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durga, 😃
never did bother me the non religious nature of our wedding. i just wanted to be with him, bas. actually i am hugely in favour of a secular marriage which is considered legally binding. not a great one for accepted modes of practically anything... that's me. born weird. but i know somewhere though jacob never ever brought it up... because he doesn't need it, but he would be delighted if there were open acceptance by his community. and yes, ma in law.
so i was happy.
my own aunts are forever telling me now i am jewish without realising how silly and erroneous that is. i am hindu. bas. that is all there is to it. in fact, being married to a jewish person made me examine my own sense of self, who i am, etc.,... and open minded as i am, individualistic as i am in the matter of my spirituality, i realised i was essentially hindu.
i used to be rather childish about most things, i still am about many things... but this decision to be with the one i felt something for has sure taught me some stuff... and it has always been interesting. essentially because my old man is kind of weird too. 😆
achcha about khushi ji, i am only mad at her because she really upset my poor asr that night, what a thing to say. and he, mad and angry, actually said what made sense. the kkg's of our duniya need to grow up a bit maybe. if you love a guy and live with him, and call yourself his patni, and pull janmashtami jhoola with him (which is imp to your heart), and if you are legally married to him as he claimed... then surely you can't say oh but we are not married properly. this insistence on rituals both asr and i are ahem nahiiin with. if rituals are that important, say so up front, do not flutter eyelash and act coy and say who speaks to one's patni like that.
but since i like asr lau kkg, i will phorgiviya, that trp and sp and ph... now thats' another matter. 😡😆
never did bother me the non religious nature of our wedding. i just wanted to be with him, bas. actually i am hugely in favour of a secular marriage which is considered legally binding. not a great one for accepted modes of practically anything... that's me. born weird. but i know somewhere though jacob never ever brought it up... because he doesn't need it, but he would be delighted if there were open acceptance by his community. and yes, ma in law.
so i was happy.
my own aunts are forever telling me now i am jewish without realising how silly and erroneous that is. i am hindu. bas. that is all there is to it. in fact, being married to a jewish person made me examine my own sense of self, who i am, etc.,... and open minded as i am, individualistic as i am in the matter of my spirituality, i realised i was essentially hindu.
i used to be rather childish about most things, i still am about many things... but this decision to be with the one i felt something for has sure taught me some stuff... and it has always been interesting. essentially because my old man is kind of weird too. 😆
achcha about khushi ji, i am only mad at her because she really upset my poor asr that night, what a thing to say. and he, mad and angry, actually said what made sense. the kkg's of our duniya need to grow up a bit maybe. if you love a guy and live with him, and call yourself his patni, and pull janmashtami jhoola with him (which is imp to your heart), and if you are legally married to him as he claimed... then surely you can't say oh but we are not married properly. this insistence on rituals both asr and i are ahem nahiiin with. if rituals are that important, say so up front, do not flutter eyelash and act coy and say who speaks to one's patni like that.
but since i like asr lau kkg, i will phorgiviya, that trp and sp and ph... now thats' another matter. 😡😆
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