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Posted: 11 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Sandhya.A


<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">All the forum negativity has made me co-adopt her with you till she commits a serious crime.😆</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">As i said in my previous comment</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I too disagree with Ruqaiya's intentions of asking for the child for the sake of a title.But after being granted the farmaan, i have never found her actions evil or unworthy though they are not noble. Even today she was just clinging to her last straws not insulting bharmal and co. If title was all she wanted she would have illtreated the baby in private, she would have killed jodha during delivery and blamed the storm. She has seen jalal moreattached to ma than hb. That is why she didn't want jo as Hussein' s dai ma. It was her bad luck that the dai ma she engaged that too with the permission of everyone ( even jo persuaded zeenat to stay) turned out to be a killer. If jo cannot be blamed for the death of the Mughal soldiers whom Khaibar killed then Ruqaiya also cannot be blamed for the death of the children. </font>
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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">The forum is most inconsiderate and prejudiced to Ruqaiya and they blame ruq for being prejudiced and unjust to jo.😆</font>







Yes, Sandhya, our poor Ruqqu 😭 . At last we ve to be there to support her till she blunders her way into some silliness which costs her her Jalal distancing himself from her
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: rima4ever


yes she has not harmed hussain yet



Agree, Rima, she s been a good but a possessive mother to Hussain till now! That's why I said she hasnt done anything wrong technically
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Posted: 11 years ago
#33
As jahnu has said
Gain-ek and company
Loss-sanity of sane people. ,so much that we are still watching this nonsense 😆
Wonderful ghazal by one and only jagjit 👏
How can we express ourself without him , I also feel bad for rukku ,even though she dominated jalal but I think jalal gave her that delusion because he always did what he wanted to do ,for me she is renu for jalal ,you know what I mean divi ,as always valued their friendship but only problem was she was married to him too so when he found his love she turned upside down ,after this her life is going to be more miserable . Jodha has what no one has in that whole harem ,golden heart of jalal ,his support through thick and thin,his UNCONDITIONAL love ,he will make sure that she will get through this tough times .
So 1st is rukku
2jodha
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: ngayou



Agree, Rima, she s been a good but a possessive mother to Hussain till now! That's why I said she hasnt done anything wrong technically

she was already possessive of her things which are dear to her ,and I guess when you adopt kid ,u have that though that you are not biological mother becomes more complicated
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Posted: 11 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: rima4ever


yes they really suffered that loss
but in truth she was not a mother who abandoned her child
kunti had done that in mahabharat
and we all know what had happened there
even karna had sort of rejected her later



Jodha never abandoned her child ... she thought it would be in the family and in front of her eyes at least
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Posted: 11 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: rima4ever


no i loved the OSO reference
but i was too sad for jalal yesterday



Oh come now ... I thought SRK would cheer you up
As SRK would say "Picture abhi baakhi hain mere dost" 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: meenakaliswaran

hi,

First thanks for ur PM, wonderful writing and song,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8O39LjtDS0Y
can u hear this song i feel ja sing for jo .
what a love for his wife see
kathu pattalay karayatho karpuram
karaethu en manasu unala
pls some one write for me i can continue
thank for a wonder full post real words can't me described



Thanks!

Beautiful song - you always introduce me to songs that I do not know well in Tamil... so Thank You!

I am not good enough to translate in tamil ... so I will not.

By the way, Sandhya mentioned a beautiful Tamil song for this situation "Nilave Mugum Kaatu" from Ejamaan ... where Rajni consoles Meena on the loss of their child ... it is perfect for this situation as well:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WucVPeLaWbY

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Posted: 11 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: ngayou



Agree, Rima, she s been a good but a possessive mother to Hussain till now! That's why I said she hasnt done anything wrong technically


yes but people are just attacking her
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Posted: 11 years ago
#39
All credits to Sandhya A. for this ... but there is a beautiful song from Yajaman ... Nilave Mugamkattu ... similar situation ... a husband consoling his wife who lost a child ... and that too knowing she could never become a mother again ... he loved her so much

This is the youtube link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WucVPeLaWbY

Translations from Sandhya A. - she posted this in my last thread - but I do not think many folks saw it:

Nilavae Mugam Kaatu Ennai Paarthu Oli Veesu
Alai Pol Sruthi Meetu Inithaana Mozhi Paesu
Ilam Poonkodiyae.. Ithu Thaai Madiyae

Hey moon, show me your face and shine at me
With the music of the waters, speak your sweet words
Young tendril, this is also a mother's lap...

Kaalam Maarum Kalakkam Eanamma
Iravillamal Pagalum Aethamma
Naanum Pillaithaan Amma
Times will change, why do you worry
Without nights how can there be days
Till then I am your child...

Naanum Kanda Kanavau Nooraiyaa
Enathu Thaayum Neengal Thaanaiyaa
Ini Un Thunai Naan Aiyaa

I saw a hundred dreams
You are indeed a mother to me
And I am your support always

Imai Neerum Kannin Neer ndraal
Dhinam Thudipavan Naanae

Maaman Thlil aaintha Mullaiyae
Mayangi Mayangi Paesum Killaiyae
Nee n Vaazhvin llaiyae
Ithai Meeriya Thavam Illaiyae
Ini ntha Kuraiyum Illaiaye
Dhinam Theerum Theerum Thollaiyae

If tears cross your lashes, I will be the one who suffers

You are like the flowers that have taken my refuge Your words are very sweet You are the limits of my life There is no sacredness more than this togetherness
There is nothing to feel low for now
Sorrows will fade away in the course of time


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Posted: 11 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: al_pal

she was already possessive of her things which are dear to her ,and I guess when you adopt kid ,u have that though that you are not biological mother becomes more complicated


yes things do get complicated then

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