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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: disha15

all men are not that way guys.we have good and bad points in all types of men.


As I said to one of my good guy friends, who keeps telling me not to generalize..
Through years of mental and physical abuse, dowry system, Sati system, India consistently topping the chart of the most violence committed against women in the world lists, with the idea of stalking and eve teasing being romantic, victim blaming, s**t shaming- Indian women have gained a little bit of a right to generalize. 😉
Seriously though, I have grown up in an all male family. I have no sisters, none. I adore men. I do. But when at the end of the day, I still see the Nachni practice still alive and breathing in Purulia, where I went to talk to them and help out with a documentary, see the number of the women coming to report to police doubling, listen to the women from my own association about the horrific ways they were treated, I cannot help but being a little judgemental.
You won't believe how women live in some places in India, Disha. We are very, very lucky.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: disha15


oh we are paulo.lets face it.

add to it the arrange marriage system.

a dusky girl needs to have a post graduate degree or be extremely rich to be termed 'fit' to marry a fair learned guy. 😡 i mean what the!

dont get me wrong though.i myself would probably go for arranged marriage.Love come arranged 😳


I know the pains re! I am very very dark... I have been bullied or taunted all my life... for my dark skin...
I dont care anymore.😆
I love my skin color... its the best!🥳
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais


Yep, true.

Y'day I was at my neighbourhood chemist shop. This old lady stopped me & asked me which is better between Fair & lovely & some Garnier bright white cream. I kept staring at her. And then she started explaining, Stating she wants it for her grand-daughter & "Aap to dood jaise ho aur wo kaali to in mein se Kaun so acchi cream hain beta?"

Chemist : "Aunty jee kaali toh, Kaali Maata bhi hain"


Best reply to utter stupidity. 🤣



excellent reply indeed...everyone wants to give birth to a ashwariya or katrina ,nahi toh cream rub it till she becomes like one
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: disha15


i swear! 🥱


its forcefully thoppofied on us 😆

the oil thing i never understood. I mean,yes,we do apply oil. But once a week and then immediate shower. 😕 I dunno,i havent really seen that much of tamil nadu or kerala.but im sure,this oil thing really doesnt exist the way its been shown.andhra i have been to quite a few times. the oil funda is seriously just not done.

studies thing I agree 😆 its like an insult if u dont have 90% in ur boards here 😆


We apply tel too. ❤️ Oil-sisters. 😆 Bengalis are South Indians are quite alike.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Star_girl


As I said to one of my good guy friends, who keeps telling me not to generalize..
Through years of mental and physical abuse, dowry system, Sati system, India consistently topping the chart of the most violence committed against women in the world lists, with the idea of stalking and eve teasing being romantic, victim blaming, s**t shaming- Indian women have gained a little bit of a right to generalize. 😉
Seriously though, I have grown up in an all male family. I have no sisters, none. I adore men. I do. But when at the end of the day, I still see the Nachni practice still alive and breathing in Purulia, where I went to talk to them and help out with a documentary, see the number of the women coming to report to police doubling, listen to the women from my own association about the horrific ways they were treated, I cannot help but being a little judgemental.
You won't believe how women live in some places in India, Disha. We are very, very lucky.



Amen to the last bit, Annie.


And you're absolutely & completely right! I love you! 🤗
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais


Yep, true.

Y'day I was at my neighbourhood chemist shop. This old lady stopped me & asked me which is better between Fair & lovely & some Garnier bright white cream. I kept staring at her. And then she started explaining, Stating she wants it for her grand-daughter & "Aap to dood jaise ho aur wo kaali to in mein se Kaun so acchi cream hain beta?"

Chemist : "Aunty jee kaali toh, Kaali Maata bhi hain"


Best reply to utter stupidity. 🤣



🤣 so ironical isn't it? Indians really define hypocrisy in the truest sense.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: sun29


excellent reply indeed...everyone wants to give birth to a ashwariya or katrina ,nahi toh cream rub it till she becomes like one



I was totally disgusted. And she was over 55! Imagine the Kind of complex she has passed on to her grand daughter. 😡
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Star_girl


We apply tel too. ❤️ Oil-sisters. 😆 Bengalis are South Indians are quite alike.


Yes there are strikingly similar habits between the two.'😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Star_girl


As I said to one of my good guy friends, who keeps telling me not to generalize..
Through years of mental and physical abuse, dowry system, Sati system, India consistently topping the chart of the most violence committed against women in the world lists, with the idea of stalking and eve teasing being romantic, victim blaming, s**t shaming- Indian women have gained a little bit of a right to generalize. 😉
Seriously though, I have grown up in an all male family. I have no sisters, none. I adore men. I do. But when at the end of the day, I still see the Nachni practice still alive and breathing in Purulia, where I went to talk to them and help out with a documentary, see the number of the women coming to report to police doubling, listen to the women from my own association about the horrific ways they were treated, I cannot help but being a little judgemental.
You won't believe how women live in some places in India, Disha. We are very, very lucky.

Oh yes...OMG..
One month I decided to write something on class-discrimination, lives of Dalit women etc ...I became so depressed after reading the news reports (AND watching a few clips), I couldn't do anything else for a month!
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: poulomi12


I know the pains re! I am very very dark... I have been bullied or taunted all my life... for my dark skin...
I dont care anymore.😆
I love my skin color... its the best!🥳


Ask them to kill themselves. Sick people. Dark skin is a blessing. My family is utterly lovely in some ways. They have never implanted all these sick biases in us. Y U no tell me what you study Polo? 😭

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