Mohabbat aur Dard - Page 5

Originally posted by: MaddyO

Tamy, thank you for a very different positive take on the episode.

I was shocked - I feel I need to say why here and for you to write your pov

I absolutely 100% understand his anger, his pain and his losing belief on the Almighty.

I could understand BOTH of them blamed the night of love - cos they were not there when Hussain needed them. All this is understood.

Jodha blames herself and even Jalal would have felt guilty but I felt Jalal blamed Jodha - he in his rage very conveniently laid ALL blame on her.

When Jodha out of concern went to him telling him he will get sick - what he said to her "he asked Jodha if he should blame her cos he had asked her to go to Hussain and when she did not deny he let her take the blame saying she is not denying and he wounded her heart - when she followed him he closed the curtain on her face

What about the fact that HE let his cousins in that laid to the murders?
What about HIS security was pathetic?
What about Ruk - who in her greed and hatred for Jodha led Zeenat right to the twins giving her easy access to murder them?

Why ONLY Jodha is left with the blame and guilt?

Why could Jalal not say that does she ALSO blame herself like HE blames himself for not being there for Hussain? That he feels guilty and wants the distance cos he cannot bring himself to feel this vulnerable again?

He wounded Jodha today, if he is hurting does not mean he laid all blame on Jodha

She followed him he closed the curtains on her, she did pranam and he ignored her. Why ONLY Jodha is left with the blame when HE an RUK go without taking any blame.

Let us not talk about Ruk cos she has no guilt shame or responsibility. It took SB to remind her.

They showed 3 years have passed so FOR 3 years Jalal remained distant from Jodha blaming her?

Why they could not give us a voiceover saying this created a distance which took time to heal but they lost 2 more kids in 3 years and this turned Jalal more bitter and in rage he announced the war and Jodha opposed him.

I have no issued about his rage, his war, Jodha opposing war

I feel very hurt and in pain cos HE PUT ALL BLAME ON JODHA without accepting that after he told her to go to Hussain he also said all those things to her that he felt sukoon his pain went away then he seduced her? So why LEAVE ONLY HER WITH THE BLAME?

I find Jalal is not taking responsibility for HIS own part in this and it is cowardly to leave her with the blame and pain.

Originally posted by: chennaigirl

I agree with whatever you have written. .but while showing important historical facts like chitoor acquisition the time line is wrong...have they comfortably forgotten the other babies just to show love story again...This is wrong..and unacceptable..normal people who watch JA will take this by face value and it's not right. .

I have no issues with watching the ruthlessness but twisting important history is un acceptable. .

Originally posted by: tamy267

awww Maddy I completely understand what u r trying to say.

even I was taken aback for a while when he blamed her...but later I understood him..

he didnt blame her actually...he blamed his love...and his love is Jodha..he is distancing himself from her coz that will make him weak like before and he equates this to losing his child..he is equally in pain..do u think he is happy what he is today? he is happy blaming her?? he is also very much in guilt...if he is seeing her in pain that is also killing him within..he is just not showing it..but his actions speak for him...if he put the whole blame on Jodha then he would have never asked her to do the tilak...Jodha has been doing it so he will never allow anyone do it..hence the snubbing on Ruqaiyya...he still has the belief in her tilak, in her pooja...nothing has died in him..the trust, love, respect, admiration r still there..but at this moment he is feeling dejected and this is his way to mourn.

lets give him some time...lets give them some time...even Jodha too understood it so did HB...u remember once Salima said when Jalal is in deep pain he claims to be heartless? this is the stage now.

the longing is still there from both sides.

accha ek baat batao, did VO say 3 yrs have passed? around 1566/67 Fatima born na? then it is high time to her come in the picture..aur haan after Chittor War they might visit Salim Chishti Dargah...I guess we will get this too.

filhal iss waqt lets stand by them..the pained parents...and trust me whatever is happening in our show is very much real..it happens in reality.

Originally posted by: AbHer_neha

Tamy my dear, I want to give u a tight hug for this post🤗...beautifully written.👏👏👏 I agree with each word of urs. Jalal's reaction was not only due to the death of his kids but he has reached a point where he can't take any more pain. His childhood has been bitter. He started believing in love after Jodha came in his life. His loved ones cheated him - Sharif, Nigar, MahaC, MA, Kasim. Many times he told Jodha that why she gave him dil. Now when he has accepted the existence of his dil, he feels all emotions. Sometimes when u do good to others & get pain in return, u begin to think that its easy & better to be evil than good. when his kids came into his life, he thought life is beautiful & full of joy . But when they also left him he began to think that his heart is the reason of all the pains he has been getting. So he's trying to be heartless now so that he shouldn't feel any emotion.

Jodha's pain is also deep. Ruq blamed her. She herself blamed her and when Jalal asked the same thing her guilt & self-blame strengthened. She tried to become strong this time & support Jalal in the same way as Jalal became her strength when Hasan died. But here Jalal is so shattered that he doesn't want to take her help to overcome his sorrow. He is so scared that he doesn't want to love anymore. I m proud of my Jodha.👏 Sh's very strong. And remember the tag line of this show. Jodha's love will again bring Jalal back to normal.😳

Originally posted by: tamy267

awww Maddy I completely understand what u r trying to say.

even I was taken aback for a while when he blamed her...but later I understood him..

he didnt blame her actually...he blamed his love...and his love is Jodha..he is distancing himself from her coz that will make him weak like before and he equates this to losing his child..he is equally in pain..do u think he is happy what he is today? he is happy blaming her?? he is also very much in guilt...if he is seeing her in pain that is also killing him within..he is just not showing it..but his actions speak for him...if he put the whole blame on Jodha then he would have never asked her to do the tilak...Jodha has been doing it so he will never allow anyone do it..hence the snubbing on Ruqaiyya...he still has the belief in her tilak, in her pooja...nothing has died in him..the trust, love, respect, admiration r still there..but at this moment he is feeling dejected and this is his way to mourn.

lets give him some time...lets give them some time...even Jodha too understood it so did HB...u remember once Salima said when Jalal is in deep pain he claims to be heartless? this is the stage now.

the longing is still there from both sides.

accha ek baat batao, did VO say 3 yrs have passed? around 1566/67 Fatima born na? then it is high time to her come in the picture..aur haan after Chittor War they might visit Salim Chishti Dargah...I guess we will get this too.

filhal iss waqt lets stand by them..the pained parents...and trust me whatever is happening in our show is very much real..it happens in reality.

Originally posted by: tamy267

itni tareef! main toh hawa mein flying😉😆

thank u so much dear.🤗

Originally posted by: tamy267

thank u so much Neha...hugging back to u🤗

u said it beautifully...bang on!! and I am happy that u understood the mindset of Jalal.⭐️

lovely post...

its a way of CVs to revive the love story...unlike many I am loving it dont know why!😳

Originally posted by: Gem12

Tamy real akbar never blamed muz...

he was in pain agreed..but he asked humne kaha ta hussain paas jane ke liye aap nahi gayi..batayiye kya hum apko kya saza de.. jo stood shocked and remained silent..he then took her slience as her aknowlegment and seperated her infact throwed her out of his life...

wat ever u said is right..correct..but akbar zubaan pe vahi ata hai jo dil main hota hai..isi liye usne aisa kiya..gusse main aur dard main aksar insaan such bolta hai jo apna mann main soch ta hai..

kya jodha ek antaryami jo use pata chalegi ki uski bache ko zeher denge..jab ki jalal ko pata ta ki hassan ki death natural nahi ta..phir bi usne romance karne pe busy ta..ab bolo galti kiski hai...