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Rockerchic thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
I will always blame Barun more and Gul less.

Meh.

It's a matter of preceptive not of fact. Because none of us know what actually happened let's not pretend we do.

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Posted: 12 years ago
in one sentence- " no one is perfect".
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: .nimmi.

religion is a BIG thing rima. lets not bring it here😊.
i am no one to tell you to stop or write any posts. this is a free forum. and i believe every one has a right to voice his/her opinions. good, bad or ugly. as long as it is within the perview of CC of IF. it is not anyone's moral responsibility to keep a check on what and how others should think.
if someone wants to defend someone, by all means they are free to do so. but not at the cost of putting down or questioning others who choose to think different.
i am neither defending nor critisizing those who bash. be it barun, sanaya, gul, viraf or someone else. i am simply stating a fact that... let people be.
just bcoz someone drools.. they dont become a brainless drooler.
similar way.. if someone critisizes they dont become a heartless lifeless basher.
just have to let go being so judgemental. no one can take a moral high ground here rima.
None.
Sadly Not even you.
why am i saying this here. coz gul is being critisized for being unprofessional, not comitted to job, not being clear enough, ambigious. not questioning the opinions. just wondering why it is termed as being a hater or basher when someone does the same for other party.
why all concessions, hail marys, standing ups for only One party?
i donno about you rima but i for one feel SAD at the state this once wonderfully vibrant, talented and happening forum is reduced too. if only people were more accepting. if only.

I hsvr no qualms about moral highgrounds
it is better than low levels
and pits
and standing up for one party is because
that party has been degraded for 3 months
in thread after thread
let it happen to some other person
I will do the same
if i am being judgemental
so are you now
by coming and telling me I am judgemental
so when I see hate
in its lowest darkest ebb
I feel like being judgemental
and yes
if you hate my judgements
you dont need to be a part of it
it's entirely my prerogative to keep raising my voice against it
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Rockerchic

I will always blame Barun more and Gul less.


Meh.

It's a matter of preceptive not of fact. Because none of us know what actually happened let's not pretend we do.

true
no one knows what happened
so why judge barun also?
it should be all or none
rima thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: dhijay

in one sentence- " no one is perfect".

yes agree
but the idea is to strive to be at least nice if not perfect
Banjaaran25 thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rima

I hsvr no qualms about moral highgrounds
it is better than low levels
and pits
and standing up for one party is because
that party has been degraded for 3 months
in thread after thread
let it happen to some other person
I will do the same
if i am being judgemental
so are you now
by coming and telling me I am judgemental
so when I see hate
in its lowest darkest ebb
I feel like being judgemental
and yes
if you hate my judgements
you dont need to be a part of it
it's entirely my prerogative to keep raising my voice against it

no need to be so defensive rima.
i just stated what i have been seeing for long.😊.
this is the first post of yours i have commented after months.
yup maybe i am judgemental too. i dont deny it. but then again i have seen only those posts of your which are continually questioning others.
so my apologises if i missed any other post of yours. (no sarcasm).
what is hate and being in pits?
calling a woman b****?
calling an actor a animal (giraffe)?.
abusing employees and employers of SP and PH?.
calling fellow members agents, low lifes, no lifes, goats, rats?
or many other colour stuff like that?
yes barun has been abused too. for too long. but when i dont see somone standing up at the first leg of the game .. i should be excused to think that the person wont stand up at the last leg too.
sorry again rima.
i call quits.
i guess i can finally let go.
as you said..
you dont need to be a part of it!
i dont want to be part of it. i would love to once. coz those judgements were always sound. not anymore.
my apologises rima for everything said and done.
bye😊.
Rockerchic thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: rima

true
no one knows what happened
so why judge barun also?
it should be all or none


Rima you're completely missing the point.

Your perspective is that you shouldn't judge Barun.

Mine is the opposite.

I have a right to opinion. Or is that banned now too? 😕

And please I don't appreciate being patronised.
rima thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: .nimmi.

no need to be so defensive rima.

i just stated what i have been seeing for long.😊.
this is the first post of yours i have commented after months.
yup maybe i am judgemental too. i dont deny it. but then again i have seen only those posts of your which are continually questioning others.
so my apologises if i missed any other post of yours. (no sarcasm).
what is hate and being in pits?
calling a woman b****?
calling an actor a animal (giraffe)?.
abusing employees and employers of SP and PH?.
calling fellow members agents, low lifes, no lifes, goats, rats?
or many other colour stuff like that?
yes barun has been abused too. for too long. but when i dont see somone standing up at the first leg of the game .. i should be excused to think that the person wont stand up at the last leg too.
sorry again rima.
i call quits.
i guess i can finally let go.
as you said..
you dont need to be a part of it!
i dont want to be part of it. i would love to once. coz those judgements were always sound. not anymore.
my apologises rima for everything said and done.
bye😊.

hey hiugs🤗
you overwhelmed me
In fact you made me emotional
It is rare to see people like you
who did not like what I said
and yet have the magnanimity to say
you bury the hatchet
I really feel humbled by you
I am sorry my friend
you can say it is in my nature to fight anger and hate
Because I hate the idea of hate
and am in love with the idea of peace and love
what I see happening to viraaf or gul or barun
or to forum members
is beyond myunderstanding
because I dont understand what makes people offend so much
or lash out so much
or hate so much
almost as if it is fun
because hatred is not a sport
and it is done like that of late
anyway again you humbled me
rima thumbnail
Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Rockerchic


Rima you're completely missing the point.

Your perspective is that you shouldn't judge Barun.

Mine is the opposite.

I have a right to opinion. Or is that banned now too? 😕

And please I don't appreciate being patronised.

did my post say dont judge barun?
by all means do that
he is not God
he has made mistakes
my point is dont degrade him
dont make fun of his everything
dont reduce him to a commodity to be torn to shred
maintain human dignity
not just barun
but all flesh and blood people
or is Barun made of metal ?
The disrespect shown to barun and gul
is something i wud not show to my Dog
or cat
not that they are any less worthy of respect
Rockerchic thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
Again with the patronising.

Sigh.

Please by all means continue. You trying to make me look like the bad guy over someone who gives two hoots whether i insult him or not.

Ridiculing, judgement et all comes with territory.

He may not read my criticism. But movie critics will happen, fashion police will happen and they will seem tame to what we're doing here. And then what will you do?

Ban the media? Raise it's warning level? 😆



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