Downfall of SD, Updt on BB Pg 9, Abhay Updt Pg 18-DT NT Pg21&31 - Page 3

Originally posted by: tamy267

Radhika read your post finally...loved every bit of it!🤗

u know Radhika, I personally hold BB responsible for all this happening to her..it is her own fault, her own invited trouble...tell me who is she? she is a Shehzadi, her brother is the Shehenshah, her father was a Shehenshah...is she weak from any angle? NO, not at all!

but this girl chooses to be weak and halat ki maari, pati ke jurm ka shikar! utter nonsense! I actually dont feel pity on such type of girls who dont feel to help themselves rather choose to be manhandled for the sake of remaining married...for BB staying married is more important than emerging as stronger and revealing her husband's truth to others...

tell me, Sharifuddin ki aukat kya hai usske samne??? just one complaint to Jalal, Sharif will lick her feet..!! she can do it anytime...but this stupid lady hides the violence and chooses to keep mum!

regarding the baby, she was scared given Sharif's rage...but had she been acted stronger since before, this situation would have never come.

I am glad that now everything will be out...I was fed up.

Originally posted by: JAfanCharu

Awesome post Radhika .

I would like to share my views about Bakshi Bano's mindset and her behavior . I would also like to emphasize on the fact I am not sympathizing with Bakshi's state of affairs or with the blunder that she has committed . I am only analyzing her mindset . The readers are free to agree or disagree . Each one has their own thinking that should be respected .

Bakshi Bano was a widow who was married by Sharifuddin at Jalal's insistence . Jalal's intentions behind this union was a good one . He wanted Bakshi to be happy since she had seen a lot of grief being widowed so early in life .

Both Jalal and Bakshi had no clue about Sharifuddin's actual personality . This rat had his own agenda set , in wanting to marry Bakshi . Marrying Jalal's sister had its pluses . 1) Wealth , power and position in the Mughal court . 2) Misusing the same position to gather inside information to plot against Jalal and 3) Easier access to Jodha for ogling at and flirting with her .

Having been widowed so early in life , Bakshi thinks that Sharifuddin has given her a new lease in life . She is ready to go to any extent to please him . One can recall the incident where she was instrumental in giving the "potion" to Jodha that made her appear pregnant , at the insistence of her husband . The rogue Sharifuddin used her as a puppet to get his job done . One may wonder as to why Bakshi played along with him .

A weak traumatized mind oftentimes says and does things that can cause grief to the own self and to others . A weak person can be easily bullied and made to travel the wrong path and can become victims of circumstances themselves . This is exactly the case of Bakshi Bano .

She was pardoned by the kindhearted Jodha , who also informed the royal family about her pregnancy and convinced Jalal to bring her out of isolation . She also convinced Jalal to pardon SD since it would be most necessary for him to spend time with his pregnant wife . Jalal obliged , Sharifuddin found this as an opportunity to ogle at Jodha . One call recall the scene when he was leching at Jodha in the swimming pool playing with little Rahim , Bakshi catches him redhanded .

How did Bakshi react towards Sharifuddin's behavior ? She did tell him that it was inappropriate , she faced physical abuse for pointing it out . She was fearful to show anymore verbal defiance , so became resentful towards the subject of SD's attentions , namely Jodha . Instead of even attempting to point out his mistakes she directs her anger at the unsuspecting Jodha . She already has a meek and docile personality . Added to this , feelings of inferiority have settled in , causing her to be jealous towards Jodha . Bakshi is not a bad person . She does not hate Jodha . It was the very same Bakshi who came running from prison to pray for Jodha , when she was lying unconscious as a result of the poison . Being fearful , anxiety ridden , getting abused and tolerating it has become part of her personality . She does not have the courage to stand up against the abuser .

This part of her persona is exactly the reason for her lying about the gender of her baby . It was not intentional or pre-planned . She was petrified of SD's reaction to siring a baby girl , she said the first thing that came to mind without thinking of its consequences .

It makes me wonder how she , who couldn't defend herself , defend a baby girl that her monster husband was dead against having . Her motherly instincts made her choose the first thought that came to mind which sadly backfired in the worst way possible . In today's episode , she even tearfully acknowledges that she was scared of SD's reaction to the birth of a girl and that is why she lied .

A fearful and stressed mind does not think clearly or rationally .

One may ask why she did not confide in HB, SB or even Jalal . Again , she desperately wanted only her husband's affections not any other family members' . She did not want to expose SD , for fear of being alienated by him . Her lying and getting caught clearly signify her cry for help . All of her fears , insecurities and the beast SD's impossible behavior will come out in the open . Both Jodha and Salima Begum will provide Bakshi with the emotional strength that she desperately needs .

This segment of JA is not just focussing on justice for the girl child , but also brings to light the plight of emotionally, verbally and physically abused women throughout the world . No woman should put up with any form of abuse is what we need to learn .

Originally posted by: JAfanCharu

Awesome post Radhika .

I would like to share my views about Bakshi Bano's mindset and her behavior . I would also like to emphasize on the fact I am not sympathizing with Bakshi's state of affairs or with the blunder that she has committed . I am only analyzing her mindset . The readers are free to agree or disagree . Each one has their own thinking that should be respected .

Bakshi Bano was a widow who was married by Sharifuddin at Jalal's insistence . Jalal's intentions behind this union was a good one . He wanted Bakshi to be happy since she had seen a lot of grief being widowed so early in life .

Both Jalal and Bakshi had no clue about Sharifuddin's actual personality . This rat had his own agenda set , in wanting to marry Bakshi . Marrying Jalal's sister had its pluses . 1) Wealth , power and position in the Mughal court . 2) Misusing the same position to gather inside information to plot against Jalal and 3) Easier access to Jodha for ogling at and flirting with her .

Having been widowed so early in life , Bakshi thinks that Sharifuddin has given her a new lease in life . She is ready to go to any extent to please him . One can recall the incident where she was instrumental in giving the "potion" to Jodha that made her appear pregnant , at the insistence of her husband . The rogue Sharifuddin used her as a puppet to get his job done . One may wonder as to why Bakshi played along with him .

A weak traumatized mind oftentimes says and does things that can cause grief to the own self and to others . A weak person can be easily bullied and made to travel the wrong path and can become victims of circumstances themselves . This is exactly the case of Bakshi Bano .

She was pardoned by the kindhearted Jodha , who also informed the royal family about her pregnancy and convinced Jalal to bring her out of isolation . She also convinced Jalal to pardon SD since it would be most necessary for him to spend time with his pregnant wife . Jalal obliged , Sharifuddin found this as an opportunity to ogle at Jodha . One call recall the scene when he was leching at Jodha in the swimming pool playing with little Rahim , Bakshi catches him redhanded .

How did Bakshi react towards Sharifuddin's behavior ? She did tell him that it was inappropriate , she faced physical abuse for pointing it out . She was fearful to show anymore verbal defiance , so became resentful towards the subject of SD's attentions , namely Jodha . Instead of even attempting to point out his mistakes she directs her anger at the unsuspecting Jodha . She already has a meek and docile personality . Added to this , feelings of inferiority have settled in , causing her to be jealous towards Jodha . Bakshi is not a bad person . She does not hate Jodha . It was the very same Bakshi who came running from prison to pray for Jodha , when she was lying unconscious as a result of the poison . It is only the resentment towards the attention that SD is showing Jodha , that forces her not to cast her vote for Jodha , during the harem elections . Being fearful , anxiety ridden , getting abused and tolerating it has become part of her personality . She does not have the courage to stand up against the abuser .

This part of her persona is exactly the reason for her lying about the gender of her baby . It was not intentional or pre-planned . She was petrified of SD's reaction to siring a baby girl , she said the first thing that came to mind without thinking of its consequences .

It makes me wonder how she , who couldn't defend herself , defend a baby girl that her monster husband was dead against having . Her motherly instincts made her choose the first thought that came to mind which sadly backfired in the worst way possible . In today's episode , she even tearfully acknowledges that she was scared of SD's reaction to the birth of a girl and that is why she lied .

A fearful and stressed mind does not think clearly or rationally . It only panics .

One may ask why she did not confide in HB, SB or even Jalal . Again , she desperately wanted only her husband's affections not any other family members' . She did not want to expose SD , for fear of being alienated by him . Her lying and getting caught clearly signify her cry for help . All of her fears , insecurities and the beast SD's impossible behavior will come out in the open . Both Jodha and Salima Begum will provide Bakshi with the emotional strength that she desperately needs .

This segment of JA is not just focussing on justice for the girl child , but also brings to light the plight of emotionally, verbally and physically abused women throughout the world . No woman should put up with any form of abuse is what we need to learn .

Originally posted by: al_pal

👏 there is no need to say any thing else , you have written every aspect of it . Great effort to write down and think in every dimension and aspect of this issue , we can't just dismiss bb , we need to understand her mind set also, when we do that then only we can help such victims .

Originally posted by: SindhuMenon

awesome post Charu..

@bold: totally agree. I am Glad Ekta is trying to show this through JA and some of us are really appreciating this.