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Deepti1808

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: AntaresVega
Deepti di,
Pls. Read Abhay's JA not a fiction series. It just shows the importance Jodha had in Akbar's life. The story is not all fiction and Jodha being shown like heroine is not false. Most of these events were historically documented. I feel no pity for Ruq however. I really agree with your title but I really don't feel pity for Ruq. She deserves it. Her 'Audha' is what is important to her. She was never a wife to Jalal, she was only his queen.

I am not saying anything against Jodha. I know she is afterall MUZ so there had to be good relations between her and Akbar.

All I am saying is in the serial right from the beginning Ruq was shown having dominance over Jalal's affections (not I am not using the word Love) So from her POV it must be very difficult to accept that the man who claimed that he never had a heart is now head over heals with a woman who till yesterday did not spare him a thought.

I know her taking poison has changed the equation drastically. But Jalal has himself said albeit sarcastically that "Jodha is not special for him" so seeing this change in him must be hurting Ruq badly.

Till now Jalal has handled Ruq beautifully. He knows how to cater to her needs without making her feel neglected. So I hope he continues to do so. As a jealous Ruq can be dangerous

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Deepti1808

@Deepti1808

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: ..Tahniat..
One thing I felt while watching the episode is that thank God in our era a man has only one wife.. I mean how did they tolerate one another?? How did they share the same husband??

same pinch for having the same thought😆

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Tahniat Ahmad

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: nocry
thankx hun..
Our age is so possessive about their boyfriends/husbands that even when they praise or look at some other girl we protest..

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bokul

@bokul

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

well ruq also is very selfish at times

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sheetalsnow

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

i feel bad for the women in that era having to share the husband .ruq seeing her husband marrying ans sleeps around .and jodha inspite of knowing he has many wives and sleeps around she has to share .how do they live in that harem with women around

UOTE=Deepti1808]After watching today's episode I am so glad that monogamy is more prevalent in our era.

How in the name of God does a woman share her husband with someone else???

I felt terrible for Ruqquaiya. I know she has her faults and is far from perfect but she loves Jalal so much. No one can deny that. All her talk about her being able to rule Jalal mind as he has no heart is just that "talk".

We know from history that she was infact the chief consort of Akbar and the actual begam-e-khas.

Having had monopoly over Jalal right from childhood it must be heart breaking for her to see him drifting away from her.

I have nothing against Jodha. She is the heroine of the show ,afterall, it is after all Jodha-Akbar and not Ruq-Akbar. But GOD! my heart wept for Ruq, especially after the precap.

She was made to chose between her auda and Jalal. Jalal knows how much her position is dear to her. Was he hoping she would say NO. No my dear Jalal Ruq truly loves you more than her position.

I hope they do not ruin Ruq's character to elivate Jodha's and I hope Ruq somehow becomes a bit like Salima because right now there is no way she is going to just hand over Jalal to Jodha. I see her fighting tooth and nail over him.

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Deepti1808

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: AntaresVega
Perhaps I'm a little biased here. But I really love Akdha and their actual story. Gosh, it's like I'm hating Ruq the same way we used to get annoyed of Arpita's influence over Yash. Old PV days. by the way, do still write that ff?

That is the point Arpita was dead so it did not matter that Yash moved on.

Here Ruq is ever present and he is giving Jo the lovey dovey look, which I bet he never gave to Ruq. So it is inevitable that she would resent Jodha for taking what she believes was hers first.

And no I have given up on the FF

Thanks for asking though

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AntaresVega

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Posted: 11 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: Deepti1808

That is the point Arpita was dead so it did not matter that Yash moved on.

Here Ruq is ever present and he is giving Jo the lovey dovey look, which I bet he never gave to Ruq. So it is inevitable that she would resent Jodha for taking what she believes was hers first.

And no I have given up on the FF

Thanks for asking though

Child marriage sucks right?

Yes Ruq will feel that Jalal should rightfully belong to her. Jalal grows up and finds his love in someone else.

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makeveli_hush

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

Ok whilst watching this I was think my poor late father... so is this what he had to go through with all his many wives?😭

I never knew he was tormented this much...😆

Dang it's no wonder the poor bugger is dead...😭...all the fights and argument must have sent him to an early grave...😛

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stuti

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Posted: 11 years ago

#19

Honestly i feel nothing for ruku. She is an insolent wretch
Such a mannerless person...and being a begum she has to be prepared
For sharing her husband with many woman ..dats wat was prevlant then..
The way she was behaving wid jodha today. Gosh she is such a
Pathetic person...

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Deepti1808

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Posted: 11 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: stuti123
Honestly i feel nothing for ruku. She is an insolent wretch
Such a mannerless person...and being a begum she has to be prepared
For sharing her husband with many woman ..dats wat was prevlant then..
The way she was behaving wid jodha today. Gosh she is such a
Pathetic person...

You could only see her ill manners but the root cause for that was her terrible insecurity over losing Jalal to jo.
I could only pity her.