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Love enhances who you are , it gives you moments of vulnerability and mellows you for the better. It doesn't turn you into a laundryman's donkey.
I understand that Jodha is vulnerable to Jalaal because she has fallen in love with him. But as far as i recall when Jodha was at the worst insanity of her 'ghrinaa' mode ( the sexual abuse accusation, the suicide attempt etc.) , Jalaal , even though knowing that she is his weakness, he handled and tackled her like a strict guardian and refused to put up with a lot of nonsense of hers. Meaning? Love opens new apertures to your personality - its doesn't give you a personality disorder.
Jodha seems to have become a Persian doormat. Anyone and everyone can just pass by and abuse her- and all she can manage is " Kya Mughalon mein apnee beghumon ko aise hi neecha dikhaate hainn?" ... What? Come again! ...Babe! You are being insulted because you are ALLOWING that insult to happen. You knew it two weeks ago that Jalaal will not believe you , you should have enough common sense by now that you will always be hated upon by most of Agra, so why do you play the dumb doll? Where is your self-respect? Your dignity? Instead of filling tanks of aansu , return to your chambers, disconnect yourself and wait for the chance to prove your point. Relationships require a shield of pride as well so that the other person knows that love includes respect as well. Where's that shield? Where is your Rajput blood?
Today was the limit ki limit. Ruqqu asking Jodha to vacate her khwaabgaah?... What the beep! Jodha is a CHIEF QUEEN, not a random beghum, and Ruqqu has no right to even raise her voice at Jodha , which happens in this show all the time. Jodha should have told her to get lost and spoken to Jalaal. And if Jalaal would have sided with Ruqqu, Jodha should have left Agra. If you treat yourself like an animal, everyone will.
I can excuse Jodha's vulnerability to Jalaal , for once, because love does make it impossible to whack the daylights out of your lover- human nature . But getting trashed by everyone? Jodha , you are a CHIEF QUEEN and no queen gets treated like that .
BTW, is Jalaal's dialogue writer on a vacation? Two weeks gone by and he still has not reached the next level of brainstorming after " aapko jalan ho rahee hai?"... The Jalaal we know would have cornered and confronted Jodha by now and gotten a 'hum aapse prem karte hainn' out of her.
What the beep has happened to my JJ?
