Why the hate for Sujata and love for Suman..

Firstly Suman has been provoking Sujata since day 1. She's been calling Sujata the dusri aurat since God knows when, and Atharva as najayaz. Sujata didn't hit back. Today Atharva was begging Suman to stay in the house, he was crying and saying sorry, still Suman was so cold hearted. She was calling him an infection, saying he has dirty blood, and of course her favourite word najayaz. And that is when Sujata flipped.

Sujata stated that Atharva is not najayaz, he is the eldest son of the house, at no point did she say Ravish was najayaz. It was a rebuttal simply to Suman saying Atharva was najayaz. I know that because Sujata said that she is the legal wife, and Suman is the other woman, that indirectly means Ravish is najayaz, but I genuinely don't think she meant it like that, she just meant her son is legitimate. Sujata isn't a saint, she can't watch someone constantly berate her and her son and stay silent and calm. Anyone would lash out at some point.

So lets swap the places. Imagine Sujata in Suman's place and vice versa, and Atharva in Ravish's and vice versa. If Ravish was mentally ill, and Sujata was that horrible to him, would Ravish fans be ok with it? Wouldn't you expect Suman to lash out? Or would you think it's ok for someone to treat her son like dirt and for her to stay silent? I genuinely think if the roles were reversed people would understand Sujata.

I've seen a lot of people saying how could Sujata indirectly say Ravish is najayaz. But what about Suman? Why is it ok for her to directly and constantly say Atharva is najayaz, and infection, bad blood etc? And when people thought Sujata was the dusri aurat, they hated her, but now it's confirmed Suman is the dusri aurat, but still they blame Sujata. I don't understand this.

Also why is society so backward. A child is termed najayaz. What is the fault of the child if his parents made a mistake? Atharva and Ravish are far more honourable than their whole family put together, yet society would frown upon them if they are najayaz.

In my honest opinion I only like Ravish from the Vashisht family. He doesn't care about titles, name, society etc. he cares about feelings and relationships. I always wonder how he turned out to be such a good human being, his father was a coward and didn't care about the two women in his life, and his dadaji is a spineless man who was happy to ruin RK, Suman and Sujata's lives. His mother also doesn't seem to care much about him, made him get married to a woman he hadn't met, just because her beloved RK said so, and is obsessed only with RK and her hatred for Sujata. And yet Ravish actually cares about people.

Let's just say you support Suman in the Sujata, Suman, RK love triangle, do you still think she is right in the things she says and the way she behaves, would you be that horrible to a mentally ill person? I can understand people sympathising with her in the love triangle, but I can't understand people condoning her behaviour.

Why this hypocrisy exist that one can call the other Dusri aurat and nazayaz beta when the matter if the fact is she is the one dusri aurat and her children are illegitimate...

Sujata did a great job by breaking her delusions and crushing her ego, it was clearly evident that even Dadaji as well as Ravish knew the truth. Thats altogether a different thing that Atharva and Sujata doesnt want this property n all for them but it very rightly belongs to them.

Atharva Sujata ia not and will not be dependent on Ravish and Vashishts anytime if he is in senses. I t was clearly told in earlier episodes tbat Ravish found them in hospital where Atharva was alive and Admitted.

Ao he for them to V house because Ramakant wanted to give rights to his wife and son.

Edit: Just seen the episode and I don't get why people are bad at Sujata for saying all that stuff. I mean if Suman thinks she can dish it out why can't Sujata?? Sujata has never said anything bad about the V family and is only staying there for her son. Don't say anything if you can't handle it and today Suman couldn't hear her truth/reality... Sujata was right to put Suman into place. I did feel sorry for Suman but whatever she said about Atharv was totally disgusting. But, two woman fighting over a coward to 100% wrong!!! Plus Suman tested out Sujata's patience and a person can only handle so much until they burst their anger.

Suman tested her patience a little too.much yesterday..

And i am glad the old sujatha is back.. atleast partially.