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Posted: 11 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: preetgurti

Tammy you are the ambassador of JA Story
u never mu both of them put them equally love them equally if needed the things u don't like about the two u put in and I love u for this

But today I went through alot
Sad seeing akdha
upset with jalal
feeling bad for jodha
hated ruq
clap for salima
loved Jodha support to jalal for not leaving him during this time

and felt goosebumps seeing last scene and ishq hai woh ehsaas this happened when I first time heard this music

Then I came to forum and lost my faith in love story then I read your post I felt diff

now I am in such a mood thay I don't wanna think anything
all feels moving but still not moving
I feel jodha akbar getting out of my hand jitna I am trying to hold
I am deleting forum account today but will be in fb I want tp cut of all ja related stuff will see when I come back

Preet come here let me hug u🤗
relax dear...this is the way of CVs to revive the love story...and I see many potentials in this!
just keep watching sweetie..start afresh...and watch it with new zeal..I am sure u'll enjoy it.

thank u for ur words...and pls dont leave the forum..we all need u..we all love u❤️
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Posted: 11 years ago
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both JJ r going through the same pain & both r trying to find the way to deal with it. jalal deliberately wants jodha to stay away from him & thts why harsh words were necessary. but jodha very well knows why he said it & thts why she is still in agra. if we remember during atifa track she had warned jalal tht if he doesnt change his behaviour she will leave agra. why??? bcoz she believed tht jalal no more loves her. but this time she knows tht jalal actually didnt meant wht he said. jodha understood jalal's condition, just like jalal understood jodha's condition after hassan's death. he fears tht if he stays close to jodha & if she again delivers, the same thing will repeat. he is hurting himself by hurting jodha bcoz jodha's pain always bothers him & still he gets hurt when jodha is in pain but he is controlling himself. he wants jodha to hate him, his words were totally deliberate so tht jodha doesnt come near to him. both r in equal pain but both doesnt know how to share each other's pain & this feeling is making their condition more worse.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: tamy267

awww so much praises! thank u so much Shreya...I find u a neutral member too! u openly declared u r a Jalal fan but u always maintained the honesty.
be what u r! I love ur posts coz it is always full with logic and no faltu ka blame game⭐️😊


Tamy, you said it right. Shreya openly says she's Rajat fan but she always tries to understand both Jodha & Jalal & her posts are always based on logic.😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: MaddyO



Tamy, I did not think he blamed HIS love - I feel he blamed Jodha.
If he did not blame her he would have said OUR love caused Hussain's death NOT does she feels guilty? He should have said OUR love caused Hussain's death and like HIM does she also feel guilty? Then it would have been about BOTH of them being guilty.

SHE went to him and HE shut her out.

As for tilak I feel just like the first time she did it he was taunting her then, here he is taunting her again showing he does not care WHAT SHE THINKS ABOUT THIS WAR

I am not denying his love for Jodha - I am not liking HIS LAYING ALL BLAME on Jodha NOT accepting HIS PART in it. So this is cowardly not to accept his own responsibility in this. When tough times came he put blame on her cos he could not face the pain.

Yes they voiceover said 3 years and this war happened 67-68 so 3 years leap took place, so they showed Jalal remained in anger blame Jodha mode for 3 years

try to understand his mindset Maddy...I will tell u the same which I wrote to Gem.
dont we lash out our parents and loved ones when we r angry? does that mean we dont love them? Jalal is lashing out to everyone he loves..Jodha tops the list coz she is his love..the one person he loves the most...he is in terrible pain..and do u feel he is happy whatever he is today? no not at all..but that is helping him distracting himself..the mere sight of Jodha makes him weak..and reminds him his love for her and the lose of child..he is equating child loss with his love...according to him mohabbat brings dard so he is running away from mohabbat..coz he simply cannot take more pain at this stage.
put urself in his shoes and try to understand the context in which those harsh words were said..he is also very much guilty...u know Jalal na? did he ever blame anyone when he is equally a part of it? never...in fact jab usska koi haath bhi nahi rehta phir bhi he blames himself..so pls usse waqt do.
agar Jalal ke pyaar pe yakeen hai toh usspe bhi thoda aitbar rakho.😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: chandgothia

I totally agree with u...I even had the same feeling wen ishq hain woh ahesas played...dat same current...

thank u so much😊
it seems everyone felt the current😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: AbHer_neha


Tamy, you said it right. Shreya openly says she's Rajat fan but she always tries to understand both Jodha & Jalal & her posts are always based on logic.😊


itni tareef mat karo yaar. main bhi bohut kuch bolti hoon.😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: tamy267

real Akbar? Gem this is Ekta ka Akbar😆
and this separation is brought to make th war look interesting so that the show can pull TRPs...coz war tracks r mostly avoided by aunties...hence this revival of love story along with the war.

try to understand his mindset...u r talking about harsh words? dont we all yell at our parents/loved ones when we r angry? does that mean we dont love them? is Jalal seeing any other lady? no naa? then how come the epic love has ended?
Jalal is keeping his distance from Jodha..coz according to him she is his love..and love brings pain..and he is in such a state cannot take more pain...Jodha's sight makes him weak.
hence went back to his heartless-self thinking no one could give him pain now.
whatever he told Jodha, those words equally hurt him...try to put urself in his shoes..u r watching it as an audience but he is experiencing that thing.
words can hurt someone but u must consider the situation.

its not time to be angry but supporting them.



tamy he cud hv said that thr love made them lose thr kids...but instead he put all blame on jodha..as if she forced him to spend night with her..as if she wanted to be cosy with her..whom to support..a man who failed as a lover husband and a father and a king and as a human..over all he failed as a human.. it takes a min for jo to give him back..that since she is married to him she lost her kids..she lost her kids coz of his enemies..she lost his kids coz of thr grand father and father deeds..isnt maham cursed jalal coz he killed her son..wen she lost her kids still she is in agra to support him..this is called unconditional love...chahe tufan bi ajaye wo kabi sath na chode..jodha humesha jalal ka saat diya..uski har dard aur ghum ko mita di..badle main kya mila khud ki bacho ki kaatil...aur jalal ek halka sa hawa kya ajata jodha ka saat chod kar baag jata...

ise epic love kehte hai..to muje epic love nahi dikraha..sirf aur sirf dhoka dikaye rerahi hai
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Posted: 11 years ago
#68
Tamy, tell me this if Jo blamed Jalal saying it's because if you that MA gave our children badua, would we still have been that accepting ... No na , see I get Jalal's pain, and also that he wasn't blaming her, he was seeking affirmation that she doesn't think he blames her...but how was Jo to understand this, and see after sometime logic and good sense prevails, but three years is a long time to move on, teen Saal mein toh dushman bhi dost banjate hain, so how can he not see her suffering and longing for him for so long
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ILTHBEB

so tamy, largely u r wanting to say its Jalal's own manner to show his grief giving pain Jodha. then do u not think its very much selfish act of Jalal? for venting own frustration, own agony he has chosen jodha as his forefront. as like as his peculiar initiative to assassinate innocent ppl in war b/c the fact is his innocent kids have been assassinated. Then i would like to say Jalal yet doesn't get what he is basically to jodha. He yet didn't understand his ignorance at the time of atifa track was killed jodha thousand times. even his ignorance would have been reached her to the edge of death( this incidence should must be known to ja) frankly, i don't think if jo today attempts to suicide or does suicide it won't make any contrasting in ja's mind.

Anyways, your imagination about ja's mind is appreciated but i can't help myself.

Nabiii agar Jodha ko bura lagta toh woh Agra chodhke kabki jaa chuki hoti..she has self-respect..she didnt go and very much trying to bring Jalal back...coz she understands him...she understands where he is coming from..she is his soul-mate and I am proud that she didnt MU him but chose to be on his side when he needs her the most...👏👏 when Jodha was shattered Jalal was her rock and now Jalal is shattered and this is his way to mourn, Jodha is with him...he feels guilty too..he is at terrible pain..he also understands Jodha's pain...and that is why he is distancing himself from her and everything he loves..for him loves gives pain and he cant afford to have more.
he is thinking being heartless will give him peace..he is wrong in that..but he is not in state to understand morals.
of course no one can justify the innocent people killing..but Chittor War happened in history and CVs killing two birds with one stone...giving us love revival track along with the war..this will pull TRPs.
try to understand Jalal's mindset..I know u r a Jodha lover...but understanding the same Jodha's Jalal will make u feel good.😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: tamy267

try to understand his mindset Maddy...I will tell u the same which I wrote to Gem.
dont we lash out our parents and loved ones when we r angry? does that mean we dont love them? Jalal is lashing out to everyone he loves..Jodha tops the list coz she is his love..the one person he loves the most...he is in terrible pain..and do u feel he is happy whatever he is today? no not at all..but that is helping him distracting himself..the mere sight of Jodha makes him weak..and reminds him his love for her and the lose of child..he is equating child loss with his love...according to him mohabbat brings dard so he is running away from mohabbat..coz he simply cannot take more pain at this stage.
put urself in his shoes and try to understand the context in which those harsh words were said..he is also very much guilty...u know Jalal na? did he ever blame anyone when he is equally a part of it? never...in fact jab usska koi haath bhi nahi rehta phir bhi he blames himself..so pls usse waqt do.
agar Jalal ke pyaar pe yakeen hai toh usspe bhi thoda aitbar rakho.😊



Tamy, muze CVs pe koi aitbaar nahi hai. Tuzpe pura aitbaar hai!

If you say so I will believe, I never doubted Jalal's love, what angered me was his letting Jodha take all blame and shutting her out. She is the one left feeling all guilt.

If they had showed this for short time would not have felt this bad, they said 3 years which is horrible

How much pain Jodha has undergone for him also, she drank poison for him, he even threw her out - so has she gone thru less pain?

I understand he is hurting badly but for that to blame her is wounding her more. Somehow the dialogues were not apt and they were callous.

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