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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: PadBear

and Rashmi, Jalal is also a person who celebrates life. He lives life to the fullest possible. And all this talk of dying for a vachan goes over his head. So he decided to walk away. And even with Ruqs, he values her life with him all these years and respects her loyalty and companionship and there must be a deep bond there whatever we may say seeing two faced Ruqs. So he hasn't changed his behaviour towards her and is hoping against hope that somehow he won't have to confront her about his children one day. He doesn't want to give up on her unless he is forced to. For that, he has to wait and let circumstances play out. Is there some other way he can be teda here?

so true , for jodha every thing ends with giving but u have said it so well about life in ur response to rashmi
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi Pallavi, did you post your comments about the epi in back pages? I have to look then.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: divyavm



Javeda was always endearing to me ... especially when she set out to save Jalal's life
Javeda- MA has been good off late

pure heart indeed but what ever said inher craziness was always true
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Posted: 11 years ago
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here is nothing wrong in giving ur child to childless women only catch is mother has to be content after that , no guilt feeling . Plight of childless women in our society is really cringeworthy . And here jodha really thinking from all aspect , from women side , from motherless women , her husbands honor , his other relationship , she has big responsibility and jodha is not loosing any thing more so she is gaining a lot in process , only thing killing audience is that rukku's intention


okay you have expressed what I am thinking better Pals. Jo's thinking can't be faulted here I don't think...except that phir yeh toh santan hai line. It's the santan and JJ's santan specifically that Ruqs wants.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: PadBear

Hi Pallavi, did you post your comments about the epi in back pages? I have to look then.

yes mam I did , please let me know . But today what jodha did as wife in polygamy set up and as queen is correct in my book and jalal who alway look greater picture , today also he was looking in future and his fears about rukku being good mother and how that kid is going to react is also correct .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: PadBear

here is nothing wrong in giving ur child to childless women only catch is mother has to be content after that , no guilt feeling . Plight of childless women in our society is really cringeworthy . And here jodha really thinking from all aspect , from women side , from motherless women , her husbands honor , his other relationship , she has big responsibility and jodha is not loosing any thing more so she is gaining a lot in process , only thing killing audience is that rukku's intention


okay you have expressed what I am thinking better Pals. Jo's thinking can't be faulted here I don't think...except that phir yeh toh santan hai line. It's the santan and JJ's santan specifically that Ruqs wants.

I really don't go by her dialogues ,there is no reason to put hum rajvanshi aurate in every thing ,women with good heart and virtue will be doing same thing wihatever the cast or creed .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: PadBear

here is nothing wrong in giving ur child to childless women only catch is mother has to be content after that , no guilt feeling . Plight of childless women in our society is really cringeworthy . And here jodha really thinking from all aspect , from women side , from motherless women , her husbands honor , his other relationship , she has big responsibility and jodha is not loosing any thing more so she is gaining a lot in process , only thing killing audience is that rukku's intention


okay you have expressed what I am thinking better Pals. Jo's thinking can't be faulted here I don't think...except that phir yeh toh santan hai line. It's the santan and JJ's santan specifically that Ruqs wants.



Beautifully said .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: al_pal

I really don't go by her dialogues ,there is no reason to put hum rajvanshi aurate in every thing ,women with good heart and virtue will be doing same thing wihatever the cast or creed .


hahahaha now i agree totally here. I don't go by what she says either. 😆 A lot of her dialogues are said in parrot fashion like it's her duty to ay those things. Unfortunately the writers don't allow her to express virtue and goodness in a way that's heart warming. They make her every line sound like she's getting ready to go to a maidan e jung.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: PadBear


The Salima Factor made you post ? I don't know how you manage this while traveling. So 10 likes from me for time and effort. 😆

The Javeda Factor was also nice. Here is the sunshine of Agra. The free spirit. MA says Bewakoofi but what she means is that Innocence that enables Javeda to be herself in all situations.


The Jodha Factor was very clear cut for Jo and I suppose next to Javeda, the next best attempt to be true to self. I don't like tarazus being used for family relationships, balancing two courses of action, but today Jodha was balancing a double portion of blessing against emptiness. It's a no brainer and a person who has been blessed has to share the abundance with others. It's another matter that a child has no say in its early and crucial years, but that was the prevailing culture then in royal circles. Royal children are often the most restricted and regimented and shunted from one parent to another guardian for various reasons.



The Jalal Factor was thinking from a child's point of view. Jalal knows first hand about having no parents close at hand. He knows what that can do. But Jodha argues that these children will be very close and they will be together. He cannot and he should not cite Ruq's motives yet because he can't base his decisions on some fear. He feels Ruqs isn't capable of being the mother he wants her to be, but he cannot voice that until it's too late. That's why he's taking a step back and not even making his argument personal. He's just talking in general terms about children with step-parents. Let's hope he's spared the anguish of finding out he's right and Ruqs does something well before the birth and gets exposed.


The Hamida Factor is the one that the episode starts with. She states that Ruqs is Ruqs and she has known her since childhood. Love and sympathy is one thing but people can't give in to her all the time and that's final.


Neat post Padbear .
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Posted: 11 years ago
#90

Originally posted by: PadBear


hahahaha now i agree totally here. I don't go by what she says either. 😆 A lot of her dialogues are said in parrot fashion like it's her duty to ay those things. Unfortunately the writers don't allow her to express virtue and goodness in a way that's heart warming. They make her every line sound like she's getting ready to go to a maidan e jung.

😆 Meri dil ki baat aap jaane

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