why....??

Why does Jalal always understands his mistakes his faults and his misleadings when he is betrayed or his trust is broken and he is hurt?

Why does he always finds it difficult to see the truth?

Why he always trusts those who are of no good to him neither anyone else nor themselves?

Why does he always recognizes Jodha's love when he loses her?

Why does it always has to be a serious pain or shock to poor Jodha to make him understand and serve him right for his deeds?

WHY?????????????????????????why