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Nishita Rao

@Nishitarao

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Let me be very honest.

I would be devastated. I am married and I cannot even think of the possibility of my husband having an illegitimate child. I don't know what I would do. Either I would leave him (It is not as easy as they make it look in movies) or try to accept the kid as a part of our lives(not gonna be easy esp if the mother is involved). I don't know yaar. I can't answer this question unless I'm actually going through it. And god knows I don't want ever go through it. Nor see any real life woman going through it.

I don't mind Khushi going through it coz she doesn't exist.

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Dhanu

@LuvuKhushi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

nice post.. lets see everyone's reaction...

I am neither married nor in a relationship.

but i just wanna share what i feel... that i would have done...

if my husband has a kid in his past... that too if it was an accident...if he was not aware of this and doesn't have any idea even 0.000001% of this kid... if it was planned by the othr girl without his knowledge...when he drunk or sumthing...

i cant blame him ... it was not his fault...

if he goes to anthr girl after marriage... thats a fault which no one can accept... i am really possesive with my loved ones...i cant even accept if he sees anthr girl or admire anyone...hehe

in this situation... he didnt betray me... he didnt fool me...

but at the same time...it will be so hard for me to accept this...

neither i will be angry at him nor i will live with him peacefully...

after such an incident...i really think i cant live with him...

i am a person who forgive anyone easily but never forgets...

even if i accept him... i will keep on thinking about it and that will ruin our life...

i will just walk away... but understand onething... i will never hate him coz he loves me..only me..i was the only love of him...

i will love him too till i die but i cant accept that and live with him...

dont know...may be after sum days ...months or even aftr many years... time may change everything.. i may get mature and accept him... but i am not sure...

I really wish and hope this should never happen in real life...not only to me...for any girl on this earth...

Edited by LuvuKhushi - 12 years ago

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Dhanu

@LuvuKhushi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Nishitarao
Let me be very honest.

I would be devastated. I am married and I cannot even think of the possibility of my husband having an illegitimate child. I don't know what I would do. Either I would leave him (It is not as easy as they make it look in movies) or try to accept the kid as a part of our lives(not gonna be easy esp if the mother is involved). I don't know yaar. I can't answer this question unless I'm actually going through it. And god knows I don't want ever go through it. Nor see any real life woman going through it.
I don't mind Khushi going through it coz she doesn't exist.

i agree evrything but not the last line...

i dnt want this to happen for khushi too... it may be reel but i cant see her in pain...

i dont want this to happen in anyone's life...for us and also for khushi...

I love this girl to the core and it will hurt me allot...She is my Angel..

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Dhanu

@LuvuKhushi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: gopikaaji
I'm a married woman...if i'm in khushi's shoe ...definitely it will hurt me...and for a hus like ASR..beyond hurt the truth is i love him and i know the extend that he loves me ...i surly stand by him and help him to take over the situation...never ever leave ... i know he can't live with out me ...i too can't live without him...also i know he is responsible and honest ...gradually but sure he take his son as his responsibility..but he can't happy with other woman ... so i accept his son..and be happy in our life...

i can accept in life but not in fiction ...for me i love ASR ..if khushi is special for ASR ...then ASR is so so special ...so possessive about ARshi ... having a kid from ASR is only Khushi's right ...no Arav or sheetal can come between them ...THATS IT...

may be mein pagal hu..but its a truth

wooow you are amazing and your hubby is very lucky... 👏 👏 👏