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Posted: 12 years ago

jalebi

Pronunciation: /d??'le?bi/

Definition of jalebi noun (plural jalebis)
  • an Indian sweet made of a coil of batter fried and steeped in syrup.

Origin:from Hindi jalebi

Jalebi before marriage: A sweet made by Kushi when she was very worried.

Jalebi after marriage: Making love. Kushi asking Arnav- Did you make jalebi together? Referring to Sheetal

Did you know the word jailbait came from the word JALEBI? CHECK OUT THE URBAN DICTIONARY!

Prelude to Episode 30 called A Mountain of Jalebi posting later on other page.

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: indi52



and the white edged sports shoes when he ran into the guest house. back to fake hermes soon after. 🤣. but on the address thing, maybe he called akash, since he'd dropped khushi home and might have mentioned it. for all you know asr sent him in the first place?

but yes, that rain, on now off now.

however many khoons maaf. 😳


😆 just writing 29 and made a remark in there about Arnav is going to his room but he's walking toward the kitchen not the stairs! as i always say "aise bade bade shows mein aisi choti choti baatien hot rehti hai 😉"
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: AR_EternalLove

thanks for the link...


arnav is soo worried for khushi...his heart knows but his mind didnt want to accept


you hit the nail in head dear! to some level he's just frustrated b/c he has to work hard for that mind to listen to him 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: indi52

er got into a mood and wrote some thoughts on the man in another thread. long one, but wanted to share. especially, since it's the rewatch that is making me think more. 😃 and miss him more. here goes:



what made him exciting and precious was not his tortured past and the jagged edges thanks to it. there are many characters in all sorts of literature and arts who have the appeal of the cut and torn. heathcliff. othello. my little obsession, don draper. oh there are many and all of us i'm sure have a favourite or two.

what made asr beautiful to me, was the way he dealt with his share of rain, his terrible difficulties at a very young age. he faced it, fair and square. he never ran away into fantasy or try to make it better with stories and platitudes. it is true, people say they can understand what you feel, but no one can ever feel the emotions you go through when you cremate both your parents, touching them with the fire that will annihilate, end it all.

his entire sense of trust was badly shaken. his father had betrayed his mother, him and his sister too. the father is a place of trust, respect, solidity. none of that for this boy of 14. gone in a moment.

along with it, his haven of love, shelter, growth: his mother.

how terrible that his mother had killed herself because of his father's actions. his beloved mother who tried to teach her taciturn, angry, little chhotey the meaning of life, the value of conscience, of examining things, of giving the rose a chance.

he could have easily become incredibly bitter, harsh, cold. and rich and materially successful, while being drop dead good looking. oh yes, even that would have made him an exciting man, especially watching a woman break through layers of this darkness to matter like mad would be delicious.

but asr went much further than that. he did it his way.

(ok me sucker for individualistic people, do their own thing, prepared to face the consequences, but think and act according to what they feel is right, sounds familiar?)

he held the pain by its horn and charged right back at it, with all of himself, not some cut and lacerated bits of him, everything that's him, the good, the bad, the scared, the broken, the laughing, everything. he promised himself he'd make it ok for all those he loved. that trust, that respect, that solidity, he would restore all of it. he will be nothing like his father (though interestingly the writers gave him his dad's anger issues, wish they had dome something with it), he was nothing like him. he would be honest, clean, hard working, dependable.

and he would not depend on anyone else, i feel this came from the extreme sense of betrayal he felt re one person, the one he depended on, perhaps at some point even his hero, his father.

no god, kismet, fate. asr would make his own destiny himself. no problem if his di and whole family needed their bhagwan to make things happen. he wouldn't try to change them, another sign of strength in my eyes. but he would go it alone. if power and money were what mattered, he'd create enough never to have to look back. of course, there was much about life the boy had to learn, and go way beyond power and money, but his way of dealing with tragedy and his clear eyed courage in taking it all on, breathtaking. my feeling, there was lots of asr's mother and her basic positivity and integrity in his basic character. so even when he seemed harsh and terrible, some part in him always breathed and felt human. ah the guest house scene. dead.

only one concession to the turmoil, and maybe only because a part of him just ached and cried within (for which child would not want their dad to be who they thought they were), maybe that's why the closing down of his heart in one matter. women and love. arnav singh raizada ko kissi ladki se koi faraq nahin padta. a boy was keeping his hurt inside and away, while somehow trying to make amends to his mom. don't worry, i won't ever fall like that, i will always love you and di and my family with all of me. i will be there. i will not fall and become like him, your husband. no place for women inside me, no allowing them in. no getting crried away to saansey ruk jaygi moments. di, you're becoming like nirupa roy every day. a fabulous defence put up by one shattered within and trying to stay calm and strong. (all my conjectures, all may be wrong.)

by giving himself a real job to do in crisis i feel he saved himself. anger brought intensity, but he let his intelligence bring guidance.
his primary reason for going forward was not hate, it became love. for his sister. he anchored himself there, and went into the future, as its maker. this indomitable spirit and not the tortured soul is what made him so very dear to me. not just another troubled, good looker, i wanted to hold in my arms and nurse back to lau and such stuff. but a man i admired and wanted to learn from, thrilled me to hear his views on life, love, god, work, and more.

sorry, just coming out of asr deprivation tank, had to write an essay on the man. a bit all over the place, but you know this character deserves as deep a delve as any macbeth othello gora meursault heathcliff.


👏 Ok have me totally floored with this right now, BRILLIANT BRILLIANT BRILLIANT ❤️ and a big mmmuuuaaa for this. I think Barun Sobti will look back one day and say "i've done a lot of good work and really enjoyed getting all those award for all those movies, but ASR was ASR" one of the most interestingly developed characters i every came across...and ya thankfully they decided to make him drop dead gorgous, didn't hurt the attachment.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: cinthiann1758



First of all you had me at hello!!! LOL (Jerry Maguire) Unfreakinbelievable!!!
RED just love and adore it!
Blue incredible and true.
Green so cute!!!
Thanks so much for sharing and as always am drooling!!!!


THANK YOU!!!!!! ❤️ oh that jerri maguire line...all time fav of mine :)

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Katelyn

I hope you don't mind if I call you Ami!!
Ami, I so enjoyed reading your analysis and I especially love the purple parts! Awesome job! 👏 The entire episode was truly MAGICAL! And yes, from this point forward every time he hurt Khushi, his heart hurts ten thousand times more! This is really the first episode where ASR became Arnav displaying such tenderness and wonderment toward Khushi! With her state of unconscious, Arnav was able to come out of his shell with just this vulnerable man completely in awe of this beauty! His world will never be the same again! Both have left a permanent mark on each other!
Major drools over your drool corner!! 🤢 😳 He was completely breathtaking in the entire epi so I sympathize with your dilemma regarding which frames to include! I couldn't take my eyes off of him! Bravo to the entire cast, crew, director, cvs, cinematography, etc... 👏


Yes PLZ call me Ami 😃
thanks sooo much for you input, ur the best🤗! i agree ASR will never be the same, every time ASR will try to supress Arnav, with Khushi's help Arvnav will emerge with double the fore! 😉 yes he did just look too good :) he was drooling over khushi while we were drooling over him 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: indi52



and the white edged sports shoes when he ran into the guest house. back to fake hermes soon after. 🤣. but on the address thing, maybe he called akash, since he'd dropped khushi home and might have mentioned it. for all you know asr sent him in the first place?

but yes, that rain, on now off now.

however many khoons maaf. 😳


Yes Indi IPK is full of BLOOPERS but still ruling our hearts even after DEPARTURE.Indeed its hard to say Good bye.The address thing I think She was working at his office and HE was very much into Knowing her whereabouts through Contract must know that.OR our famous AMAN "hye hasrat un ghunchun pe jo bin khile murjha gaye" (wanted to see him and what we got at the end ---) had done that😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
Sibling love was evident in the episode
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: cinthiann1758

Episode 29

Scarred

scar 1 (skr)

n.

1. A mark left on the skin after a surface injury or wound has healed.

2. A lingering sign of damage or injury, either mental or physical: nightmares, anxiety, and other enduring scars of wartime experiences.

3. Botany A mark indicating a former attachment, as of a leaf to a stem.

4. A mark, such as a dent, resulting from use or contact.

v. scarred, scarring, scars

v.tr.

1. To mark with a scar.

2. To leave lasting signs of damage on: a wretched childhood that scarred his psyche.

GH-Unconscious Kushi on the bed. Payal says, " Kushi open your eyes." Shyam goes to get a Doctor.

RM- ASR walks in. Nani- "Chote, where were you?". He stops exasperated. Di- "Chote?" He holds out his hand to stop her from saying anymore and she sees his wound. She jumps to her mother role and calls for the first aid kit while he tells her "it is only a scratch. I am going to my room , I want to be alone."

Oh, no, dear ASR, that tiny wound has left you deeply scarred.

Nani is adamant to find out where he abruptly left to and continues with her badgering. "You've gone to meet HER! " Nani, if I wanted to meet Lavanya, I would." But he didn't want to, he wanted to save Kushi! " I had an emergency and I left."

GH- Shyam pulling the Doctor out of the clinic to see Kushi and he is threatening him. Do you think this Shyam guy cares about her?

RM- ASR in his room. He looks besides himself. He looks at the wound'which has deeply scarred him. He relives the scenes of the guesthouse incident'.holding her wrists, moving the hair from her face, wiping the lone tear from her eye'

It gets the best of him. He sinks onto the bed. He can't stop looking at the small wound on his hand, the reminder of what he has done. He touches the wound, just maybe he will feel her. He has been deeply scarred in his heart.

GH- The doctor has treated Kushi and Shyam asks his forgiveness, saying he was very worried. Buaji hears this and it registers in her head'hmmm'.maybe'..

RM- Chote comes to Nani. Nani beckoned him and asks him questions, which he says he doesn't want to talk about. Anjali shakes her head pleading to Nani not to push him. Anjali knows her brother well. Nani reminds him that she is his grandmother and not his enemy. She knows what is best for him and this family. ASR retorts with, "But, some decisions good or bad, are taken by the person himself, because hasty decisions never end well." He is not just talking about this situation but the decision he had made to send Kushi to the guesthouse. Di interjects and he turns around saying,"Di, please, I don't want to talk about Kushi at this point!"

OOPS! Everyone is shocked to hear her name! First slip, he realizes what he did! He purses his lips, he rolls his eyes back and forth, thinking why did I do that. "I mean Lavanya." A fast recovery.

GH- Scene: ASR is pushing Kushi's hair behind her ear. Payal: "Kushi?" She wakes startled..."NEH!" Payal:"Kushi?!" She holds her head, dazed. Shyam asks if she is ok. She is holding her head, dazed still. Buaji asks her if she hurt her head? Kushi turns to Payal and ask how did she get there. She doesn't remember anything! (She wishes!) Payal, "HE brought you home". Kushi relives the guesthouse incident, still holding her head and we see her getting visibly upset, I thought she didn't remember. She looks at her wrist and becomes even more distressed. Payal takes note and asks her did he misbehave with you? Kushi shakes her head, NO. Payal relieved. "It's not that."She tells the story'.

"When she went to the office he was very angry with me. He sent me to the guesthouse which was under construction, the roof was about to collapse and I was all alone in building and couldn't get out. There was no one to hear me. I was very frightened'"

Kushi has been deeply scarred.

Buaji, like a prizefighter motions like she will beat up ASR. "How dare he torture you? I will teach him a lesson he will never forget Is he human or a demon/ Rakshaas!" Payal says he's an idiot! LOL😆(protective big sis are not to be underestimated)

Shyam insists she should quit this job. Why would she want to work for a person like him. "Am I right, Kushiji?"

Her face saddens, she is in deep thought. Although she has been scarred deeply, there is something...'something... about what he just said doesn't feel right.

RM- The discussion continues among the Raizada's. "This is not so simple. You can't leave the family for the sake of love. I wanted you to be more responsible. I hope you understand what I am telling you."

Open the door of the past'

"Your parents.."

Chote- "Nani, please, I don't want to talk about it."

Nani-" I know you and Anjali don't like me to talk about it but you can't hide the truth. LOVE IS DESTRUCTION." Mami rolls her eyes; is Nani talking about her? Maybe, but not right now, there is something else. "He ruined a wedding, a family and took someone else's life."

ASR responds," I don't believe in love. I know what I am doing. What you call love has no place in my life. I say this because I don't trust anyone but me!"

Nani- "Chote, easy for you to say but I knew you would choose the wrong girl but I won't let that happen. You will do as I say. Break up with that girl. That's it!!!"

ASR is going to leave a scar on Nani next.

ASR-" I am telling you something you are not going to want to hear. I will not part with Lavanya nor will I marry her because I don't believe in marriage. I want to live my life according to my terms, my own rules."

OUCH that hurt.

He leaves. Everyone in shock.

ASR room- He is reminiscing, ( I am not sure this is the right word), about Kushi'her in the rain, her in the red saree, the wrist incident, laying her on the bed, Buaji tending to her wounded wrist '. He slams the closet door. It's just too much. Scars run deep.

Anjali comes and interrupts him and his pity party and deep feelings of guilt. "Chote?" He quickly responds with, "Di, I am not hungry, leave me alone." She says how can she leave him alone? She knows he is worried and she knows who he is thinking about. ASR-"Di, I do not think of Kushi." OOPS, again he slips. He turns his back to her. His face and eyes show he is wondering whether he has given himself away . Has he betrayed himself. Di shocked, "Kushi? I was thinking Lavanya. What happened to Kushi, Chote? Are you going to tell me? Okay you are stubborn. You won't tell your sister, nor eat." Loving his sister like he does, he turns back, grabs the food and sits on the bed and starts eating. She asks to feed him and he hands over the dish to her. (This is a beautiful example of the mighty ASR surrendering, as Chote, to his sister, whom he loves and trusts.) "Since you are eating now tell me what happened". He still is staring. He looks like such a damaged little boy. A man who has been scarred for life, it seems from his past and his present. "Are the vegetables made well?" He says, "yes". "Then for their sake of them, tell me what happened. Don't you trust me?" She places her hand on his shoulder; almost sensing her support, that little scarred boy turns and looks at his sister.

GH- Kushi is having a nightmare of the incident. She wakes and looks at her wrist. That certainly is going to leave a scar if it hasn't already!

GH- living room, Payal, Shyam and Buaji. Buaji worried about her livewire who has become complacent and dull. Bang! Clang! The sound is coming from inside the kitchen perhaps? They all go in to see'...to be cont'd

Get the bandaids!

Two poor scared souls, try as they might, that scar will not got away! AMAZING as always, loved the scar theme. added a few comments beside some of the highlights.

LOVE in PURPLE

BRILLIANT in BLUE

Laughs in GREEN!

also to answer your question, not need to shorten! whatever come to you about IPK in your mind and soul we want to know it all!!❤️

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I just became Goldie after inishing your post.Just noticed.😊


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