Originally posted by: impiya
This is what I want to say also, Very beautifully written..๐
If u love me, does it automatically gives u right to hurt me, bcoz by hurting me, u are hurting urself too? And I should not protest or get angry with u, neither should I demand any explanation, Instead I should try to heal u bcoz afterall u r hurt too. This is what Ekta and Cvs are trying to shove into our throat- and I am finding it hard to digest.
Jalal can blame Jo because he loves her, Ruqu can blame her and get away with it, as she loves Jalal who in turn loves her. Jo is putting up with everything, And she is an ideal bahu, so everyone else should follow her and do the same too!!! Wah... Going by this logic, we are all free to release our frustration on everybody we love. I wish Cvs give very stern massage against it at the end of the track.
you have very rightly said that Jalal's love and temper can not be any excuse, and there is nothing romantic about his behavior. And yes, I am very surprised that she is not thinking of committing suicide.
This is a love story and we all know that they are going to be together at the end, that happens in every love story but all of them don't touch our heart naa.. we can't relate to all love stories equally... this love story looks like irrelevant to me now. May b in the next track, we will see Sharif kidnapping Jodha, and Jalal saving her risking his life and all of us will clap for him and say.. How much he loves her!! and she is so lucky to have him.. but these small pricks gonna be there to trouble me.
Pia, right - these pinpricks will still be there even after the leads get together quite easily. ๐
They have shown us that the couple stood by each other in most extreme circumstances before, and now they are giving us this๐ก- any normal couple who have minimum love and respect for each other, would have been together in this condition, but our ideal couple is doing exactly opposite, they are not only drifting apart but actually one is blaming another and withdrawing himself from her.
It looks like Jodha is completely sidelined as of now in Agra, Ruqaiya very publicly accused her of killing both the kids, Jalal didn't say anything, and now he himself avoiding her, so her honor and position in Harem must be at all time low. Many must be thinking Jo surely would have done something wrong, where the reality is Jodha is the one who is least responsible for death of the kids among her, Ruq and Jalal.
Pia, you have raised a valid point here that I missed. The way Jalal and Ruq are acusing Jodha of killing the babies and ignoring her and questioning her 'iraade" for "nekness", definitely the harem-wasis might be thinking that Jodha really is to blame for the twins' demise. ๐ Will Jalal clear the misconception later when he gets back with Jodha?
He never cleared the air about Jodha's innocence in the murty kand, except to say that he didn't think Jodha could do it.