Three years have passed - JA distance grows - Page 11

Originally posted by: elasingh

Mishthi plz understand that I am not really blaming him ...but i feel sad for his behavior ...yaar woh hero hai hamara lekin jo ka kya?

Originally posted by: Rashmi81

Ela,

This is all " ulta".

Everybody was saying Ruku was distanced but here it is Jo.

And then after twins death they had a daughter and son died so if he had distanced himself from her then how come babies were born ?

Originally posted by: munnirony

the blame thing is simply complicated. he isnt blaming jodha, he is actually blaming the love. in a way he was blaming himself for to be in love. he didnt shifted the blame to jodha, he deliberately detached himself from her bcoz he feels if he will be close to her he will again loose sumthing. he wants jodha to hate him. he wants evryone to hate him. he had cut all his ties from evryone. yup he is wrong definitely & we had always seen whenever he is wrong he always pays the price. but is he happy??? no. is he leading a gud life???? no. he is actually hurting himself by hurting jodha, bcoz they r one. this is again a fight b/w heart & mind. im not defending him neither im saying he is right, im just trying to portray his way of thinking right now. he knows he is wrong, but he deliberately wants to be wrong to challenge god. he thinks tht despite he had done gud things like abolishing tirthkar or jagiya then also he lost his kids, so now he wants to see wht more can happen if he is bad. in a way he fears tht he will loose tht person whom he loves. so it was deliberate so tht jodha stays away from him. this is actually his reverse love which is really complicated & as they say we hurt tht person the most whom we love the most.

Originally posted by: elasingh

Adi what a beautiful explaination you have given and I am touched too...not just by ur explaination but the way your personality comes out in ur post...OK Adi may be he is distancing himself for her sake...I guess they need to realise that koi guilt koi aulad koi khushi and koi dukh unke rishte se uper nahi hai...This is the lesson they need to learn...😭😭

Originally posted by: chocobrownies

Hi ela, I was bit disappointed by Jalal'sactions towards Jodha.. Why he needs to blame themselves and creating guilty mode where Jodha already sailing in guilt feeling which was brewing inside her.. I could get Jalal's extreme emotional turmoil which can't even be paid over anymore but why no one consider Jodha's feelings as losted mother for two kids.. How she could have been passed all those days? Yes I could feel their love in last scene where Jalal's eyes expressed much visible... Ignoring, accepting, denying all this emotions will bring them a new revolution in their status.. It was very obvious to know that no body can heal or fill up Jodha's place in Jalal heart.. Right now he was failed to see his life but soon SB is on wat it seems.. Onlything did Jalal ignores Rukaiya in this way..? Loved SB perfect speech in punching back Ruku.. Again cv's failed to show a motherly emotions from a real mother but from a biological mother? Again Jalal back to cruel mode? Separation or leap between them?

Originally posted by: elasingh

shreya I understand what you are trying to say...But now I want both of them to realise that no child and no grief and no happiness is above their love...Nothing can break their love...this seperation will make them realise each other's worth but the thing is it is too long...Will both of them be willing to start afresh? Jalal decided to stay away from Jo but will Jo decide to be with Jallu again after three years?

Originally posted by: adiana12

Again let me say what I said yesterday - If Akbar was becoming heartless then he would have revoked all the reform measures he had passed - yet he did none of that - all he was becoming was ruthless towards the traitors to his empire and to those who were giving them sanctuary - and he was back to expanding his empire and building his empire - on the surface it seems he was being heartless but he was only sending the msg that he could be ruthless with those who revolted and benevolent with those who were loyal - lets not forget that his loyalists - TM, MS, BM, BB are all around him and with him - becoz even in his ruthlessness he did not become a tyrant to his Awaam

Originally posted by: munnirony

yup. his heartlessness was just for his enemies. unfortunately, CVs will never show chittor destruction from his point of view. but expanding the kingdom was a common trait of a king & even gr8 indian kings had also done the same. jalal just tried to capture chittor & other things were not in his hands. the war was aggressive bcoz neither jalal wanted to leave his ground nor the rajvanshis.

Originally posted by: adiana12

Ela, it is Jodha who blamed herself and distanced herself and all Akbar did was to find out what she felt and her thinking - and once he knew she was blaming herself for spending the night with him, his self blame increased to blaming his loving and his dil - and the fact that his having felt love was taking all he loved away from him added to his self blame - and so he distanced himself from his love and from everyone else as well