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Tia.0

@Tia.0

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Posted: 12 years ago

#41

If I find out that my husband has a kid from a previous relationship that he did not know about, I will set some ground rules.

Divorce is out of the question if we truly love each other. What I DON'T want to happen,

1. The other woman doing job at my husband's company. If she is as talented employee as my husband thinks she is, she can get a job elsewhere. My husband is not the only employer. And I want my husband to tell her to look for job elsewhere.

2. The other woman moving in my home any freaking way. The child can visit but the other woman stay out.

3. My husband to change his attitude or behavior towards me in any way due to this revelation. I want my husband to behave as lovey dovey with me as he always is in front of everyone including the other woman making very clear that her being the child's mother makes no difference to him whatsoever.

4. My husband to make it clear that while he will be a dad to the child, I'm his life and wife. So everyone in his family should behave with the other woman as nothing more than a guest. There is no way, I will tolerate my husband to do anything couple like with the other woman.

Edited by tia.o - 12 years ago

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Dhanu

@LuvuKhushi

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: sana50
if i would be in Khushi's place
i would have accept that child

woow great... nice human being...

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Srilatha

@Srilathalolla

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Posted: 12 years ago

#43

I am with you. I am a married women and I can understand what Khushi is thinking. For Khushi the whole world will come to a stop.

And If I am in a situation then he did not inform me about it so I consider it as cheating.Secondly if the women wanted that kid and she is all happy then go to hell dont come into my life and spoil it but I am not a great human as many of them here I will not be in a position to accept the kid.

I will ask him to choose 1 and if he choose me then that women and the kid should not even meet him or talk to him.

Coming to the serial I dont want Aarav to be Arnav's Son and I think the CV's will also show the same .

Edited by Srilathalolla - 12 years ago

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bepatient

@bepatient

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#44

Difficult as hell to imagine oneself in such a situation in real life !!! If I were Khushi, who had a traditional upbringing and doesn't accept relationships outside of marriage, it should devastate me. It will make me break down inside. I will sob and sob till no end. I will probably try and distance myself from him for my own sanity. All this is huge if i didnt know of his relationship status before marriage.

but at the same time, from the show's view point this khushi knew about Arnav's mind set and his beliefs before her marriage to him. She definitely had a inclination of la's and Arnav's intimacy level . I am not sure if that should matter but I feel it might not be as big a shock to know that Arnav and sheetal were in an intimate relationship. But yet it will still be a heartbreak to know that they had a child thru that intimacy.

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Aisha

@MOTHERHOOD

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 12 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: LuvuKhushi
nice post.. lets see everyone's reaction...

I am neither married nor in a relationship.
but i just wanna share what i feel... that i would have done...

if my husband has a kid in his past... that too if it was an accident...if he was not aware of this and doesn't have any idea even 0.000001% of this kid... if it was planned by the othr girl without his knowledge...when he drunk or sumthing...

i cant blame him ... it was not his fault...
if he goes to anthr girl after marriage... thats a fault which no one can accept... i am really possesive with my loved ones...i cant even accept if he sees anthr girl or admire anyone...hehe

in this situation... he didnt betray me... he didnt fool me...
but at the same time...it will be so hard for me to accept this...
neither i will be angry at him nor i will live with him peacefully...

after such an incident...i really think i cant live with him...
i am a person who forgive anyone easily but never forgets...
even if i accept him... i will keep on thinking about it and that will ruin our life...

i will just walk away... but understand onething... i will never hate him coz he loves me..only me..i was the only love of him...
i will love him too till i die but i cant accept that and live with him...

dont know...may be after sum days ...months or even aftr many years... time may change everything.. i may get mature and accept him... but i am not sure...

I really wish and hope this should never happen in real life...not only to me...for any girl on this earth...

I loved your reply.It was too touching.😭

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cutebreeze

@cutebreeze

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: sana50
if i would be in Khushi's place
i would have accept that child

if the kid wants both his father and mother together means what u do

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Dhanu

@LuvuKhushi

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: mskani

if the kid wants both his father and mother together means what u do

omg...what a question boss???? love to reply you... 😊

no one can accept kid's mother... 😡 😡 😡

then kid has to leave Pappa and live with his mom...

he may live few days here and few days with mom...

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Aisha

@MOTHERHOOD

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 12 years ago

#48

I will not accept the kid.I am not so selfless.And accepting the mother is a big No.

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cutebreeze

@cutebreeze

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: ItIsMyLife
I will not accept the kid.I am not so selfless.And accepting the mother is a big No.

ditto, anywayz i like your posts even i first search ur posts when i enter the forum, may be u are younger than me but ur thoughts are very very impressive