Five points to ponder - Page 4

Originally posted by: rima4ever

u have brought out jalal's inner turmoil and condition so well

Originally posted by: rima4ever

a tsunami or tornedo has hit their lives
surely there will be some destruction
but soon there will be new beginnings

Originally posted by: rima4ever

he has become an empty shell now
his heart has become stone
it will take some time for him to change again

Originally posted by: Nilarani

😆And I know your liking for 'like' ...used to wonder how you observe all those details..😆.just did it.

Originally posted by: divyavm

Gem... so nice to hear from you

Yes, Jalal has made a mistake ... but right now he is in a state of nothing ... he has nothing in him but bitterness and hatred ... towards God, everyone, including Jodha- and yes it is immensely painful to watch

But, I will say this, if there is Love for Jalal it will only be in the form of Jodha ... and till he does not have God and Jodha back in his life ... as soon as he discovers God and Love again, there is no where he will turn but Jodha

Originally posted by: soumyamurali

Hi Divya! this is soumya. am an old reader in this forum. I usually read all the threads most of the times, I read them n enjoy. but this time most of the posts r criticizing jalal way too much which I didn't like it. 😭 I really don't understand why always he has to prove his love for jodha. He always clearly says that for him his heart means JODHA ONLY JODHA.

Welcome officially to the forum and for sharing your POV

when comes to the point of loosing faith in god, jodha has started tht first after Hassan's death. till now she also didn't make her peace with god. then why r we criticizing him only???? After Hasan's death, when he is consoling her, he clearly says tht aap ki yakeen hamari jindagi ki buniyaad hai hame kamjor mat hone deejiye. for him she is the emotional anchor. when even his own mother asks him to share his grief with her, he is not ready for that. he can't do tht with anyone. when she came to him on tht fateful night, he is really grateful for tht, we can feel his grief, anguish, love, passion what ever he has for her...

You know .. I always felt God was the Divine connect between them ... and that is why in the soul talk when Jodha said the bond between us was gone ... it really resonated

But in the morning when ruqs starts blaming jodha, he is looking at jo only. she never stops ruqs. jodha also starts thinking like tht. she blames herself for this tragedy. During the rain when he asks her, she never contradicts him. she simply stays silent. Her silence confirms his understanding of her. If she is also not thinking along those lines, she definitely tries to manofy him She is not tht kind of a girl who sits idle n watch when he is hurting himself. This is all my POV

Exactly ... Jodha is not feeling guilty because Jalal blamed her ... it was always in her heart

when some one says tht jo is baby producing machine for him, I feel OH! REALLY!!!😡 Even after their love confession n sr also he never forces her r compels her r even touches her without her consent. how come we think like tht Its ridiculous n an insult to his love. For him she is everything he can be himself with her without any hesitation. He always craves for her love. He always wants to be the focal point of her universe. He is possessive of her love

Yes it does hurt to see their love insulted that way

He also lost his children. He is also suffering a lot. we should give him some leeway. When Hasan died, her pain hurt him more that loosing his son even though he also lost his son.. that's his love for her. to reduce her pain n give her happiness, he goes all the way to request ruq for Hussain. He even almost begs her... that is his love for jodha. for her he can simply do anything. He is most selfless when comes to his love for her. Let us appreciate that.

I know ... one moment of anger in pain cannot erase all his love from before
Thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts

Originally posted by: Gem12

Divi i never suspected his love..he loved only jodha...and infuture too its only jodha..but he has made a mistake and they should show him repenting..i am angry on him and hurt that he blamed her..lets see how they il show him repenting..and i dont mind if he shows rukku her place or not..coz i hv sidelined her..wo kya punish karega..il just skip her scenes..if they show him coming back to jo after jo preg news then it looks pathetic..i want him to repent before that ..other wise its an insult to thr love and to jodha..

Originally posted by: divyavm

Itihaas gawaa hai that he will always repent ...

that being said, if he comes back to Jodha on the pregnancy news ... not because she is pregnant... because it reinstates his believe that God just does not only steal from him, wouldn't that also be okay?