. For me, Mirchi War and Jalal torture are 2 different events. Hence, i will NOT mix up both of them. Both could have been shown in some manner, but CV's went the other way..!!..
"

^^^ In this case, Ekta tried to show a strong league of women, but in this process, she just ERASED Akbar. She could have shown (i)Akbar fighting and also shown the (ii)ladies fighting for honor. But, she skipped the first part.

Are we talking of stereotyping in general or stereotyping in case of our show. ?

Isn't this also stereotyping that, MOST men would leave/ditch/shrug off their wives in case of crisis.?. Is the reverse not possible.?. I think the practicing lawyers here would be knowing of enough cases which i am trying to mention here.
Are there only the male authorities/politicians who make stereotypical remarks.?.


I, for one, do not know about "most" of other shows in details, and hence, i am talking about ONLY Jodha Akbar. It is not that , all the shows females are portrayed as abla naaris. Recently, I have come to know of a show, where a wife entered the prestigious Indian Police Services after her marriage, though her husband is a normal shopkeeper. There may not be many cases of such shows but, there are shows which showcase strong women, and in BETTER positions than their husbands.

This issue runs across various realms, and is quite common and applies to both the "segments" . The small screen has also shown strong women in the shows, and also shown them as doormats. We can not generalize the case.I won't be able to think of a generalization here...


Abhay,

You have presented a balanced view and I understand what you intend to say here.👏

I wish to add to what you have said. :)

The male is the protector of the female is a stereotype when it is blindly applied to every woman, whether it is Bakshi or MUZ, without taking their individuality into account. This is my objection. I don't believe women then and now are different. Women, then or now, are all individuals. Some are abla and some sabla, some somewhere in between.

Apart from the Mirchi war, we also saw that Jodha was a trained warrior and she once fought armed attackers along with Jalal quite ably.

I strongly object to her being shown as requiring the protection of her young son if her husband is not with her. In my view, this is stereotyping at its worst. If we had to be shown Salim's bravery, JJ could have enacted the drama together. This would have NOT gone against the established character of Jodha in the show.

I also want Jalal and Jodha to elucidate on Jodha's skills too along with Jalal's to Salim. Salim should KNOW he is the son of a strong warrior mother, not a run-of-the-mill abla nari mother.



Regarding Bakshi, she is a weak woman who is afraid that her husband will leave her if she opposes him. I understand such women exist too, then or now. I would ideally like her to stand up to her husband, esp as her brother is the emperor. But I can understand that she would rather remain married than stay as an abandoned wife in the protection of her brother. Esp in those days, this was NOT a desirable option for many women.



Are men stereotyped? Can a woman leave her husband in times of crisis? Yes to both questions.

We have seen Ruq leave Jalal to his own devices pretty much most of the times he faced an emotional crisis.

Jalal's stereotyped character - I really don't want to repeat this again. You know my views about this, since I made many posts in the past about his swinging personality. He loves Jodha to distraction, then MUs her over something and throws her out of his life without a second thought, then discovers the truth, repents, and promises everlasting love and declares he cannot live without her. How many tracks have followed this beaten path? LOL

PS: I am sorry. This stereotype has been updated. Now Jalal doesn't repent. Or apologize. 😕



Again going back to Jodha aka MUZ.

I do not know history as well as you. But I do understand that an MUZ should be more powerful than ALL other queens, be on a higher pedestal, so to say. But here, Jodha's stereotype, as the tamed shrew, the domesticated wife and mother, is so complete that it is HARD to believe she is the MUZ.

She has no regal bearing in terms of her clothes or body language. This is vastly different from the time Jodha was newly married. Now she is shown to dress and think and behave like a common woman.

She has no sense of justice. Ruq fired Rashid and the MUZ just accepted it calmly??? Is this the same woman who opposed Jalal to even free Khyber from death? Who stood by Moti and Tasneem? Who fought for jaziya to be removed only recently?

She has no sense of mothering. She is not able to fill her son with confidence? She is not able to train Salim, as she was trained in her childhood? Has she forgotten everything she learned in Amer under Sujamal?

She does not know how to correct her son. He messed up big time by shooting a boy accidentally, then hiding his role and lying to cover up his tracks.



I don't blame Salim at all. I am questioning Jodha here. She is the mother. Yet her ONLY son (as per the show) does not have enough faith in his mother to tell her the truth??? Every mother, no matter how dumb, is able to establish a relationship of trust with her kids so that kids always go to their mother when in trouble, even if they are afraid of their father.

But Salim does not have that faith in Jodha. In fact, it seems he has more faith in Ruq than Jodha. For he constantly seems to be going to Ruq more than Jodha.

Even after she finds out, she is not able to reassure her son that she would support him always but he has to face the consequences of his actions this time. She is not able to explain to him where he went wrong and how he should have come to her and told her everything. She is not able to explain to him that Jalal may punish him as a king as he has to, but as parents, they would continue to love him always.



Next in line is Jalal. It is good that he is trying to use innovative methods to train his son as a prince of the court. But he has to remember to teach him as a son too. Why should his son be so afraid of him that he cannot even tell the truth in front of him?

It is fine that Jalal keeps his kingship above everything. But he must also remember that he is punishing a small child who didn't hurt the other boy deliberately. He should be able to explain what wrong Salim did and why he is being punished. (Personally I feel his punishment should have been less strict. But I don't know how kids and others were punished those days.)

Just shouting at a child and punishing him will not serve any purpose. Punishment serves its purpose if the punished person understands his mistake and repents enough to not repeat that mistake in future. It should not be done only to redress the grievance of the victim's family but also to reform the person who has committed a serious mistake.



Jalal does not even know how to behave with an adult, leave alone a child. Now he remembers that Jodha is the MUZ???

Has he ever given her any powers or responsibilities commensurate with that title?
He let the MUZ apologize to Ruq for something that was not her fault?
He has not told the MUZ that she can overrule Ruq if Ruq takes wrong decisions. If he can ask Salim to question Ruq, he can ask the MUZ also to question Ruq when she goes wrong.

If we stick to just the present instance too, did he ask her as the MUZ what her decision in the case was? If she has no say in deciding the fate of Salim as his mother or the MUZ, then why remind her to think like an MUZ??

MUZ has become just a beautiful sounding title like Malika-e-Mughal Sultanat. It is just an empty title in this show, with no weight behind it.

I don't watch other shows either. And they are not important. Stereotypes are anyway not restricted to shows but occur as leitmotifs in popular culture and our society. In our show, all characters are stereotyped. The irony is that many characters had greater depth and a wider range of personality traits last year. But post leap, all the characters seem to have become flat, regressive stereotypes -- mere shadows, may be not even that of their former selves.
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Posted: 10 years ago
@ Abhay

I too even wish that Jodha's arrival announcement is made something like that...😃

Iss avasar par...ek blooper aapke liye😆

When Jodha was newly married to Jalaal and she went to AGRA with him,a jashn was held...😳

Then the announcement of Ruqaiyya was made something like this...😡

"Hoshiyaar Ba...Mallika e hind,Mallika e khaas,Mallika e begum,Mallika Ruqaiyya Sulatan tashreef laa rahi hain "🤢

You see for a realatively smaller audha, such an announcement was made...Then what about Jodha??She needs that one yaar !!😭
Even her look does not match the title,there is no such glory and aura maintained...😔


Leave this apart, nowadays you don't see a proper arrival announcement for the Shehenshah himself !😲

It used to be like this---

"Ba Adab Ba Mulaiza Hoshiyaar,Nooe e takht e Mughaliya,Zil e Ilahi,Shehenshah e hind, Baaadshah salamat, Jalaluddin Muhammed, DEK mein Jalwafroz ho rahe hain"😎

But now it is simply

"Hoshiyaar, Shehenshah Jalaluddin Muhammed Akbar padhaar rahein hai"

No sign of to where he is going...

They even have stopped using URDU...Previously I used to recognise the clear difference in the languages spoken by JJ , I don't see any difference in them,now...😕

God knows...what has happened to the CVs..Please koi inhe neend se jaagne ki aushadhi khilao yaar !! 🥱 👎🏼
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: history_geek


I agree with the posts here, and posting response to the stereotyping which we are discussing.

We are watching a show which is "supposed" to be set in 16th century. I agree that, many OTT things have happened, which do not give the show a look like 16th Century.

But, i want to make a point that, not all ladies in that age were as strong as i have seen/read/known about MUZ. I wanted her characterization to be at par with what she was.

It is stereotyping that Male is protector of female.?. Interesting question. We have the likes of Marykom, our female athletes, other sportsperson, and many female players who are breaking the traditional norms and entering into the sports which were considered bastions of male sportsperson. We have many CEO's of leading institutions, as ladies. We have doctors and teachers among them. Recently, the Chairman of ISRO while launching the book on Mars Mission, said that the team handling the placement of satellite in orbit was headed by ladies. The Research Lab of many facilities there are still headed by ladies. There are examples in many fields.

While i stand for complete equality of both genders in present world.

BUT

Do we think that 450 years back , that was the case. As i mentioned few lines back, NOT ALL were strong like Razia, MUZ or NJ in those days. Not all were very politically powerful. We had certain / few ladies who were really powerful and we are demanding a strong characterization for them.


I also wanted a strong Jodha. And posted this yesterday afternoon on Lasya's thread..
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But when it comes to Jodha, i wanted the CV's to show her growth also, along with Jalal. She was a business woman, commanded cavalries, had great hold in the Mughal Sultanate, known to issue charitable lands, had issues political farmans even, had her jaagir . But did we see even an iota of those facts.?. NO. The CV's seem to have reduced her role to singing Bhajans, and making Rangolis. They should have broken the norm, and come above the normally accepted trend of a "Medieval LadY" who could do nothing except some selected works which we all know.🥱 She had wished Hasan and Husain to be like their father when they grow up. Clearly shows that , US WAQT , she also had a vision regarding her sons. But right now, it seems nothing of the sort is happening. Leave a POWERFUL Empress, right now she looks like any other common lady. It seems she is MUZ just for name. In my opinion, She was much better, assertive before she got this title. Not once, CV's gave a good introduction like announcement in DEK, that - " Malika-e-Hind Mariam-Uz-Zamani Begum is arriving" ,< i mean the sort of announcement done for Emperor. Not once is she shown involved in some farman issuing activity. The list can go on and on.
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Had it been someone else, i won't have written this, but i wrote this because hers was the CASE which was different from those among medieval ladies. The CV's could have broken the run of the mill concept of showcasing all ladies as subservient, as i have known from this forum itself that in other shows normally the same old story repeats.

BUT, Did anyone of us demand a strong Bakshi Bano.?. I don't know, perhaps we demanded.
I did not demand it, because i have not heard of her as a strong lady.
In the movie, and also in the readings her image does not comes across as that of a strong lady.
Hence, if she is shown as a abla naari, would that be also called stereotyping.?.
This case i will not call stereotyping, in my opinion.


Coming to our show, i will give one example, which i mentioned a month back, that is about the Mirchi War.
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I had no problems with the Mirchi War. But i had problems with Abul Maali capturing Jalal. I had no problems with the Harem Ladies fighting for their honor, but i had problems with the torture of Jalal that too at the hands of someone of the ranks of Abul Maali.. For me, Mirchi War and Jalal torture are 2 different events. Hence, i will NOT mix up both of them. Both could have been shown in some manner, but CV's went the other way..!!..
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^^^ In this case, Ekta tried to show a strong league of women, but in this process, she just ERASED Akbar. She could have shown (i)Akbar fighting and also shown the (ii)ladies fighting for honor. But, she skipped the first part.

Are we talking of stereotyping in general or stereotyping in case of our show. ?

Isn't this also stereotyping that, MOST men would leave/ditch/shrug off their wives in case of crisis.?. Is the reverse not possible.?. I think the practicing lawyers here would be knowing of enough cases which i am trying to mention here.
Are there only the male authorities/politicians who make stereotypical remarks.?.


I, for one, do not know about "most" of other shows in details, and hence, i am talking about ONLY Jodha Akbar. It is not that , all the shows females are portrayed as abla naaris. Recently, I have come to know of a show, where a wife entered the prestigious Indian Police Services after her marriage, though her husband is a normal shopkeeper. There may not be many cases of such shows but, there are shows which showcase strong women, and in BETTER positions than their husbands.

This issue runs across various realms, and is quite common and applies to both the "segments" . The small screen has also shown strong women in the shows, and also shown them as doormats. We can not generalize the case.I won't be able to think of a generalization here...

Nice post Abhay. You have put forward a completely balanced view. I agree with all your points completely.
male stereotyping is also done and in case of some shows it is far worser than female sterotyping.
Within our show ,I have no problem seeing a male as a protector of female if salim was shown to protect hb or if it is a drama of jo and ja together to make salim realize the necessity of warfare .In that case it would not have been stereotyping. But the pbm comes when a person as skilled as jo is shown to forget all her skills and made to look like she need the help of a kid to save her is stereotyping as there is a gradual shift in jo's character post sr. she is made to bear all insults of ruq ,apologize for no fault of her and all other you have mentioned as this in a way reflects our society's norm too. I agree in our generation in cities that's not the case but still there exists many woman who are highly skilled and educated and yet expected to stay within the confines of home to raise children and leave alone her own dreams after marriage .Here the only difference is it gradually happened after sr and finally came to it when she had a kid...This stereotyping is what I didn't like but agree with you we cannot generalize as there are shows which show women struggling to break this norms or succeed in it and how the male counterpart take her dream as his and help to achieve it.
Abhay I wanted to completely main a neutral stand but its increasingly becoming hard to maintain that when you see every action of jo is criticized and every fault of jalal is defended and worse still to see the support ruq gets and now its been reflected in the show too ,there is a gradual decrease in the significance of her stand .I wished they would find a balance and show a strong emperor and an equally strong and intelligent empress. But even yesterday there was announcement for jalal but nothing for jo. and in the tarazu the old jalal would have tried to see what jo is conveying and if there is any validity to it but the new jalal is only shown one emotion anger .He said he want her to be a muz to walk with him but recently cvs are only showing her walking behind him not par with him. Sorry for venting out .
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@Radhika,
Awesome post👏. Missed yours before posting.You have said all which I wished to say eloquently .
Edited by prav2 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
Regarding stereotypes...I put forth my views with the help of two quotes--😊


"When a man gives his opinion, he's a man. When a woman gives her opinion, she's a b**ch."

Wherever you find a great man, you will find a great mother or a great wife standing behind him -- or so they used to say. It would be interesting to know how many great women have had great fathers and husbands behind them.😕

The below is an occurrence which once happened in a female writer's life--

"A man once asked me ... how I managed in my books to write such natural conversation between men when they were by themselves. Was I, by any chance, a member of a large, mixed family with a lot of male friends? I replied that, on the contrary, I was an only child and had practically never seen or spoken to any men of my own age till I was about twenty-five. "Well," said the man, "I shouldn't have expected a woman (meaning me) to have been able to make it so convincing." I replied that I had coped with this difficult problem by making my men talk, as far as possible, like ordinary human beings. This aspect of the matter seemed to surprise the other speaker; he said no more, but took it away to chew it over. One of these days it may quite likely occur to him that women, as well as men, when left to themselves, talk very much like human beings also."

She further says that --

"In reaction against the age-old slogan, "woman is the weaker vessel," or the still more offensive, "woman is a divine creature," we have, I think, allowed ourselves to drift into asserting that "a woman is as good as a man," without always pausing to think what exactly we mean by that. What, I feel, we ought to mean is something so obvious that it is apt to escape attention altogether, viz: (...) that a woman is just as much an ordinary human being as a man, with the same individual preferences, and with just as much right to the tastes and preferences of an individual. What is repugnant to every human being is to be reckoned always as a member of a class and not as an individual person."

I would just like to say one thing...

At the end of the day,how much ever might have the rules and the notions must have been interpreted wrong by the people,the stereotyping still EXISTS.Perhaps being educated, some people do believe that women must have an equal status with men in ALL aspects,but I don't see that the words being in IMPLEMENTATION.
There are still the if's and but's,though we claim ourselves to be MODERN and put forth the arguement that all are equal,it is pathetic that NOBODY is able to put that into practice...(I don't deny that some are there who give FREEDOM...but for me the change must be brought in a broader sense...)

One must not forget that women are nowhere less than men in any aspect...In JA show, Jalal once admits that he had never seen a strong woman like Jodha, who has the strength to take forward,both the Mughal and Rajvanshi tehzeeb on her shoulder...I bet that it would not be a cakewalk for men in that position😉

On a final note my message would be--

Instead of being presented with stereotypes by age, sex, color, class, or religion, people must try to know that within each range, some people are loathsome and some are delightful.


Edited by lasyap3 - 10 years ago

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