Who has gained and who has lost? - Page 5

Originally posted by: divyavm

Oh come now ... I thought SRK would cheer you up
As SRK would say "Picture abhi baakhi hain mere dost" 😳

Originally posted by: divyavm

Jodha never abandoned her child ... she thought it would be in the family and in front of her eyes at least

Originally posted by: Sandhya.A

I too disagree with Ruqaiya's intentions of asking for the child for the sake of a title.

That is the thing right Sandhya ... for some intentions are all that matter ... not the results / impact and that is why there is no redemption for Ruquiya

But after being granted the farmaan, i have never found her actions evil or unworthy though they are not noble.

"After that" ... is the key word ... but not everyone can filter what she has done before ... for many, Ruquaiyya is at the point of no return

Even today she was just clinging to her last straws not insulting bharmal and co. If title was all she wanted she would have illtreated the baby in private, she would have killed jodha during delivery and blamed the storm.

Completely agree ... she has not ill-treated the child at all... but some people are just looking at her title obsession which is a valid perspective

She has seen jalal moreattached to ma than hb. That is why she didn't want jo as Hussein' s dai ma. It was her bad luck that the dai ma she engaged that too with the permission of everyone ( even jo persuaded zeenat to stay) turned out to be a killer. If jo cannot be blamed for the death of the Mughal soldiers whom Khaibar killed then Ruqaiya also cannot be blamed for the death of the children.

Yes, it is her bad luck ... but again, it is Jodha's intentions that do not get her under the same scanner

The forum is most inconsiderate and prejudiced to Ruqaiya and they blame ruq for being prejudiced and unjust to jo.😆

It is also a different decision framework ... I think a few of us understand what is driving Ruq's actions and insecurities ... but for others it is intentions that matter

Originally posted by: AbHer_neha

How I missed liking ur post...I always hit like first then comment...koi nai ab kar diya...thanks for the link yaar I'll surely check it.😳

Originally posted by: hemakeerti

Who gained and who lost..

CVs gained TRPs..

We lost our sanity..

Originally posted by: ngayou

Ummm, am lost completely 😲 ...by all the 'negativity' in the place over my Ruqqu 😒 ... 😉

Koyi nayi baat batao 😆 But glad you are standing by your Ruqqyu

Good ghazal, Divs . Good points u ve given to ponder on , but what to do, love doesn't come made to order. One gains it whether deserving or not while another might not through no fault of their own or not, that s the vagaries of love, & this polygamous setup really shows the unfairness of love to all those harem women 😕 .

I hope you understand I am not criticizing Ruq's ... I actually sympathize with her ... she is driven by insecurity ... she is stuck in a vicious cycle now that she has not support system to get out of ... she trusts no one ... so I was being equally philosophical 😆

Sorry for sounding philosophical, but me in sadma for my Ruqqu 😭 (arrey, she s mine still bcos technically she hasn't done any major crime as yet, except for being her usual rude self 😆

Well for some - separating a baby from her mother for a title is a crime

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Originally posted by: Sandhya.A

All the forum negativity has made me co-adopt her with you till she commits a serious crime.😆

As i said in my previous comment

I too disagree with Ruqaiya's intentions of asking for the child for the sake of a title.But after being granted the farmaan, i have never found her actions evil or unworthy though they are not noble. Even today she was just clinging to her last straws not insulting bharmal and co. If title was all she wanted she would have illtreated the baby in private, she would have killed jodha during delivery and blamed the storm. She has seen jalal moreattached to ma than hb. That is why she didn't want jo as Hussein' s dai ma. It was her bad luck that the dai ma she engaged that too with the permission of everyone ( even jo persuaded zeenat to stay) turned out to be a killer. If jo cannot be blamed for the death of the Mughal soldiers whom Khaibar killed then Ruqaiya also cannot be blamed for the death of the children.

The forum is most inconsiderate and prejudiced to Ruqaiya and they blame ruq for being prejudiced and unjust to jo.😆

Originally posted by: rima4ever

yes she has not harmed hussain yet

Originally posted by: ngayou

Yes, Sandhya, our poor Ruqqu 😭 . At last we ve to be there to support her till she blunders her way into some silliness which costs her her Jalal distancing himself from her

Originally posted by: ngayou

Agree, Rima, she s been a good but a possessive mother to Hussain till now! That's why I said she hasnt done anything wrong technically