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Posted: 12 years ago
#41
A well written post and much needed one
Yes I don't mind him going or movies but then why not one out clean from the very first day ? Ok I understand that he may be bounded by some. Contract but then he can always avoid commenting about it..why give contradictory answers ? No one forced him to comment a simple "no comments" would have avoided this entire blame,petitions,interviews,unnecessary hatred between fans and what not...and he could have commented after SPL ...his true status...
Now if barun wants to go in BW then he needs to develop his PR skills urgently ...otherwise he may not be able to survive in a meaner world like BW...

And sometime e's I so wish that all this could have been avoided..this abrupt ending for a couple like Arshi...PH could have utilized the two month notice period to close the loops and to give it a justified ending rather than the one we will be getting today...
Compare the starting episode and the spoilers of the ending one and know the difference...

This is surely not the ending and love sTory and actor which I signed up for...it's true nothing remains constant ..
Edited by shreya0305 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#42
U know Zehra now I think the PH was testing water with the " story has run its course" thing that if people still wanted the show to continue then they will bring in a new character... At first they wanted to replace him but with all the uproar they gave Arnav an end and turned the actor into a new character hence the news that Barun was giving tips to the actor... In my opinion SP came to know abt the whole scenario very late and the quitting arrangement was decided between the actor and PH or may be SP knew but acted upon the huge outcry to keep him... It got ugly when SP must have come to known abt Ekta's involvement in the scenario although I don't think it was a big thing in entertainment industry as Barun ditched a show at the last minute for this show so I don't think work ethics apply here... Anyway things started to become uglier by the second when the phangirls started to show their muscles by creating unnecessary hysteria in this otherwise simple issue... Personally I didn't mind him not telling his future projects as nobody does that in this industry but the only thing he could have done right was to say I am leaving the show and nothing can change my mind and Gul should have given it a proper ending or they should have brought in the replacement regardless of anybody and given this sow a chance at least to see if it can hold audience interest or not.

But for me this whole fiasco indicates towards a bigger reality that what power media has to influence people's minds and his can it alter their judgement and cloud their sensibility... All these body language issues and reading of eyes issues I guess sobti was not ready to handle this kind of adulation and the responsibility that came with it and he messed up big time... Just a simple truth would have saved everybody a lot trouble if he could have said I am quitting bcz of xyz reason and that's it, and all this mess could have been avoided but I think it was a publicity gimmick from his movie house to gain maximum benefit out of his popularity how much they have succeeded only time will tell.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#43
Loved ur post!! Awesome. I think some ppl really need a reality check. Bt still here nobody is 2 be blamed since da chaos is created by Barun Sobti himself . Since da month of September he has lied 2 his fans. Dose ppl 4 whom he is famous, 4 whom he got da ekta movie offer.
Okay here some ppl r saying he m8 not be able 2 say nething since he is under contract, bt dere was no need 4 him 2 say dat he is on a longish break. He shud hav said dt he is quitting. He didnt hav 2 say abt movie offers.
I still feel bad bcoz I hav been let down by an actor whom I admired 4m da beginning of dis month jst bcoz of his lies. If he didnt lie, da situation wud hav been different 2day.

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Posted: 12 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: fahad1979

please leave him alone

why everyone blaming on him

its fan that did not want see another asr or another love story

With khushi

from 1.5 years we watch a love story between arnav and khushi

arnav is barun and khushi is sanaya

its hard to accept another man as asr

the makers already lost their interest in ipkknd therefore from 8th month they ruined the story

if they not then why they run story so fast from remarriage track

yes fans says that end the show with barun arshi

because they did not want to ruin beautiful mummeries

we are not barun fan we are arshi fans

arshi means barun and sanaya

Whatever it is ...he should not have lied...as Zehra said " he should have been honest"...it would saved a lot of people a lot of chaos and also that jobs...(200 people..at such short notice)..
I don't hate him...but cant be his fan as i used to be...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#45

Take a bow!! I wanted to do this!! And you did it far better than I could have done!!
thanks yaar:-)

I feel immensely disappointed with this deception!!!

And in the end all of us lost the beautiful deserving end we should have had for this magical show!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#46
His one lied proved to be fatal fr the whole team...I must say its the most selfish act...dunno why ppl blaming SP n Ph like any thing, but nt Barun! fr me he is the biggest culprit!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#47
Just imagine if he had told us that he will be leaving...the forum would have gone crazy...whatever he did was pretty fair. Atleast due to his words we were able to enjoy those episodes. Wht don't you think that it would have been def PH's request to him not to let out for sure.As we din't give them any peace whatever decision they have taken now is correct.Even the word Longish Break would have been told by PH. When we started to complain, that to directly to the channel, they came with the word QUIT. Afterwards everything is HISTORY.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#48
I'll quote molten_lava here:


"Barun didn't lie at any point. Let's just say he was politically correct. When he said he doesn't have any movie projects, we don't know what time frame he was referring to. It is subjective. He may have a project after few months. But right now, he doesn't have any. So if he denies it, is it wrong? Discussing about a future project and bagging it has a huge difference. He cannot say he is doing a movie if he is only in talks with the producer. If we make an effort to see from his POV, he is right. And he himself has said that he may hide things but he never lies. There's a difference between the two.

And no, I'm not defending him as a crazy fangirl. I'm just trying to explain stuff logically."


A post which might give you few answers :
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3319061


Its just my POV.


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Posted: 12 years ago
#49
U want him to be honest. With whom dear? The so called fan girls???? I am not talking about u dear there r thousands and thousands of fans love ASR than Barun. They want him to stay in IPKKD forever. I even read a post saying he is not a saint he is selfish and just for money he is leaving the show and chose movies. So according to those ppl whoever move ahead in they career are selfish and whoever stay in same position forever are saint😊. WAt perspective they have. When I asked the same question to her she told I have no sense coz I am his fan girl. WAt the... So u want him to be honest with these ppl??? When we heard the rumor 2 months back u saw the reaction of his fans. Right? How many ppl were ready to accept that??? We decide our future or our profession. Everyone move ahead when they get good opportunities. When we heard about him doing that many ppl called him selfish/ unprofessional. He cant do it coz IPKKD made him. Does it mean he should stay here foever ????? Did anyone wish him to move ahead ppl even wish his MAMR movie should flop. Now u blaming him he is not honest. He has to be honest with his loved ones and the ppl who support him. When his so called fans don't have the mind to accept his transition from Arnav to other character WAt u want him to do then?? Ppl who bash him will always do that and ppl who support will always be there.
I am not blaming u dear. I am talking about so many fans who were not ready to accept him leaving the show. Even now ppl posting 'Braun plz come back... Even when he mentioned that he really need a break and need sometime for his personal life' do u think these pll can accept if he say the truth?????
To be frank first time wen I heard him leaving the show I was like " Good. finally he is moving to the next level" I was really happy for him. But later all these drama blaming Gul SP. etc etc happened. even i felt everything is coz of GUL. He didnt say anything against Gul. I wonder how all of a sudden all of his fans had their own source to give updates????

I don't think he has signed any new projects till now. May be he is an planning to take something thats y he left the TV its really difficult to balance both same time. (he also mentioned how he had his shoot during MAMR movie). He may sign movies in future after his break. I am looking forward to it. I don't think he should be honest with the pll who don't support him personal and professional life. And ppl who support him can definitely understand his position.

Sorry for the mistakes actually iam messaging from my phone so bear with me :)

Edited by shalinii173 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: freefalling

"eyes will only see what they want to see"
Most of the fans didn't want to see the truth ...But you know "Truth is always out there"


That what i kept on saying ever since Zee was bashed
"People will only believe what the y want to"

Delusional much...

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