FOOD FOR THOUGHT.....are we hypocrites??? - Page 8

aiyo...i hope these are all healthy debates😕

good post nushie 👏👏👏 sorry i am a tad late in responding, lekin repsond i will....

honestly, i think we are all a bit too critical in pointing out faults in those we dislike much quicker than those we like. I think one of the many reasons we always seem to find faults in SS faster than faults in Mona is because we wish to see MandA together instead of SandA. Its not to say that our words and what we say is justified, its not, but it is one of the reasons we do that. You've pointed out how Mona has so many faults, just like SS and im not denying it, but im saying that Mona's habitual tendensies are much more bearable than SS. Granted, SS is trying to save her marriage from lurkers (or so she believes) and does the who Chipku Act and she has a right too, but i mean you dont see Mona all over Apu. Actually, from the beginng i never believed that there was really MANDA i mean yes, on screen, their chemistry is amazing, but i dont tink it actually carried over to that extent off screen. They are amazing friends and mayb a little more, but not to the point where Apu woud be willing to compromise his marriage for Mona. And im glad for that, i dont think i wood like to see Apu as a man who cheated on his wife, no matter how she may be, she is still his wife. But back to you post, yes, both Mona and SS have faults and we always tend to see SS's problems and aadats more than Mona, and we also overlook alot of Mona's but i guess the main reason being we've carried over Mona's persona on screen to reality, when the reality is that shes very much different from who we believe (and wish) she is. I dont think SS is prettier than Mona, nor do i think Mona has a better figure than SS, both are respectable fine in their own ways and eventually it comes to who you can individually and personally tolerate, some can tolerate Mona more than SS or vice versa.........

fine, no one's going to agree and i'm tired(for a change 😆 )...but atleast people thougth about it....

Originally posted by: sweetsorrow18

aiyo...i hope these are all healthy debates😕

haila....so does that mean that malks, you, abs, piyu, ammu, moni, tiki etc etc are TEARING ME INTO SHREDS on msn😭..my msn got messed up and i have to reinstall it all over again🤢

good post nushie 👏👏👏 sorry i am a tad late in responding, lekin repsond i will....

honestly, i think we are all a bit too critical in pointing out faults in those we dislike much quicker than those we like. I think one of the many reasons we always seem to find faults in SS faster than faults in Mona is because we wish to see MandA together instead of SandA. Its not to say that our words and what we say is justified, its not, but it is one of the reasons we do that. You've pointed out how Mona has so many faults, just like SS and im not denying it, but im saying that Mona's habitual tendensies are much more bearable than SS. Granted, SS is trying to save her marriage from lurkers (or so she believes) and does the who Chipku Act and she has a right too, but i mean you dont see Mona all over Apu. Actually, from the beginng i never believed that there was really MANDA i mean yes, on screen, their chemistry is amazing, but i dont tink it actually carried over to that extent off screen. They are amazing friends and mayb a little more, but not to the point where Apu woud be willing to compromise his marriage for Mona. And im glad for that, i dont think i wood like to see Apu as a man who cheated on his wife, no matter how she may be, she is still his wife. But back to you post, yes, both Mona and SS have faults and we always tend to see SS's problems and aadats more than Mona, and we also overlook alot of Mona's but i guess the main reason being we've carried over Mona's persona on screen to reality, when the reality is that shes very much different from who we believe (and wish) she is. I dont think SS is prettier than Mona, nor do i think Mona has a better figure than SS, both are respectable fine in their own ways and eventually it comes to who you can individually and personally tolerate, some can tolerate Mona more than SS or vice versa.........

that's all i ', asking for.....all that i want everyone of us here to accept that we favour mona, but claim that we dont........that's it...i'm not asking anyone to like ss or dislike mona.....but atleast we must accept that we tend to favour mona more...

dont bash me on msn😭😭.

Originally posted by: priyaaa

i'm sorry..i just think it's really pathetic that we're taking
these actors' lives so seriously 😕

but then why do we hype them..make them demi-gods😕..defend them to death...they mean nothing to us...they dont even care about us.....so why is it that we make them god, respect them as much as we respect a great philosopher😕

why is it that we dont accept that they are, at the end of the day, human beings with FAULTS AND FLAWS AND ARE NOT PERFECT😕

BOTTOMLINE IS

• When we dont know even one of the three(namely MS, SS and AA) personally, why do we harbour double standards

• Why is it that everything one does is hated, but everything the other does is loved, even when the former is not completely wrong and the latter is not fully right????

• Why is it that we dont have a life😆and are arguing over people dont even know that we exist and all that they bother about is their moolah, their stomach, and thier fun 😕

Originally posted by: priyaaa

and why is it that you are arguing against me, yet proving my every point? 😕

ITS not only directed to you😕.....as i told JS earlier, we are replying to everyone, not a particular person😕...i never said you , priya made mona a demi god..but there are people here who have bestowed a mahaatma status on mona😕..when she's just human and commits mistakes and then does the damage control..but they dont accept that she can go wrong

your point is that we could care less about these people....i concur with you, i never argued with you there😕😕my point is that in that case, why do we defend them to life and get biased but fail to accept it😕