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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Yukthi.

CE is the most recent example! 😕

eventhough I love DP...and the film too...the way the SI were made to speak in hindi...that accent...was just dumb and insulting! 😕

I know!!! It's really not funny anymore😵 Pepole have this preconceived notion about south-Indians and it's irritating🥱
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Star_girl


Ask them to kill themselves. Sick people. Dark skin is a blessing. My family is utterly lovely in some ways. They have never implanted all these sick biases in us. Y U no tell me what you study Polo? 😭

👏 I believe it too!

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: lashy

Deepika Padukone's accent in Chennai Express had NOTHING chennai about it -

Coming from a Chennai-ite!

ik di !
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Posted: 11 years ago

This is beyond sick. These people should be shot dead. I shudder to think what values she will pass on to her poor grand-daughter, who will grow up hating her skintone and feeling insecure. Disgusting. Okay, off to watch JA. 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Star_girl


You are too kind. ❤️ India is one of the worst places for women to live. The so-called violent countries are at least explicitly misogynistic. India boasts of progress, and has the deep misogynist trend running through it, affecting both the older and younger generation of men and women alike. 😭



Absolutely true. And it pops up in the most disturbing ways!


The other day this friend I was talking to was very naturally telling me about how his friend wants "a fair bride & is getting dowry worth 25 Lakhs"


I was shaking with so much anger , I banged the phone down on his face!! 😡

It is un-self consciousness of it all that scares & angers me the most. 😡
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Star_girl


As I said to one of my good guy friends, who keeps telling me not to generalize..
Through years of mental and physical abuse, dowry system, Sati system, India consistently topping the chart of the most violence committed against women in the world lists, with the idea of stalking and eve teasing being romantic, victim blaming, s**t shaming- Indian women have gained a little bit of a right to generalize. 😉
Seriously though, I have grown up in an all male family. I have no sisters, none. I adore men. I do. But when at the end of the day, I still see the Nachni practice still alive and breathing in Purulia, where I went to talk to them and help out with a documentary, see the number of the women coming to report to police doubling, listen to the women from my own association about the horrific ways they were treated, I cannot help but being a little judgemental.
You won't believe how women live in some places in India, Disha. We are very, very lucky.



This bit i have to agree with you Annie. But i was talking about the general mannerisms of men depending upon community.

I have been fortunately born to a very broad minded family! Seriously man,cant imagine the state of those men!
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: ann2012


🤣 so ironical isn't it? Indians really define hypocrisy in the truest sense.

Oh yes...why do you think Lord Krishna and Lord Ram are painted blue and green instead of a proper dark colour - the ones they SHOULD be...
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: lashy


You're lucky Annie...I'm very fair by Indian standards...
And this is a trait that's got me praise😕 in MY house and my husband's house...(even in my house there are still comparisons to this date - my dad and mom are darlings, but this comparison-aspect is something they've sadly inherited even though they only mean it in a light-hearted note!)

As for my husband's house -its a borderline obsession! In fact,in my husband's house I recd mass approval because of my looks/colour..they still talk and talk and talk about stories of grand-aunts and the sort in their family who were VERY VERY fair...
'I'm like yeah..even ghosts are very very fair!'



Not in my family at all!! But I relate to this a lot.

But he's. Outside, because I am pink white it gets me a lot of attention!!


It's disgusting.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: poulomi12

👏 I believe it too!

me too! 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: disha15


I beg to differ with you Paulo. Trust me,its just a section of people who talk in a certain way."peculiar" the way you call it. But its just not fair for people to stereotype it. Most people speak hindi very fluently here as well.Despite the fact that,hindi is not our mother tongue.thats commendable really.

the sad thing is only the "peculiar" population has been made famous. Add to it meenamma's BOKWAAS hindi in chennai express. I have never heard any south indian speak hindi that way 😕

I can speak very fluent hindi and in a non-peculiar way.And it used to annoy me when my north indian friends used to say "arre.tum itni achchi hindi kaise bol leti hoon?" And im like,dude!im an indian too u know!


You are taking it wrongly... see every regional tongue has a different tone, you ask a bengali speak hindi... it would be weird... because of the phonetics involved in the native tounge, same goes for Gujju, Punjabi, South Indians, other non-hindi speaking belts. I have visited South Many times, more than i went to trips in North, I have always found their hindi peculiar, just like some of the non-hindi speaking states... Its a matter of practice, before u get any language right. I still have trouble pronouncing Hindi words and getting them out in the right Phonetics.
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