Who has gained and who has lost? - Page 3

Originally posted by: divyavm

Thanks again 😳

Originally posted by: divyavm

Absolutely agree ... I actually feel terribly bad for Ruquaiyya ... and disagree with all the posts that say she is the "jaan begum" of the CVs ... she is poised to lose everything ... and screen space does not mean anything

She is going to lose it all ... and in such a horrible way

And yes, the second one is very lucky to have a rock solid shoulder to lean on

Originally posted by: Sandhya.A

I too disagree with Ruqaiya's intentions of asking for the child for the sake of a title.But after being granted the farmaan, i have never found her actions evil or unworthy though they are not noble. Even today she was just clinging to her last straws not insulting bharmal and co. If title was all she wanted she would have illtreated the baby in private, she would have killed jodha during delivery and blamed the storm. She has seen jalal moreattached to ma than hb. That is why she didn't want jo as Hussein' s dai ma. It was her bad luck that the dai ma she engaged that too with the permission of everyone ( even jo persuaded zeenat to stay) turned out to be a killer. If jo cannot be blamed for the death of the Mughal soldiers whom Khaibar killed then Ruqaiya also cannot be blamed for the death of the children.

The forum is most inconsiderate and prejudiced to Ruqaiya and they blame ruq for being prejudiced and unjust to jo.😆

Originally posted by: divyavm

Thank you Neha! (Do you mind hitting a "like" 😉... sorry am aadat se majboor 😆 I have bugged everyone so need to bug you)

I love Jagjit Singh ghazals ... so much so this is my third post dedicated to him ... one from earlier this week

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/jodha-akbar/4186611/a-prayer-for-the-future

And a take 5 dedicated to him: https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/jodha-akbar/4146669/take-5-top-5-countdown-for-august-28th-2014

Check it out - thought you might like them 😳

Originally posted by: ngayou

Ummm, am lost completely 😲 ...by all the 'negativity' in the place over my Ruqqu 😒 ... 😉

Good ghazal, Divs . Good points u ve given to ponder on , but what to do, love doesn't come made to order. One gains it whether deserving or not while another might not through no fault of their own or not, that s the vagaries of love, & this polygamous setup really shows the unfairness of love to all those harem women 😕 . Sorry for sounding philosophical, but me in sadma for my Ruqqu 😭 (arrey, she s mine still bcos technically she hasn't done any major crime as yet, except for being her usual rude self 😆 )

Originally posted by: Sandhya.A

All the forum negativity has made me co-adopt her with you till she commits a serious crime.😆

As i said in my previous comment

I too disagree with Ruqaiya's intentions of asking for the child for the sake of a title.But after being granted the farmaan, i have never found her actions evil or unworthy though they are not noble. Even today she was just clinging to her last straws not insulting bharmal and co. If title was all she wanted she would have illtreated the baby in private, she would have killed jodha during delivery and blamed the storm. She has seen jalal moreattached to ma than hb. That is why she didn't want jo as Hussein' s dai ma. It was her bad luck that the dai ma she engaged that too with the permission of everyone ( even jo persuaded zeenat to stay) turned out to be a killer. If jo cannot be blamed for the death of the Mughal soldiers whom Khaibar killed then Ruqaiya also cannot be blamed for the death of the children.

The forum is most inconsiderate and prejudiced to Ruqaiya and they blame ruq for being prejudiced and unjust to jo.😆

Originally posted by: ngayou

Ummm, am lost completely 😲 ...by all the 'negativity' in the place over my Ruqqu 😒 ... 😉

Good ghazal, Divs . Good points u ve given to ponder on , but what to do, love doesn't come made to order. One gains it whether deserving or not while another might not through no fault of their own or not, that s the vagaries of love, & this polygamous setup really shows the unfairness of love to all those harem women 😕 . Sorry for sounding philosophical, but me in sadma for my Ruqqu 😭 (arrey, she s mine still bcos technically she hasn't done any major crime as yet, except for being her usual rude self 😆 )