Didn't like SidNi !!!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think i would be the only one who didn't like yest SidNi scene in night for two reasons

Firstly Sid - I felt very bad for his condition but why is he still hiding when roshni herself asked him to tell so that she can help him...if he can share with yash ..why not roshni he should have at least told her that he can't share it with her right now or something as he knows that roshni got to know he is lying...😕but like all the time he didn't tell her🥱

Secondly roshni- Am very happy that she understood Sid's condition n asked him directly to share his problem...even though she was upset with him for his behaviour...but If she understood his situation ,what was the need to go to DD's room to sleep😲 its a normal hubby-wife fight there was no need to sleep separately that too in sep rooms😕I expected her to stop Sid when he asked her not to go out n sleep in room n he decided to sleep out...

P.S. it might be a weird n small thing to point out but these were the thoughts that came in mind while watching that scene.😆...or it can be my mistake that I didn't understand the meaning of that scene😆


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sometimes.. when some fights tax the brain, and mentally you are upset and exhausted, due to the fights etc.. You need some time away from your hubby/wife, to 'cool off' and get over the incident..
This in a way is healthy.. see, Roshni did cool off, when she asked him to say whats on his mind.. if he had said it, then it wld have been okay, and Roshni wld have slept in the same room with Sid!

But, since Sid didn't say it.. it rekindled the anger and upsetness again within Roshni, and so, she wanted to sleep separate!

What may seem normal 'miya-biwi (husband/wife)" fight.. but when real emotions are concerned between two people, and they are intense! Its more personal for them to deal with.. hence they react like that. :)

Edited by rouble_lover - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I'm glad Chandz you also pointed it out 😆 Thank god, I'm not the only one 🤣 Even I couldn't understand what was the point of sleeping in separate room. Small fights happens between hubby and wife but that doesn't mean you gotta sleep separately 😛 Even I was pissed at that. About Sid, the less said the better. Superman wants to save everyone's problem but not realizing he is making everything worse 😡
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: rouble_lover

Sometimes.. when some fights tax the brain, and mentally you are upset and exhausted, due to the fights etc.. You need some time away from your hubby/wife, to 'cool off' and get over the incident..

This in a way is healthy.. see, Roshni did cool off, when she asked him to say whats on his mind.. if he had said it, then it wld have been okay, and Roshni wld have slept in the same room with Sid!

But, since Sid didn't say it.. it rekindled the anger and upsetness again within Roshni, and so, she wanted to sleep separate!

What may seem normal 'miya-biwi (husband/wife)" fight.. but when real emotions are concerned between two people, and they are intense! Its more person for them to deal with.. hence they react like that. :)


Nice explanation 😊 You seem to have knowledge about relationships 😛
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: rouble_lover

Sometimes.. when some fights tax the brain, and mentally you are upset and exhausted, due to the fights etc.. You need some time away from your hubby/wife, to 'cool off' and get over the incident..

This in a way is healthy.. see, Roshni did cool off, when she asked him to say whats on his mind.. if he had said it, then it wld have been okay, and Roshni wld have slept in the same room with Sid!

But, since Sid didn't say it.. it rekindled the anger and upsetness again within Roshni, and so, she wanted to sleep separate!

What may seem normal 'miya-biwi (husband/wife)" fight.. but when real emotions are concerned between two people, and they are intense! Its more person for them to deal with.. hence they react like that. :)


I agree...I feel for Sid being alone it gave him more courage to sort things out. He had the "enough is enough" with a tone of fear. He might be as fearful now. I feel he might do his jasoosi and Roshni hers...

Sid's Jasoosi -- Who is the Joker and what he wants??

Roshni's Jasoosi -- What is going with my husband??
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree wid u chandu..idk..y they slpt seperstely..sid has to tell her d problem ..its a small fight bit still😕😕
Even j didn't like that
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ya, even I didn't like the scene😆 Mainly b'coz I don't understand Sid's logic🥱 Whether Roshni knows or he shares it with his parents or not there is a threat to his family.. There is more problem with this hiding.. I really dislike it aboutSid..
Coming to Roshni what I disliked was that after he shouting to Ayesha, she just left the room even when she know its not his normal behaviour.. Even after that during night she asked Sid abt the problem only when he initiated the talk asking sorry.. I would have preferred her going and talking first rather than getting ready to go to DD's room

Anyway, not a very big issue, still wasn't able to connect with yesterday scene🥱
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Okay guys.. think about it.. Have you guys ever been in love before? If you all are teens, then think about a parent or someone elderly whom u value, and used to being loved by and who always talks to you caringly and sweetly. Suddenly.. they get all mad at you, begin to shout at you.. when you do not know the reason, wouldn't u feel insulted? Hurt? Angry? Especially when you did not get a chance to throw your anger out to them at the moment that they were mad at you? Wouldn't u feel resentment towards them?
When it comes to emotions.. there is'nt any logical explanations for our behavior. We just act and react, without thinking.. you can say, our hormones takes over our head and we just react to it.

Think about where Roshni was coming from.. she JUST saw Sid's reactions.. without knowing the reasons.. She was upset that her mom had to feel humiliated in front of the clients.. so she got mad at him.. he was stressed out over all the incidences.. and her non stop questionings.. just made him feel sooo irritated.. that he threw his anger on her! and the Ayesha! (I did not blame him in here at all.. Roshni was being hella annoying )

But, later when he realized.. he came to apologize to her.. but since it wasn't sorted out for Roshni she was still mad at him for reacting that way, shouting at her.. she wanted to catchh a breathe.. she took it personally.. and thats whey she wanted to sleep separate. Its very normal thing to do.. especially when you feel intensely for someone.. the intense the love, the intense is the anger, and upsetness for them! :)

True.. we feel, it wld be easier for Sid to just tell Roshni what is going on.. and even i feel to an extent, he should at least, alert everyone.. but see.. then i thought about it, and felt.. he isn't saying because.. he himself doesn't know.. what this 'joker' is capable of. If he says it.. like he tried to, by going to the Police.. etc.. if someone else, in his family may have to pay for it.. he doesn't knonw. He is first wanting to learn what he can about this joker.. he is just trying to be careful.

He also doesn't want Roshni to panic. She sometimes can/does get immature.. and causes more holes for Sid to fill, than any other thing. Her investigating is dangerous! Like she said.. there is only Faith and Trust in their relationship.. right? So.. she shld just have faith and trust in Sid.. and know that.. he knows what he is doing..

Mind you also.. she was leaving the room to go sleep with DD, before Sid apologized. But, since he didn't say why he is being that way.. that gave more reason for her to continue being mad/upset.. so she went along with what she was doing.. going and sleeping with DD. But she slept in her room only, and Sid slept outside. because, that is what Roshni wanted.
Edited by rouble_lover - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: rouble_lover

Okay guys.. think about it.. Have you guys ever been in love before? If you all are teens, then think about a parent or someone elderly whom u value, and used to being loved by and who always talks to you caringly and sweetly. Suddenly.. they get all mad at you, begin to shout at you.. when you do not know the reason, wouldn't u feel insulted? Hurt? Angry? Especially when you did not get a chance to throw your anger out to them at the moment that they were mad at you? Wouldn't u feel resentment towards them?

When it comes to emotions.. there is'nt any logical explanations for our behavior. We just act and react, without thinking.. you can say, our hormones takes over our head and we just react to it.

Think about where Roshni was coming from.. she JUST saw Sid's reactions.. without knowing the reasons.. She was upset that her mom had to feel humiliated in front of the clients.. so she got mad at him.. he was stressed out over all the incidences.. and her non stop questionings.. just made him feel sooo irritated.. that he threw his anger on her! and the Ayesha! (I did not blame him in here at all.. Roshni was being hella annoying )

But, later when he realized.. he came to apologize to her.. but since it wasn't sorted out for Roshni she was still mad at him for reacting that way, shouting at her.. she wanted to catchh a breathe.. she took it personally.. and thats whey she wanted to sleep separate. Its very normal thing to do.. especially when you feel intensely for someone.. the intense the love, the intense is the anger, and upsetness for them! :)

True.. we feel, it wld be easier for Sid to just tell Roshni what is going on.. and even i feel to an extent, he should at least, alert everyone.. but see.. then i thought about it, and felt.. he isn't saying because.. he himself doesn't know.. what this 'joker' is capable of. If he says it.. like he tried to, by going to the Police.. etc.. if someone else, in his family may have to pay for it.. he doesn't knonw. He is first wanting to learn what he can about this joker.. he is just trying to be careful.

He also doesn't want Roshni to panic. She sometimes can/does get immature.. and causes more holes for Sid to fill, than any other thing. Her investigating is dangerous! Like she said.. there is only Faith and Trust in their relationship.. right? So.. she shld just have faith and trust in Sid.. and know that.. he knows what he is doing..

Mind you also.. she was leaving the room to go sleep with DD, before Sid apologized. But, since he didn't say why he is being that way.. that gave more reason for her to continue being mad/upset.. so she went along with what she was doing.. going and sleeping with DD. But she slept in her room only, and Sid slept outside. because, that is what Roshni wanted.


Ha ha .. love how u logically explain things😳 And ya, as an outsider it is easy to say what we are saying as Sid or Roshni they r justified in what they r doing to an extent😛
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree chandz... i was not really happy with SidNi...mostly with Sid 😆 The reasons you pointed out for him, i feel the same - when Yash pushed him he spilled out his secret but when Roshni asked him so many times he still didn't.

Like yesterday was a first scene where Roshni did not get upset over the fact that Sid shouted at her but infact was upset coz he wasn't sharing.
Trust me if were in her place i would have left the room too in anger and sadness that even after pleading him to say the truth he just lied to her face. He deserved to have had slept alone 😛

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