Jalal: is love enough?

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: Sandhya.A
Of course when you say you cannot live without another person doesn't mean that you are going to do jauhar or suicide if that person dies. Wordly responsibilities are not easy to shrug off... more so not for an emperor. He can't abandon his empire.
But it does happen that when someone you love dies a part of you dies as well. Their absence damages a part of you irreparably. That is the essence of those words.

As far as insults are concerned public and private insults wound the other person. Certainly the public ones hurt you more but certain humiliations however private eat you up from within

But we have had enough of both from both of them to each other. They have both shared enough experience and emotional extremes wrt to each other that it is time to move on. These experiences ought to cement their bond and trust respect and genuine care should rule their feelings to each other. The third was always there. But the first 2 have been the casualty of these experiences which is what they should aim to achieve.

When someone you love dies, a part of you dies as well...very true. It is obvious in Jalal's case today. I saw his statement that he will not be able to live without her as an equivalent to his confession of love... As there two takes on this... Is it love or guilt? To me, more love than guilt...so far.

Humiliation hurts ...especially when it comes from someone close to your heart. Public ones makes life more complicated as it exposes the sensitive issues between them to everyone around them. The enemies now know where to strike to further damage the relationship. We have seen MA and SD exploit this in the recent tracks.

Just makes me understand better what our elders always said... Do not take your issues outside the four walls of your bedroom( in their case, bedrooms).